sn- InvincibleOnce2
Member Since: November 3, 2004
Answers: 61
Last Update: November 12, 2004
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Aight... There is this girl that i am extremely attracted to... We have similar intrests, we go to the same school....But i dont think she is interested as i am.. I mean i know she is cool with me and im cool with her i just want to Up it... What the hell shall i do? (link)
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Ask her friends to see if she likes you as much as you like her. It wouldn't be the best idea to come right out and ask her because it might ruin the relationship you two already have. Maybe you could start and leave a few little hints here and there...but not too much.
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ok there is two boys i like and they both have a gf. one of them is my ex and the other said that he loves me. i wanna go wit my ex and him and his gf dont look like theyr doin good but then i want to go wit the other one but hes goin wit dis hoe and he had no clue bout it. i really love my ex though cause when we broke up i went home cryin and i still havent got over him and its been like 2 months. wat should i do im 13 too and a female (link)
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Go with your ex. You gaves have a history and theres still something there. It'll prolly go a lot farther.
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ive got this friend..and we're pretty good friends..but she is such a flirt that it gets on my nerves every once in awhile..mainly when shes flirtin with guys i like..she flirted so much with my home-coming date that he changed his mind and they went together..and any guy i like she flirts with them..in 5th period..the guy i like sits 1 seat away frum me..hers is in the middle..she didnt use to sit there tho...she just now decided she wanted to sit back over by us..how can i get used to her flirting or what can i do?!?! (link)
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Tell her that what shes doing is really low. If shes your friend and realizes that you like the guy, she should have the respect not to flirt with them. It might not be your style, but how do you think she'd feel if she got a taste of her own medicine?
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I'm a okay ice-skater , and recently , i met ( well , not really ) this guy at the rink . He's really good , and he's an ice hockey player . I've not really talked to him before besides this one time when we collided , and we exchanged apologies and stuff .Well, i think i have a crush on him cuz i can't get him out of my head ... He's usually , ( but not always ) with his friends , and i want to know how to approach him . Any suggestions ? i rate high !!
please help , thanks ... =) (link)
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Bring a friend with you next time you go skating. That way, you two could skate around, talk to his group of friends and him, and maybe hang out while you're there. You don't have much to loose.
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i really wanna get more flexable (not for any specific reason) i mena i cant even touch my toes, any ideas? (link)
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Run and play sports. If you have time, you can even join a dance or arobics class...After I did all of that I became rather flexible and to this day, i can still touch my toes. ;-)
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my mom and dad both smoke (just ciggarettes) and they both go out in the backyard to smoke but my dad lights in it the house n goes in the back bathroom...(ther bathroom)....and they ALWAYS smell like smoke...my mom even has a ashtray thing for her car and she smokes there too...our car smells so nasty sometimes...and when she comes in my face or watever to talk to me she smells nd she gets mad when i back away and say ew did u jsut smoke? theyve both tryed to quit my mom even has a nicorette tape in her car but they never follow through on it! theyeve tryed everything and my mom quit when she was pregnant with me but she started back up again...ontop of that i hav asthma and reallie bad allergies and smelling smoke makes me sneeze like all day....wat can i do? they wont quit! ive tryed everything....and wer learning bout tobacco in health class right now and its really scaring me bc i kno how dangerous it really is now...=\ (link)
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My mom was the same way...Now she only smokes in her room and sometimes in the car but never around me. Tell them how much it bothers you and if theyre not going to stop at least have them not do it around you. If you need more help just ask me. I'll be more than happy
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13/F. A guy told me I had a hairy upper lip, and that I should shave it, but if I shave it, the hair is gonna grow darker, and make look like a man. My mom says I am too young to have a laser hair removal, and that I should have it when I am 18. This makes me soo mad! IDK WHAT TO DO! Please help! (link)
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Bleach it. It'l make the hair lighter and no one will see it. Don't shave it it wont turn out good.
