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ok so i am 13 years old and i have been since november 16. I am really self concious about my breasts because like all my friends are a size A and i dont even think if i am a size AA (i've never tried one though) I mean when you read this you might think that i actually have breasts but they are small. But i acutally really dont. I have only 2 small like bumps when i look at myself in the mirror. and when i look at myself from the side in a mirror it is literally flat. nothing sticking out. And i have had my period since July. please help! (link)
well i think that you should give it time thats all i have to say you are 13 you have almost 14 more years until they STOP growing so you are coming right along with the puberty state


i have a friend who cuts, she hasnt since the summer but today she came into shcool and told me one of my other really good friends and one of her really good friends and made us sweare we wouldnt tell anyone or shed kill us type of thing.....the whole thing is me and my friend dont know exactly how we should help her we know she wants the help but we cant figure out how to...is there anyone with any experience with this that has any sugestions that worked? were all really confsued as to how to solve this and we know that we cant force her to get help but sugest it and jsut be there for her and tlak to her but there has to be somthing more we can do (link)
just go up to her and tell her that you don't think it is write to cut and that she should stop and if it persists you should go and tell on her not for you its just she needs the help


Okay I am crying as I write this but I am a Advicenator and I need advice...

My Ex Boyfriend Sam and I went out for 9 months and the relationship went fine and the break up was mutual but lately all we seem to do is fight and the fights are usuaally his doing...weather he talks about his new intrest (I know she is not his girlfriend because I have friends that know more than Sam does) or talk about things that he KNOWS that will upset me and provoke me to hang up on him or cry. Please help me to get to have a better friendship with him and I still like him like I did when we went out.

Age: 21
Gender: Female (link)
just ask him why he does it and then tell him THAT YOU DON"T LIKE IT and you don't think that he should do that


my cat is verry wild. she never comes when she is called .she always gets hurt and im scared shell get killed out in the woods behind my house.what should i do to keep her safe?
thanks, sk8r gurl 12 (link)
keep her locked up in the house just like i do mine but if you want to let her out you can't really control any cat at all


hey i asked for the blessed be the name lyrics thats really awesome your a christian..i love to talk bout God and my faith Issiah 64;1 o that u would burst from the heavens and the mountains would tremble b4 u

my column is pinKJ if u ever have any questions (link)
that is cool theres a song called did you feel the mountains tremble that is based on that verse i think sonic flood sings it


Well.. i'm dating this kid named Eric and I really like Eric, hes like a really good friend of mine. We started dating on Tuesday, and now I just don't like him as a boyfriend anymore. Everytime I date a guy I can't seem to like them more then 2 days, Is there something wrong with me?? Is this normal? Should I keep dating Eric.. or do you think I actually don't like him?? * (link)
no it is noramal you should and if it persists you should just tell him you don't feel the passion


well I met this guy and I really liked him, but he was here for a visit from Califorina, we dated while he was here, but now that he is back home what do I do ?????? Can we keep our realtionship over the internet and my mail, or what???? PLZ HELP ME IM CONFUSED (link)
no long distance realatonships NEVER work beleave me it may not be the best to do but you have to

BUTT if you feel you are able to handle that you should. GO FOR IT


this guy i really like his name is david. he is soo kewl and very adorable. i sit next to him in lunch and also in another one of my classes. well a couple days ago he told me that he was transferring to a different school. I dont want him to go tho! no one does. everyone including me will miss him so much. i really really like him but like i said never got the guts to tell him. i wanna tell him before he leaves tho. what should i do? (link)
just tell him he'll understand if it is true love it will work out maybe not NOW but sometime it will work out

Just ask him


does anyone know the lyrics to blessed be the name? (link)
kool im suprised that a christian is on here i thought i was the only on sure

Blessed Be Your Name
In the land that is plentiful
Where Your streams of abundance flow
Blessed be Your name

Blessed Be Your name
When I'm found in the desert place
Though I walk through the wilderness
Blessed Be Your name

Every blessing You pour out
I'll turn back to praise
When the darkness closes in, Lord
Still I will say

Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be Your name
Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be Your glorious name

Blessed be Your name
When the sun's shining down on me
When the world's 'all as it should be'
Blessed be Your name

Blessed be Your name
On the road marked with suffering
Though there's pain in the offering
Blessed be Your name

Every blessing You pour out
I'll turn back to praise
When the darkness closes in, Lord
Still I will say

Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be Your name
Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be Your glorious name

Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be Your name
Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be Your glorious name

