I like this guy, but people say he's getto, and idk if thats
Question Posted Tuesday November 9 2004, 10:09 pm
I like this guy, but people say he's getto, and idk if thats good/bad? What does getto mean? And should I stop liking this guy, because all my friends say so. They that he's ugly, and I just don't get it. He's totally not! What should I do?
im_too_sexy answered Wednesday November 10 2004, 12:41 am: dont listen to ur friends...if u like him go for it who cares if THEY think he's ugly..and ghetto is like he dresses like a thug and talks black! and is really poor... [ im_too_sexy's advice column | Ask im_too_sexy A Question ]
CaLiEnTeBaYbEe answered Tuesday November 9 2004, 11:13 pm: hey ghetto means like they a gangsta....lyke drugs n stuff most of the time, dress in certain clothes and talkin slang ALOT....thats mainly how sum of mai friends r and sum of them r ghetto mainly the guys and not to be racist but its mostly black ppl....no dont change ur opinon bout the guy bc wat ur friends think...theyr just jealous u kno wat u want so u shuld go for it...ur friends shouldnt control ur thoughts! im sure theyve had bfs who havnt been all that cute either...so bring that up b lyke well hes better lookin than ur ex! and i ddint say shit bout him! just say sumthin lyke that to shut them up tell them u dun care bc u lyke him n t hats all that maters [ CaLiEnTeBaYbEe's advice column | Ask CaLiEnTeBaYbEe A Question ]
Phoebe6124 answered Tuesday November 9 2004, 11:06 pm: if u really DO have feelings for this guy, you wouldnt just stop liking him just cuz someone tells u to..ur friends shouldnt be telling u all this bullshit. [ Phoebe6124's advice column | Ask Phoebe6124 A Question ]
Cath answered Tuesday November 9 2004, 10:28 pm: Hi Sweetie,
Crap... I really don't know what it means either. I think it's means "street-like" or that he grew up in the street. For him it's a good thing. Some people don't care. Some people don't like it. I personally don't get it because I choose not to. I simply keep my distance.
No don't stop liking him because your friends think he's ugly. First of all there's no garauntee you two will end up together. If you do then good for you. But I mean is that having a crush on him will help you kind of "develope taste in guys". You'll be able to make better decisions in the futre when a guy asks you out... you may even actually have a "type" of preference in guys.
All you should do is get to know him. You'll see tha maybe you don't like him for other reasons... like his personality. or you'll change your mind about him. Or you'll become good friends. OR he'll start liking YOU and... there's soms potential there. Your friends won't be the ones going out with him (at least i hope not) so if they say something superficial know it's because of their best interest for you (they want a cute guy for you) but don't pay toooo much attention to them. It's your life! (...I love that song by No Doubt)
My best wishes to you! Hope I was of help! ~Blessed Be... [ Cath's advice column | Ask Cath A Question ]
natcrazykat1103 answered Tuesday November 9 2004, 10:27 pm: don't listen to your friends cuz then u are going to regret in the long run. and who cares if he is ghetto or a jock just make sure that he treats you the way ur suppose to be treated! ~natalie~ [ natcrazykat1103's advice column | Ask natcrazykat1103 A Question ]
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