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Q: I just moved to this new school. The problem is I still like this other boy from my old school. i know i may never see him again... but i still like him and i'm the only one who knows it. What should i do?

Try to find someone new at your new school... but if you still like the old boy, that's okay too! Does he have a screen name? You could somehow try to get it and talk to him online... and if you ever feel like you can't move on, then you're not alone. Sometimes there aren't always "other fish in the sea"... don't worry if you can't get over this boy at your old school. I know just how you feel!

Q: Hey, I'm stuck in this bad situation. I like two guys. Well, one guy I like is really sexual, like I've never done anything with him, of course since I'm only 14.. And the other guy well hes like great, he always calls me beautiful and really cares for me but always says that I like the other guy. Who would you choose? I think I have an idea, but I'm not so sure. Thanks!

I personally would pick the one who calls you beautiful and really cares for you... but it's really all up to you! Pick the one who makes you the happiest!

Q: ok, i have a boyfriend. and i thought i loved him to death. but the other day i was at this club thing. and me and this other guy who is a good friend, we started flirting like crazy. and i realized i have feelings for him. and then later he told me he had feelings for me. he doesnt know i like him too though. but i don't know if i should stick with my boyfriend cause i truly do adore him or should i give this other guy a try bcuz hes so nice and everything.

Pick the one that you love the most. And if that's the boyfriend that you have now, then I would stay with but still tell him that you have feelings for this other guy because it wouldn't be fair for you to lead him on like that. Hope I helped!

Q: Hey every1,
This is miSSc and I need some advice about my singing...I can sing, but my vocal range (singing range) is kinda limited and my voice cracks sometimes when I go high. I know most of you will say that I should get voice lessons but...I don't have time for one. I use to take lessons but I had to give up because I started not having time for one. So...got any tips? I want to improve my "chest" voice. The highest note I can hit is a high "C" but I want to go higher with out straining my voice and not cracking either. Please help me!!!!
Sincerely,
MiSSc

I would just keep practicing... that's how I improved my vocal range!

Q: im 13 years old. theres this guy that i REALLY like! we kiss in the mornin but its just a little peck. hes goin around telling everybody that we make out and crap. and i really wanna make out with him. im just scared hes gonna say we did somethin else you know...should i talk to him about it?

Yes.

Q: Whats a casual ay to ask a guy to the movies without making it obvious that i am head over heals for him?

~*~*~signed...clueless.

Just casually ask him "Hey, have you seen so-and-so? I'm going this weekend" or whatever. After you say that, see what he says. See if he asks you to go with him. Good luck!

Q: how can u tell when ur in love with a guy???

OMG, that must be the hardest question ever to answer... but I think that if being around him always makes you happy, and you can't stand it when you're not with him, and you think about him all the time, and just the thought of him makes you smile, and he gives you butterflies, and if you would do absolutely anything for him, then I would say that you're in love. Don't worry... you'll know you're in love. You'll just have this feeling. Hope I helped!

Q: I like this guy Max and i think its weird that I have never met him, but I catch him looking at me. I try to not believe it and think its my imagination. Like today i was working on something at school and and he was in the classroom next to mine and so as I was working I looked up and caught him looking at me and we locked eyes for a split second and then he looked down...was this my imagination? I HAVE NEVER MET THE DUDE! How can he look @ me?! I mean, i dont think i'm that attractive...HELP!

He probably thinks you're cute... try saying hi to him in the hall one day! And then, after you feel comfortable with that, try talking to him!

Q: Hey. I relly like this guy but he lives like an hour away and i hardly ever get to see him. Another problem would be i think he like this other girl. I never get to have good conversations with him and i havent gotten to know him very well. Do you have any conversation techniques?

Ask him a lot of questions about himself... when you talk to him, put the focus on him only. He will love that, trust me! Just ask him a lot of the basic questions that will tell you stuff about him, and from there you'll be able to have deeper conversations with him. Good luck!

Q: My friend is going out w/ this boy. When he asked her out, he said that he didn't want to tell anyone. I'm the only one they told. His friends tease him because they hang out so much. She's starting to think that he won't tell anyone because he's embarresed of her. What do you think? If it's just because he doesn't know how to stand up to his friends, do you have any advice?

I think he's embarrassed to be seen with your friend... if I were your friend, I would break up with him.

Q: is it ok to flirt with guys if ur goin out with someone?

NO!

Q: Ok, ok. I admit it. I'm not eating enough. But no one will leave me alone about it! I have this one teacher who's about to call my mom. I seriously don't want to eat more, but if everyone (like my mom) gets on my case about it, I will have no choice! I'm doing well losing weight! I have never looked better! And if everyone gets involved I'm gonna gain it back. Everyone always asks "What did you eat today" And when I say "nothing" they get all mad. How do I get them to leave me alone? (Please don't be like everyone else and tell me it's not good for me) I just want to know how to get them off my back. I would lie but I'm a bad liar. Thanks.

Don't starve yourself, just eat HEALTHY and exercise!

Q: my boy friend has been ubducted by the new game halo 2...he is obsessed! how can i get him back???

Most of the time people aren't obsessed with video games for very long... so just relax! He'll be back soon!

Q: okay there is this girl named Tessie and she is supposedly one of my best friends! well everytime I try to plan something with tessie she always says that she can't do and always seems to have an excuse! what should i do? is she really my friend? she seems to think we are but i don't believe that she is telling me the truth!! i think she is using me What is ur opinion on this??

Yeah, I think she might just be using you... or she could just be really busy, but that probably isn't it. Try asking her when she's available to hang out with you, and then ask her to do something with you at whatever time she answers, and if she seems reluctant, then I would say she probably isn't really your friend...

Q: what should i do my friend is mad at me for some reason really upset might lose my best friend :(

Just talk to her... be friendly and caring... and you never know, she might just be stressed about something and it just seems like she's mad you when she's really just caught up in her own problems.

Q: Mk, I really like this guy named Mike. This past summer he asked me out on a a date twice, but sadly I had to reject him due to some things that had been going on in my life. So far this school year, he wont talk to me, but he will stare at me all time. But he asked some other to homecoming. I cant figure out if he is just trying to make me jelious, or if he has given up on me...I really like him and I want to figure this out! Please help!!

Talk to him about it... he probably hasn't given up on you, he's just afraid of being rejected again.

Q: I like this guy, but people say he's getto, and idk if thats good/bad? What does getto mean? And should I stop liking this guy, because all my friends say so. They that he's ugly, and I just don't get it. He's totally not! What should I do?

I'm not sure what ghetto means... but as long as you like him, that's all that matters! Forget about what your friends think and follow your heart!

Q: I fall for men to quickly and then end up getting hurt. It is usually when you like a guy they don't feel the same way or vice versa. Now, I don't technically like someone right now, but I'd like to find someone I can spend time with and get to know so that I know something will happen. Any adive? I am nice, attractive, open minded, opinionated, spiritual, funny, love sports, love to talk, and just have a good time. I don't know what I'm doing wrong, but there has to be something. People are always telling me how beautiful I am, and then they end up asking me why I don't have a BF, and I ask myself the same questions. Thanks!

Just relax, and keep being sweet and friendly... the right guy will come along eventually! Good luck!

Q: I was thinking...do any of you agree with the saying, the right guy will come when you stop looking?

YES!!! Don't find love, let love find you, that's why it's called falling in love, you don't force yourself to fall, you just do! Don't worry about finding the perfect guy... because if he's truly perfect, he'll find you!

Q: Ok Jenny,
I need some really big advice. I have a guy friend who flirts with me a lot, expecially in a sexual way. I really like him. Should I ask him out, or should we just stay friends?