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boys don't like me
i'm in middle school and we have the popular cheerleaders. Everyone tells me how thin and beautiful i am. And the popular girls aren't that pretty, but all the boys love them. I'm not a cheerleader but i think i'm just as good as those girls. why don't the boys notice me?
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I know EXACTLY what you mean. This is because the popular girls are sluts. They put themselves out there like they are the next Carmon Electra. So the guys think that that is "hott" because the popular girls are easy. Dont worry, and please dont turn into one of them. It is good that you have your dignity and trust me, there will be a guy that will come along and will notice you, i sure found one :-) Hope i helped, and good luck!!!
~*~*~Ren~*~*~
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because they're dumb and believe the stereotypes that the cheerleaders are easy. that, and the cheerleaders are constantly in front of the student body, so the guys have no choice but to notice them. best advice: get involved. you'll meet tons of new people and then more guys'll notice ya! best of luck chica
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mayb...they...dont...like...you? just a guess.
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ya gotta put ur self out there! weather or not ur a cheerleader, put ur self in different clubs and activities, get to know people, get plugged in w/ more people, they dont notice you cuz they dont know your there, if you make it known that ur there, their gunna notice you. and be urself, be unique and different, no one likes a copycat, you stand out more if your different, so if the cheerleaders get the attention, dont always be like them, have ur own unique style, and dont follow the crowd, if you follow the crowd and blend in ull never get noticed
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ok... well u have a serious problem that i call innocence.... u need to turn into a slut like those cheerleaders... like start giving head and stuff like that then all the guys will line up to just talk to you
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It's because you're not a ho
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the only readson y is bcuz that boyz dont see how special gurls r i mean i once felt that way but 1 day this charmn' boy felt fo me and he said he really liked me and i really like him but wat im tryn' ta say is that giv it some time and that special some1 will come fo u
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maybe the boys like the cheerleaders personalities? maybe your too shy? it really depends, because looks arent everything sorry to say! =] -ask_anything
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those boys are idiots. let them think that bcuz i bet those gurls will all be ugly in high school and ull be the hottest thing in high school and guys will wish they had dated u earlier.
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all the boys really want is some booty in some skirts.....! they probably do see you! you just have to have a way to stand out!
*that probably didnt make any since, but good if i helped*
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Because boys are dumb lol they just dont think really they go more for the popular girls and try n look cool rather then going for the people they really like
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dont put your self down you are just as good as those girls!!
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hmm b/c most of the times boyz in middel school go after "fame" and they one b popular..and if they popular they gonna make em popular 2...but dont worry wait till high school...things gonna change..and boyz in middel school might notice u more then u think but they might b to shy to come to you b/c u might turn them down since they prolly think ur geourgeous...u kno wut i mean dont worry ;) it will b ight ;) xoxo effy
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It's probably cuz their little brains only focus on cheerleaders, and think that the only way that they can get noticed is if they talk or date a cheerleader. But don't let that bug u cuz if u do then sum of the guys that do notice u might think that all u want to be is popular.
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Maybe they do notice u and they r just afraid that maybe u will reject them becuase they say ur so pretty. try just having conversation with them and u never kno maybe it will get u somewhere. Hope i helped.
~*Michelle*~
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Well, in middle school boys don't understand the meaning of relationships. Start hanging out with guys and become their friends. lol. Flirt, and show them what your made of. Take it from me, you DO NOT need to be a cheerleader to have a boyfriend.
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Well first of all, boys are immature in middle school and all the cheerleaders just shake their ass in pep rallys... You can try out for the cheerleading team if you want! The guys will come around though in high school... I hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
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because your not running around shaking your ass at pep rallies in a mini skirt with your leg above your head
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Cheerleaders aren't better than others, they just get more attention. Don't be a cheerleader just to get boys to notice you, unless you really want to be a cheerleader. Boys think they can score easily with cheerleaders, Yet not all are like that. They just need to pay more attention to other people in the school than focusing their time on cheerleaders. They just focus on the cheerleaders more. But im sure they'll notice you. =) Hope i've helped.
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Those boys are jerks. Most guys are at the middle school age. They WILL come around. Girls mature three years faster than boys. In my middle school, the same thing happened. The cheerleaders are all extremely ugly, and the "cool" people love them. I'd say you are pretty and cool, i dont know you, but you sound like it. So just wait a few years. They WILL come around. I promise. I thought the same thing, and in highschool, WHAM! Lots of guys had crushes on me.
*Randy T*
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ok well first off all...forget wut all of them said because you shouldnt change yourself for guys.Boys like cheerleaders because they were short skirts and act all stuck up!but hey you could try out for cheerleading..that might help and also be more social start being outgoing and hang out with people more(if you arent already) goOd lucK!
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Either they don't notice you because you're not popular enuff for them or cheerleaders are just easier. Guys are pretty dumb sometimes and they only like popular girls. You don't want a guy like that...just wait for one who notices you over cheerleaders-- that's the kind of guy you want. So you just have to wait to meet him...
=) HoPe I HeLpEd!
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i kno this is pretty cliche, but guys notice more personality than loooks. I think that if ur nice to them and they enjoy hanging wit u and have a lot in common wit them then they'll notice you. Just be friendly with the boys and start up conversations with them and they can see how great you are :)
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A very wise teacher once told me when I was complaining about something like that in the 6th grade, "girls mature faster than boys. Don't expect the boys around you to be at your level until at least the 10th grade". (Surprize surprize, that's when I had my first relationship that was actually worth having,)
But I believe there are some real worthwhile boys out there for you to find - the type that don't just drool over slutty cheerleaders. They might be rare, but when you find one, it's completely worth it. Look at it this way - those attention-whores are just weeding out the shallow, worthless boys, so you don't have to.
Good luck!!
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Hey...well I don't think its not that doyz don't like you its just well your in middle school...and boyz don't really know pretty girls when they see one....the only girls they find atractive would be cheerleaders...I dunno why but guys that cheerleaders are hot...but the truth is that most of the time...their not...ha! Don't worrie about it...soon enough the guys will notice you and find out wut they have been missing...you naw mean? Well stay the way you are and you'll have guys all over you in no time...well peace out
--PinoyBoi
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Because boys are idiots, even through highschool. Good luck, we all need it.
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