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my boyfriend said something really mean to me about the way i look earlier today on the phone. i hung up on him and he keeps calling back and i wont answer. he left a message saying "if you ever stop being mad at me call me, ill understand if you dont though" i want to call him back...what should i say? (link)
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you should call him back and ask what his problem is and just talk things out. But don't break up with him. Every couple goes through this stuff. Just be like, "why are you with me if u dont like the way i look." and that will give him that chance to apologize to you. Just let him explain himself, and it better be good! Well im here for u anytime good luck!
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How do I get my gf to think im "sweet" and really hang out with me alot? movies? talk on phone alot? what should i do?? I RATE REALLY HIGH!
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u cant really get someone to change like that if that's not the kind of person they really are. u just gotta let her know what u want in the relationship thats all.
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i am 16/f and my boyfriend is 18/m we are both virgins and we are in love with each other.. for sure .. i know what hes in this relationship for and i feel like having sex with him.. not to just f*ck but to share something with him that neither of us have experienced.. do you think this is a bad idea? do you think ill regret it? will peopel look at me differently?
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stonecoldmystery (link)
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i honestly think that you should go for it. and i gaurantee you won't regret this if you love him as much as you say you do. people won't look at you differently ..just decide wether or not you wanna tell people. you guys should be able to share something special and you guys will never ever forget one another. I'm 15 and a half and my boyfriend is 18. you just gotta know what kinda person they are.. hope u make the right decision!!
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how can i proove to mi boifriend that i love him?..and how can i make him believe me that i didnt cheat on him? (link)
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sit down and have a serious tlk with him. look him in the eye and tell him that you would never do that to him..and if he wants to believe it, let him, that just shows how much trust he has if hes not gonna believe u about this. and just try to pull a guilt trip on him.
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What is the difference between thongs and g-strings? I always thought they were the same. (link)
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thong: has a lil patch of fabric by ur ass
g-string: only a string up ur ass
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I like this guy, but people say he's getto, and idk if thats good/bad? What does getto mean? And should I stop liking this guy, because all my friends say so. They that he's ugly, and I just don't get it. He's totally not! What should I do? (link)
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if u really DO have feelings for this guy, you wouldnt just stop liking him just cuz someone tells u to..ur friends shouldnt be telling u all this bullshit.
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Okay.. i have had a secret that only my really good friends know but im not going to tell what it is. Well, in skool one day this kid chase shouted it out loud and everyone looked at me. I asked him who said it and he said it was my bestfriend! Well she promised she didnt do it so i forgave her and she told me my other friend jade said it.. but now i heard that this girl that i really dont like her name is shelby she told 2 of my friends that didnt know and i didnt even tell shelby about it my other friend shannon did. Today we were in s/s and my other friend amanda told me she said it! Im just so confused! should i be mad at all these people or should i just let it go?? please help! (link)
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dont trust neone..no matter how good a friends you are...friends can always turn backs.
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There is this girl at my school(we'll call her sally) and she is really creeping out me and my freinds latley. She ALWAYS follows us around. i think she is just trying to make freinds but the main problem is is that she NEVER talks...EVER!and when i say she follows us i mean everywhere. we were on the bleachers today for this NJHS meeting, and we moved down a row...then she moved down the SAME ROW!! Plus, she thinks that we are best freinds or something-and best freinds with all the popular kids. i really dont know what to do. what is a nicer way to tell her how we feel and to help her make freinds?? thanks. (link)
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one day, you should just go up to her and be ask her her name and shit.
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Well, yesterday my best friend Rachael came over, and my crush Paul came over too. We all sat around watching movies and then Rachael goes, I'm in the mood to make-out with somebody, so she makes out with Paul 2 times!!! I was sitting right there too! She knows I like him and she just did it right there I got so pissed, and shes like dude jess your a stalker so she walked into the kitchen and they were holding hands n like his hands were on her hips as she was looken at me sayen "don't look jess" so i was like wtf whatever so i sat there with the mute on the tv cuz i didn't know how to react, they walk in and then i jus got so pissed i had to call my BESTEST FRIEND courtney and when i did, she had her phone off so i had no one to talk to. i was sitten on the computer talken to some people and then rachael stands up.. and walks into the dining room with her pants unbuttoned and i was like oh my god and she went to the bathroom i then flippen out on paul and when they left rachael said bye jess n i shut the door on her. you'd be mad too right? or do u think im just overreacting? (link)
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i defaniatly dont think ur overreacting...i mean i would be extremely pissed..oh man that makes me mad just reading that..shes definaitly not ur best friend if shes gonna do that shit to you!