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my bf broke up with me about 4 months ago. actually, my bf's friend-lets call him joey broke up with me for my bf-lets call him mike. when joey broke up with me for mike, mike was at joeys house. my 3 best friends told me that mike said he didnt want to break up with me and that joey just said that mike was breaking up with me. they talked to mike after the breakup and he said joey told me that him and me were over so he was afraid to call me. so i called him tonight because i just found out about the whole thing and he said that wasnt how it happened. but i know that my friends would never lie to me, especially about that. then i told him i couldnt stop thinking about him and i think i gave him a bit of a shock because after i told him he couldnt say anything. i could tell he was trying to say something and i know he doesnt have a gf but then i said he should come hang out with me and all my friends he's friends with and he said ok and he promised me he would come. do you think he still likes me? cuz we havent had relationships after we got broken up...do you think he still likes me and should i give him some time to think? thanx, blind and confused (link)
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I think he still has a crush on you. Hang out again and try to find out what really happened and why you two broke up. It sounds like you guys still have a chance.
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Hi well see my locker mate is the hottest guy in school and well I was standing at our locker and he came up and asked me out when he already had a gurlfriend!!! I couldnt say no then his gurlfriend came up and asked why was he french kissing me and he said that they were threw and she slapped him!! he called me 10 minutes ago asking if he could stay the night with my older bro and heis over here right now what do I do?!!! we sit together and stuff but then we make out like there's no tomorrow!!! my friend came in on us and she isnt talking to me why??? Plz I really need ur help His name is Jason and he's from france! what did I do to make my friend mad at me? (link)
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Maybe she likes him too but didn't want to say anything, or maybe she thought you went out with him when he was going out with another girl for some stupid reason and didn't like the way you handled it...talk to her, see whats on her mind. Since hes over at your house now, just hang out and talk with him. Watch a movie hold hands make out whatever. He is your bf after all but dont do anything stupid.
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Okay one of my bffs dad hits her and her mom doesnt belive her..Shes havin alot of trouble with her bf..And shes think about alot of things..like she only has 1 reason to live..and all this i really need help this is really serious.. (link)
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Let her know how much you care about her and that if do does do anything to herself, it'l be a huge mistake. Talk to her mom if you have to. Do something about it. He he keeps hitting her things are just going to get worse. and i dont really know what to say about her bf cuz i dont' really know whats going on between them but if things clear up for her, maybe it'll get better.
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ok, well i like my guy friend AND his best friend? i know my guy friend is closer, even thought i think he's mad at me rightn now, but his friend is soo hott!! and he's not THAT hott, but he's pretty good lookin ;)! lol and he has the best qualities!!
Help? (link)
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Go out with the guys friend. If the other guy is a close friend of yours and he doesnt like you back or maybe even if he does, if things go wrong you'll loose a bff. So see how things go with his friend and if all fails, you still have the other guy as a good friend.
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I am always paranoid that people are lying to me. My boyfriend will say something nice like: I think you are beautiful and I just can't accept it. I am always convinced that my boyfriend doesn't really like me and wants to break up with me. What should I do? (link)
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Didnt really even consider that you really are a pretty person and that he does really want to be with you? You put yourself down and it's not right. Give yourself a little more credit.
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There is this girl at my school(we'll call her sally) and she is really creeping out me and my freinds latley. She ALWAYS follows us around. i think she is just trying to make freinds but the main problem is is that she NEVER talks...EVER!and when i say she follows us i mean everywhere. we were on the bleachers today for this NJHS meeting, and we moved down a row...then she moved down the SAME ROW!! Plus, she thinks that we are best freinds or something-and best freinds with all the popular kids. i really dont know what to do. what is a nicer way to tell her how we feel and to help her make freinds?? thanks. (link)
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Just try to get her to talk and open up. If shes always quiet, she is going you around because she doesnt have anyone to talk to and you are like the only friends she has though her eyes. Maybe introduce her to other people that are more like her.
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me and my dad...dont get along...at all..he takes the simplest things i say..so serious..and all wrong...for instance..the other day we were trying to decide wut to do for lunch...we all decided on something but then he jus had to change his mind. when they asked me i said 'i dont care can we jus go some place cuz im really hungry' his response 'well i dont like your attitude!!' my mom tries to calm him down but his final desicion is 'well i just wont eat then!!' he gets so mad at me for the stupidest things like that..and my mom steps in and tries to resolve it but he ends up mad at the both of us..and when he gets mad..he cusses...last year i went to a school..on the bad side of town(it was a magnet skool..for higher students..but all the peeple hoo lived around there went ther too) so i heard so much language i got sick of it....so one day when he was mad..i asked him not to cuz i hear enough of it everyday..well now..he still cusses..acts like that talk never happened..and he's my sunday skool teacher! and everyone thinks i live the perfect life when its horrible..my dad keeps telling me over and over how we may not have enough money for christmas this year...ive told my mom that i hate when he talks about stuff like that..i guess he thinks im to 'mature'..last sunday..we talked about 'controlling our anger' and he wuz like 'u decide to get angry' well he decides that a whole bunch! i just want to stop the fighting..and my mom and i have sat and cried after some fights..and i want to stop bringing my mom into these fights..i want to stop the fighting..but im not sure how..oh any by the way..im only 12 (link)
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Aw i'm really sorry to hear that...Me and my mom were the same way for such a long time. We still dont get along to well but its not as bad as it used to be. Let him know how much its hurting you. Its not fair what hes doing. He's being a hypicrit and its not right.
