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my bf
im 13 and i have a bf. hes really nice and i like him alot but whenever im stressed he tries to cheer me up my makeing out hes 14 so hes only one year older but everyone at school thinks im a whore because i've been presured into having sex once but the person who did it got in trouble but everyone thinks i wanted it....i really didnt and i always think about it but my true problem is does my bf try to go further because im not exactly a virgin??? please help
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not to be mean sweetie, but yes. becuz maybe he knows ur not a virgin and thinks youll do stuff for him..but its also what he hears from other ppl..if its honestly not true..then u should sit down and tlk to him about it and tell him that he needs to stop just wanting to make out cuz ur down..i mean, he shouldnt do that, he should cheer u up by making u laugh and be happy about urself. if hes a good boyfriend, he would make u happy no matter what bcuz of the fact that ur with him..obviously ur not happy, so u need someone who fulfills all ur needs and that plays a BOYFRIEND role..not just a makeout buddie...u get what im sayin, hunnie? i mean, my boyfriend would rather sit down and tlk to me rather than make out, and i think thats wonderful :)
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..Well i dont think he should try and cheer u up by making out.. he should just try to make u happy and smile.. dont let what others think bother you.. i mean if u wanted to have sex so be it. but only you truely no wether or not u wanted too. and yes he might try to be going further cause they say one thing leads to the next. just dont let him pressure you.. and wait till your honestly ready.
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i don't think that's it... i think that he's confused about emotions so he's trying to cheer you up by distracting you... and if he tries pressuring you into anything you don't want to do, tell him y'all need a lil space. best of luck
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I would say YeS... he knows ur not a virgin... so he'll think you'll have sex again.... just because you've had sex in the past. bUt u gotta let him know that you dont wanna have sex with him! it sounds easier then it is though rIgHt? but if ur not ready 2 have sex with him YeT... then u gotta let him kNow... GoOd lUck tHouGh HuN! anD i hope i helped ya oUt!
xOxO, aLeX
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Hmm. There's a possibility that he may expect more of you being that everyone is talking about you and wanting sex. Also, your not neccesarily a whore because you've had sex once. Your very young to be having sex, and it happens, But i wouldnt go any further with your boyfriend if i was you. If he's wanting more out of you, its not fair for you is it?Because you may like him, and he may like you for what youve done in the past.
-brit
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