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So my boyfriend and I, both almost 18, were together for nearly 11 months, virtually every single day. We were inseparable. We'll both be going to college next year, and we were planning on moving somewhere away and finding an apartment together. There was even tentative talk of marriage. I felt like I could really see where my future was headed. I was so completely in love.
But then he tells me, one month ago tomorrow, that it's just not working out. He says he doesn't feel the same anymore, and that he can't give his whole life to me. I was completely devastated and cried for days straight.
He's the most wonderful person I've ever met. We share our group of friends, so we agreed that we would both try our best to stay friends and avoid awkwardness, and forcing people to choose sides.
So I'm still around him all the time, and every time I see him or talk to him, I'm just reminded of all the reasons I fell in love with him and everything that I've lost. It just sends me spiralling into sadness all over again.
But he's helped me so much with so many things. He brightens my day, and he's a genuinely good person. I don't blame him at all for what happened. I can't bear to lose him completely, but how else can I get these thoughts and feelings out of my head?! (link)
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he just needs time to think, and if he doesnt trulh wanna be with you nemore, you shouldnt force someone to
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ok theres this girl and shes a year older than me and she goes to my school ok yeah and some one gave her my sn and now she wont leave me alone i ahve profiels and stuff so she leaves messages in my guestbook alwaysz constatly call ing me fata$$ or b**** or anythign u can think of and shes annoying she sayz this stuff at school and im not a narc so im not telling on her but i wann kick her a** but i know i will get in depp trouble what do i do to put her in her place and make her shut up!? (link)
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u need to block her sn on aim. she sounds really annoying like she has no life or something. i have ppl do that to me all the time, just dont do anything to offend her and just let her to what she do bcuz shes just jealous. if she really hates you, why would she even bother being mean to you? thats the question.
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my ex bfs brother really likes me and wants me to go out with him (lets call him mike) and so does my friends ex bf and hes rlly nice. but i really miss mikes brother and i couldnt stand 2 c him knowing that i miss his brother (lets call his brother bob) and so i miss bob and like mike but hes three and a half yrs older than i am too... and this other guy whos in my english class really likes me 2 (josh) and i dont want to upset any guys or get myself hurt again bc bob really hurt me, its been about 3 months since i went out with anyone bc i miss bob but im way too good 4 him but still cant resist liking him... what should i do?? (link)
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go with your heart.. really look upon how well they would treat u and i hope u choose the right guy
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How do u know u are really ready for a boyfriend? (link)
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i dont think you really have a time for when your ready for a boyfriend. its just a matter of fact if you really like the person, hey it might be the best thing, or it might not be a good thing, but hey, its experience that youll always remember..and u only learn from experience..
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ok, i like this guy. and he knows i like him too. but he wont go for it! is there something i should do to like...give him a push to asking me out or something? please help!!! (link)
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i dont think u should push someone to ask you out..i mean if they really liked you, wouldnt he have already asked you out? i mean, im not saying he doesnt like u or anything its just that maybe he isnt ready for a relationship just yet. just give him time to think.
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im friends with all these guys and when im around them they always tickle me but sometimes it isnt in the right spot like either right under my breasts or where my hips are...i told them 2 stop and they listened and all but when i was with this one guy lets call him bob. well i was talking to bob and we were talking about sex and i felt really comfortable with him but then next thing i know we're at his house and we start making out.... i dont have a bf so it dosnt matter but at first we were in his car and then we went to the family room and sat on the couch i told him that i like him and he said u only like me and im like yea and he said well i love you i stoped talking and i was sorta scared but then i kissed him and said i love you too. i took his hand and asked him where his room was but when we were walking we were kissing and all but when we made it too his room my pants were already off and his shirt was off but right when he was gonna turn the doorknob we found his friends and i ran in the family room bob came back out and he said he really didnt know they were there and i said ok but now all my guy friends look at me different because they have seen my ass and shit bc i was wearing a thong and when im around them they always ask me dosnt it hurt and sometimes they mean with the thong or sex
i need to know how to make them shut up!!!
HELP!
THANX
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i think u should just take it as a joke and laugh it off along with them..then it wont be any fun for them to throw it in ur face if u try to agree with them..