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Well, yesterday my best friend Rachael came over, and my crush Paul came over too. We all sat around watching movies and then Rachael goes, I'm in the mood to make-out with somebody, so she makes out with Paul 2 times!!! I was sitting right there too! She knows I like him and she just did it right there I got so pissed, and shes like dude jess your a stalker so she walked into the kitchen and they were holding hands n like his hands were on her hips as she was looken at me sayen "don't look jess" so i was like wtf whatever so i sat there with the mute on the tv cuz i didn't know how to react, they walk in and then i jus got so pissed i had to call my BESTEST FRIEND courtney and when i did, she had her phone off so i had no one to talk to. i was sitten on the computer talken to some people and then rachael stands up.. and walks into the dining room with her pants unbuttoned and i was like oh my god and she went to the bathroom i then flippen out on paul and when they left rachael said bye jess n i shut the door on her. you'd be mad too right? or do u think im just overreacting? (link)
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I'd be really pissed off too. Clearly this Rachael person isn't a great friend of yours and Pual isn't all hes cracked up to be. That's really low what they did and i dont think your over reacting.
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one of my good friends told on me and my other friends for drinking and smoking weed to her mom, even though she was there and did it too. now i am in big trouble and its because she told on us! how do i confront her about it? (link)
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That was really low...If one of my friend did that i'd be pissed at them. Just tell her thats it not right for her to rat you and your friend out without giving herself in too.
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i have a question about pop-ups, and i didnt kno which category it was under. do yu guyz have those pop-ups and itz like 'shoot the monkey and win a free laptop'? well, do yu actually win with those things? or are they just there...
thx! =) (link)
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you can...put its just not worth it. Theres a bunch of stuff that you have to do and a bunch of things you sign up for it really ends up not being all that free...
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Ok, there is this guy who I'm totally crushing on, and he is really hott! I dont have any classes with him but I pass him in the hall and he rides my bus. Well soon i found out he was one of the most popular guys in school. Wich sucks beucase it lowers my chances of gettin with him. But anyways, I've never talked to him before, and I want him to notice me, and hopefully to like me. (I dont know if its just my imagination but I'm pretty sure we've made eye contact before!) PLEASE somebody help me! What should I do? (link)
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After school one day, or maybe find out if he was a sn or something. Talk to him, start up a conversation. Let him get to know you and maybe things will turn out the way you want them to.
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freshman/m i like this girl, but i can't really see us goin out. my friend also likes the same girl. i asked one of my female friends how i could get to know the girl better without being too obvious and she sed to "write her a note and say hey and stuff." but don't u think if i "write her a note just sayin hey and stuff" she will think somethings goin on? i'm not sure i want to let her know that i like her just yet. is there any other way? thx
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Talk to her hang out with her and you can even flirt with her a little bit. It don't be too obvious cuz a lot of my guy friends flirt all the time so then after a while when you are ready to tell her, give her little hints here and there.
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Well, i have this friend and i mean she is really really nice when it is jsut us two, but when we are with our other good friends or when we are with boys, she always has to be the center of attention. She knows she has the best body, so she always says something about being on a diet, so people tell her that she is perfect, and she knows she is like gorgeous and so she always talks about how she looks bad so everyone can reassure her some more. Me and my other bestfriend have been talking about it constantly and we love being with her alone, but it is really getting on our nerves, especially because it makes us feel worse about ourselves. Please help!!! (link)
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Explain to her that what shes doing is putting you guys down. If shes really your friend she'll understand and lay off of the things she's been doing. I have a lot of friends who are like that so they dont really change they way they act...they kinda just made us deal.
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