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Am 16 from Scotland. Am tall with long black hair and blue eyes. Am really good at solving problems and have a fair bit of life experence to help others with their problems.
E-mail: weejay13@aol.com
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Location: Scotland
Age: 16
Member Since: November 3, 2004
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Ok i guess this isnt really a definite true answer to this question but rather ur opinion. What is True LOVE? (link)
you'd have to experince it for you'r self ppl fell differnt. xx


I just moved to arizona from texas.. my best friend cried wen i left, and said that i would always be her best friend.. but its a couple of months after i moved, and she doesnt seem to pay much attention anymore.. She never calls, writes letters, or emails... we talk to eachother on AIM sometimes, but wenever i talk to her im so happy! but i feel like she is forgetting about me even though she says im not.. i get so depressed about it, and i cry.i would do anything for her!! she is soo important to me! we tell eachother everything and anything.. wat can i do to get her to relize wats shes doing to me without hurting her feelings? (link)
just talk to her and tell her you miss her and that even tho your are so far away from each oter you dont wana lose touch with her. tell her how much you miss her. hope it works out for you!! xx


is it ok to flirt with guys if ur goin out with someone? (link)
i wouldnt do that sweeite you might hurt people


i have a really good guy friend and i waz wondering wat to get him for christmas. He likes skating and hackie sac. i'll rate! (link)
get him sum thing 2 do with skaten then


i was datin this guy for almost 3 months but i wasnt really happy so i broke up with him! i thout i didnt like him anymore and that when i broke up with him i wouldnt think about it anymore...well i was wrong...WAY wrong! he is all i can think about! day and nite! i thout i didnt like him but now that i dont have him i want him sooooooo bad!!! i want to tell him but i dunno how...i dont want him to get freaked out or not feel the same way or for him to have some other gurl! i havent talked to him in about a week because he has been at his moms house but he comes home friday n i jus wanna talk to him! we have been broken up since monday november 1 and monday november 8 would have been our 3 month anniversary! what do i do?? (link)
Awww!! sweetheart just talk to him tell him exatly what you said "now you dont have him you want him like mad" and if he doesnt fell the same yeah it will be hard but move on and find aother guy how will love u. hope i helpd


i'm in middle school and we have the popular cheerleaders. Everyone tells me how thin and beautiful i am. And the popular girls aren't that pretty, but all the boys love them. I'm not a cheerleader but i think i'm just as good as those girls. why don't the boys notice me? (link)
dont put your self down you are just as good as those girls!!


i've been getting my period since april 04 and i got it on the 24th for april may june july and august. i didnt get it september but octor 2nd. now its november 5th and i still didnt get it. this is really messed up! what do i do because i dont know when to expect it and i'm sick of wearing dark jeans all the time. thx-very self conscious (link)
your period does this for a few years am afrid to say. it goes all over the place but it will settle down!!


13/F. A guy told me I had a hairy upper lip, and that I should shave it, but if I shave it, the hair is gonna grow darker, and make look like a man. My mom says I am too young to have a laser hair removal, and that I should have it when I am 18. This makes me soo mad! IDK WHAT TO DO! Please help! (link)
dont listen to this guy he is an idot!! bet u look just fine!!


my bf broke up with me about 4 months ago. actually, my bf's friend-lets call him joey broke up with me for my bf-lets call him mike. when joey broke up with me for mike, mike was at joeys house. my 3 best friends told me that mike said he didnt want to break up with me and that joey just said that mike was breaking up with me. they talked to mike after the breakup and he said joey told me that him and me were over so he was afraid to call me. so i called him tonight because i just found out about the whole thing and he said that wasnt how it happened. but i know that my friends would never lie to me, especially about that. then i told him i couldnt stop thinking about him and i think i gave him a bit of a shock because after i told him he couldnt say anything. i could tell he was trying to say something and i know he doesnt have a gf but then i said he should come hang out with me and all my friends he's friends with and he said ok and he promised me he would come. do you think he still likes me? cuz we havent had relationships after we got broken up...do you think he still likes me and should i give him some time to think? thanx, blind and confused (link)
just get him by his self and talk 2 him abot how he fells this is the only way u'll find out.


Okay one of my bffs dad hits her and her mom doesnt belive her..Shes havin alot of trouble with her bf..And shes think about alot of things..like she only has 1 reason to live..and all this i really need help this is really serious.. (link)
point out to her that she has many reasons to live not just 1 and show her ur there for her to talk to


this guy and i have been liking eachother for over a year and things are starting to happen. he has slept with 6 girls ao i guess he might be considered a "whore" im a virgin and he knows that and he told me that he liked me enough not to have sex with me. the thing is that i want to have sex with him. i think im ready and i trust him completely. i just dont know if im too young or if i might regret it so i kind of need some help. by the way im 16 if that helps at all.. (link)
if you feel your ready do it. your bond to be worryed but dont b if you can trust him then i can see no problem with it. xx


im 13 and im scared to wear a tampon what should i do...Im getting self concious
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wear a tampon they dont hurt and are less hasel than pads just try it when your ready. just shut your self in the bathroom and try useing one only do this when your on ur period tho!! xx


okay i have this friend named gerri and well she has this bf named paul!! okay so my friends and i we go to skool together and we drive in a car!! so anyway my friend gerri calls paul in the morning on the cell phone in front of us!! and we're like that's rude so she is like turn down the radio and i tell the driver don't turn it down cuz it's wicked rude she is talking on the phone in the first place!! well yesterday she ((gerri)) was on her cell phone in the caferteria at lunch with the rest of us sittin' there!! i told her to get off but she won't!! and i gave her the dirtiest looks but she didn't get off her damn phone!! how can i tell her to stop using her damn phone to talk to her bf infront of us and how can i tell her to stop talkin about him because she is liked obssessed with him?? (link)
She in love with him oviosly just let your friend as you called her talk to her bf for fuck sake


ok, there's this guy and me and him have liked each other since the beginning of school.. we tried to hook up but something happened and we didn't.. but we both still like each other. and he always tells me he loves me and stuff.. and all my friends tell me i should go out with them.. and i front like i dont want him anymore bcuz i know how pathetic this is.. but i do, i want him so bad. and when im with him he's always saying how great it would be if we went out and he knows i like him but he just wont ask me out.. does anyone have any suggestions to let him know that he should just ask me out already?? (link)
It sounds like hes shy u ask him out hunni


I just recently moved out of my house and into my uncles house and he is a hardcore Christian man and believes that anything not christian is "of the devil", I myself am a follower of the old pagan type religions and he kind of found out and alwayz makes little jabs at me for not believing in god and tells me im going to hell and i dont know how to deal with it..if i tell him that i dont believe in god, he might kick me out of his house....what should i do...pretend not to believe what i do or tell him to stop? (link)
you believe in what you want and let him belive in whats he believes in. Just pertened that it doesnt bother you and he'll stop it or tell him exatly what am about to tell you IF HE'S SUCH A GOOD CHRISTAIN HE'D LET YOU BELIEVE IN WHAT YOU WANT AND JUST LEVE YOU TO YOUR OWN THNIG AND ONLY CONCERN HIMSELF WITH HIS LIFE AND NOT YOURS!!


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Your knowledge would be appreciated.. (link)
i dont know




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