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I feel that I need a boyfriend. All of my friends have one. But no, it's not because of that. You see, I think I need someone to talk to, someone that will make me feel better, someone who is sweet and there for me. I want a boyfriend, and it's NOT because I wanna impress people that I have a hot boyfriend. I just feel lonely. But IDK how to get a bf. I wana ask guys out, but I am SOO sure that they'll say no, because they don't like me. They like the popular, hot girls. Not fat, ugly, stupid, weird, girls. (link)
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it seems as though u are insecure about urself..and guys really do not like that..guys like the kinda girls that are confident and doesnt care what other ppl think..i think u can be happy and still not have a boyfriend..but if u need a boyfriend to feel secure about urself i dont think that will work bcuz the guy will have the feeling that u are insecure and will break up with you so just feel comfortable about ur single stats! BECAUSE you are FREE to flirt with whoever! (dont be a slut tho lol jk baby love you.)
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Ok my boyfriend and I just recently started having sex a couple of weeks ago, and everything went fine. This may be an over share but we took every precaution, using spermicidal condoms and having him "pull out". So this is why i don't understand why my period is late. Not by too much but by a few days. Then yesterday he fingered me and there was signs of blood about a half hour later. (and he had already popped me before that so its not that)I'm freakin out... you don't think i could be pregnant do you? Help me and ill do anything you ask... PLEASE (link)
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i doubt ur pregnant because when ur stressed about it, it can delay ur period..and that is a fact!! so dont even worry about it if he pulled out and everything
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what is the difference between seeing some one and being boyfriend girlfriend with them? (link)
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seeing someone: u guys are just dating and ur free to see other ppl and ur not tied down and the rules arent as strict.
boyfriend girlfriend: the rules are more strict and u have consequences. ur with no other.
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I am 17. When me and my boyfriend were first together, things were so great. We used to do so much together. We saw eachother everyday. We couldn't stand being away from eachother. Infact, we couldn't be away from eachother so much that he convinced his parents and I convinced my mom to let me move in beacause it was like we practically lived together anyway. We've been together for 8 1/2 months, and lived together for about 3. I love him so much, but now at days I can't tell how much he loves me. We rarely do anything together anymore. He's always hanging out with his friends. infact, about 5 mins ago he just left with his friend to go watch a movie on his friends big screen. The only reason he came here was to get a movie, and mind you its 2 o'clock in the morning. This is how it is for me every night for like the past 2 weeks, I am up til like 3 waiting for him. I tried to tell him how left out I feel but I havn't seen any improvement. Just now I tried to talk to him and he said "I'm sorry, do you want me to take you back home?" its like his solution is breaking up. I feel like I am last on his list. I don't know what to do. (link)
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ok um first off, if i were u, i would have never moved in with him, i think that was ur biggest mistake right there bcuz i think thats partly the reason why he broke up with you..maybe bcuz he saw too much of you and was tired of seeing u everyday..bcuz thats how me and one of my X's broke up bcuz we saw each other too much and he wanted to "explore"...AND we didnt even live together! bcuz its nice sometimes to have time for urself w/o ur girl/boyfriend over ur back all the time. i think u guys woulda lasted longer if u guys didnt move in together..i mean, its sorta nice just to have that feeling of "oh, i cant wait to see my boyfriend" typa thing i hope i helped..
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im 13 and i have a bf. hes really nice and i like him alot but whenever im stressed he tries to cheer me up my makeing out hes 14 so hes only one year older but everyone at school thinks im a whore because i've been presured into having sex once but the person who did it got in trouble but everyone thinks i wanted it....i really didnt and i always think about it but my true problem is does my bf try to go further because im not exactly a virgin??? please help (link)
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not to be mean sweetie, but yes. becuz maybe he knows ur not a virgin and thinks youll do stuff for him..but its also what he hears from other ppl..if its honestly not true..then u should sit down and tlk to him about it and tell him that he needs to stop just wanting to make out cuz ur down..i mean, he shouldnt do that, he should cheer u up by making u laugh and be happy about urself. if hes a good boyfriend, he would make u happy no matter what bcuz of the fact that ur with him..obviously ur not happy, so u need someone who fulfills all ur needs and that plays a BOYFRIEND role..not just a makeout buddie...u get what im sayin, hunnie? i mean, my boyfriend would rather sit down and tlk to me rather than make out, and i think thats wonderful :)
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