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help!!
last spring, i did 69 with a guy i dont even know. i know his name, we go to the smae school, but we havent talked since. i am embarrased everytime i see him, becasue i was drunk when we did it so i didnt really realize what i was doing. he stares at me alot, and his freinds say that he likes me, should i stay away? hes not my type.
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how old were you? it doesnt seem like he likes you..it seem like he wants to do it again. wen yah drunk yah dont think and it was fucked up for him to do tht wen he new you ere drunk..he just awanted sum..dont talk to this kid he seem like all he wants is sex..and even if yah dont wanna have it w/ him again..and your w/ him..he mite try n get you to like b drunk again and then he'll ruin your lyfe.
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when your drunk u pretty much act on pure feelings if u where high dats diff but u should at least talk 2 him and tell him it was a mistake
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go for it there is nothing you could do just go for it its like jumping in a pool of cold water you have to take the first pludge
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Just avoid him, but don't be weirded out or ashamed. Everyone experiments sexually and you were just having fun. In the future, carry some condoms with you in these situations in case things get any hairier than just oral sex. Be safe.
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I guess when you did 69 with him he might not of not known you were drunk and may have took you doing 69 with him as a sighn that you like him. I think you should tell him that your not really interested in him and that you were drunk when yall did that( maybe you should leave out the drunk part) but anyways it's best to let him know how you feel and i guess atleast once you've talked to him you won't be embarrassed every time you see him.
**hoped i hepled** :)
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If you don't want to talk to him then just try to be friends with him or just get to know him so that you wont feel tht bad about what you did. or just don't say anything to him but whatever makes you feell better
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Ok dude, this is what I would suggest you do. Really find out what is going through his mind and get the real story on if he likes you or not, etc. My motto is "Believe half of what you see and none of what you hear." By the sounds of it you are just going by what you are hearing from friends. Although this info can be true, you never know. If he is not your type and don't want to talk to him anymore then do not waste you time with him. But if you would like to be friends, even if he's not your type then I would find out what is really going on. Find out if he really does have feelings for you, find out if what happened was a true feeling between both of you or not, etc. Maybe once you get talking, you might find out you like him more than you know. Really I would not make the decision to go and not talk to him or not just yet. Let me know if you need more help / advice. Hope things work out the best for you. :)
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--> When your drunk you do crazy shit <--
One lesson is learn from your mistakes, and if this guy honestly wont stop staring at you and his friend is telling the truth, and you have no feelings for him whatsoever, than you need to tell him how YOU feel, so this wont get outta hand, and you definetly dont want him thinking you may have feelings back since what you did with him might have meant "something" to him..
Hope l helped!
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Yes, I definantly think you should stay away from him. Who cares if he likes you, you dont like him, you said he's not your type. Plus no offence he might even be trying to get out w/ u to use you. I mean you drank when "it" happened, who knows what he could have thought after that. well, unless you like him and really want to be with him, stay away, stay far away! Hope I could help!
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well.. do u like him? does he just like you to get in your pants again? take into consideration what it is that Y0U WANt.. nobody else can help you with that.. when u decide what it is you think u need to do about it.. (stay away or keep in touch) then i can help u out ;D! so get at me laterr!
hope i helped!
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well maybe become friends with him, seeing how you did suck his dick. But i'd say just let him know you were drunk and if you were sober that you wouldnt have done that. tell him you wanna be friends but hes not your type in a guy that you'd want to date. I'm sure he'll understand best wishes
-holly-
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