You give and take away
You give and take away
My heart will choose to say
Lord, blessed be Your name


ok there are two girls... there is this one kind of a teensy bit cute girl at my school who likes me...but every1 thinks she is butt ugly.
there is also this hot girl who everyone thinks is ugly but i think she is rly nice and cute. i liked her in 5th grade but she didnt like me.
who should i like??? (link)
go with the one that is nice and cute who cares what other people think its about you and your heart where that leads you is your own place!!!!!!


okay i find out my friend asked this guy i like if he liked me. and so the guy said did Britney put u up 2 this and she was like no! so she said he was smirking i guess when she was denying that i asked if he liked me1 so does or should this give me a clue? and also i din't tell my friend 2 tell him so what should i do? (link)
i think he personal does but if it is true love and you really like him you MUST find a way to find out tell his friend to like go and ask him use there friends but make sure you are good friends with that one friend first!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Hey, i was wondering if you guys coulg give me your own opion on this...

what do u think about big age differences between people? like what is the highest age difference you can go out with. Hope i make sence here. you kno like auston ketcher and that peoson hes dating how shes way older then him.

thanks

i rate

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if you are like 13 and going out with a 15 to 17 year old i think that is okay but if it is like over 21 then i think you are gettig in over your head but you are both over 21 its okay if it is with in 20 years of age but if it is true love it will happen NO matter what the age


okay .. well i reall like this kid .. but he doesn't know - we just met this year b.c we sit next to each other and we started tlking in class and stuff and he flirts i guess .. and he's always like r u going to the homecoming dance friday? and he's always bringing it up and i jst say i dunno .. y .. and he's jst like oh .. well i dont know if he's trying to ask me if he wants to go and like just can't do it - i really like him .. but i don' wanna simply b like do u like me? b.c i usually do but this is diff - and none of my friends kno him b.c he's a yr older and only one friend does but like he's a guy and ould be stupid about it if i asked him to ask him .. so like i need help on how to try and find out if he likes me and wants to go to homecoming

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just ask stick up the guts and ask him if he will go out with you


I really really like this guy at my school and well all my friends know n i think he does too but I'm not sure. He knows cuz my friends asked him if he would ever consider going out with me and he said no. And i told tht to my friend whoz a guy n he said hez not gonna say yes 2 ur friends even if he did like u...but i have this guys phone number n s/n(he hasn't been on since last year). but i am really really scared to call n plus i would feel strange...but what can i do to try to get him to like me atleast as a friend? (link)
just ask him if he wants to hangout and maybe he will be good with that and then you will be friends like you all soo hope to be with him so sometimes you have to make the first steps boy's don't all ways do it first


ok my parents always fite about something that i do wrong. I dont no what to do! i get so upset bc it seems like they are goin to split up. How can i tell if they are goin to or not???
PLZ HELP ME ANYONE!~!~!~! (link)
my parents did split up and you can never really tell when they are going to split up it all really depends on how much they see each other and talk with each other and if the that dosent work i don't know what to tell you srry if i didn't help


does anyone know a website that can help me with translating french to english?!...or if there is anyone on this website that can help me!! (link)
babelfish.altavista.com/ translate.dyn
www.google.com/language_tools
www.tranexp.com:2000/InterTran


Hi, i'm sad cause my dog is the nicest one on earth. but he's sad cause we had another dog and we had to give her away. its horrible i cant stand it. my mom wont let me get another dog. wut should i do?-Caitlan (link)
i don't know what to do in your case butt i would say to give him alot of attion and buy him a new toy or a chew treat



i am having a big b'day party this year. this one gurl on my bus, i invited her. i just told her about it b/c the other gurls were talking bout it. and my mom hates her. i dont know how to tell her she can't come? can yall help me?
i will rate you. (link)
tell her that she can't go or if you are good with lieing tell her that the party is over or if you are a mean person tell her you just plain out can't come to the party


Hi, i have a friend who has bad b/o. I'm not that kind of person who can say "Would u mind putting on some deoderent?" I could never do that to a friend. I was wondering if anyone could tell me how to tell her without hurting her feelings. Please my b-day party is coming up and shes coming, i dont want to afend my other friends. Please, I really need some help. (link)
just tell her if she is a real friend she'll under stand just say like did you buy bad perfume or something


Hi, there is this guy i like and i think he mite like me cuz we danced a lot, about a month ago, and he sorta follows me around school and one time he and his friends were sorta all lookin at me and pushin him towards me almost. anyway, i wanna go and try and talk to him but im really shy and he is too. Is there a way i can start up a good convo wit him and keep it goin, cuz heh doesn't talk much..tnx (link)
just ask him out be like hay i know you arn't you in my (one class)




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