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The Quiet One
There is this girl at my school(we'll call her sally) and she is really creeping out me and my freinds latley. She ALWAYS follows us around. i think she is just trying to make freinds but the main problem is is that she NEVER talks...EVER!and when i say she follows us i mean everywhere. we were on the bleachers today for this NJHS meeting, and we moved down a row...then she moved down the SAME ROW!! Plus, she thinks that we are best freinds or something-and best freinds with all the popular kids. i really dont know what to do. what is a nicer way to tell her how we feel and to help her make freinds?? thanks.
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one day, you should just go up to her and be ask her her name and shit.
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Just try to get her to talk and open up. If shes always quiet, she is going you around because she doesnt have anyone to talk to and you are like the only friends she has though her eyes. Maybe introduce her to other people that are more like her.
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ask her a question... then shell talk
example: WHY THE F*CK ARE YOU FOLLOWING US?
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talk to her! she's probably just lonely, try and be sympathetic. Suggest that it's a little strange for her to just follow you guys around silently. Let her sit with you at lunch or something. Who cares if she's not popular, as you get older cliques won't matter (unless you stay stuck in middle school like some people I know, ahem ahem). Who knows if you have a conversation with her, you may actually even like her. Or she may change her mind on wanting to be friends with you. If you treat her like a person, instead of a lost puppy, she'll probably lose her desire to latch on to someone and follow them around, and gain a little self confidence.
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Just tell the stalker off! You can't be nive about it... it never works... trust me! I hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
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