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my life outside of school is basketball and when i'm thinking hard i tug slightly on my hair. i don't enjoy going to my school's football games because we lose every time. however, i do enjoy using large and uncommon words in everyday conversations.

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sometimes my advice is good, but sometimes it sucks. and other times i just felt like having a laugh, and it may have just so happened to have been at your expense. don't take it personally - mostly because i don't know you.
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Ok, well I want to make my own website. I got help by this website.(Thanks advicenators!) I have url.Now the problem is HOW DO YOU GET STUFF ON YOUR WEBSITE!!! I don't have a backround or anything. My website is askmeny4u.cjb.net and if you go to it and you see nothing and if you think your computer is fucked,it's not.My website is a blank screen. They may drop me from their url and i'll be back to square one. (link)
you can buy the book or sometimes there are programs that basically frame a website for you and you fill in the blanks


What do dreams mean? What about those that keep repeating themselves? Is there some kind of connection between dreams and real life? (link)
dreams mean neurons are randomly firing off chemical signals in your brain


omg i have tried ban, teen spirit, secret, and dove deodarants and none work for me! does anyone have any that work for them that may work for me? cuz i am tired of my shirt be wet from sweat underneath my armpits, and being afraid that someone is gonna see it...plz help! (link)
prescription but sometimes that can be too expensive


there is this girl that is obsessed with me at school. Before I even knew her she knew all of my classes, and now I see her ever time I turn around. After talking with her for only 5 min she said that her mom wanted to meet me. After she said that if freaked me out alittle and she was also saying bad things about one of my friends she I ignore her when I see her. Now she is applying at the place I work and I like someone body else that works there but it is going to be akward have her there. What can I do so she leaves me alone. (link)
yeah just tell her to back off and if that doesn't work, tell her you're gay.


i like this guy and i think we're both going to this party on Friday.. He wants me to talk to him more but i dont know what to talk to him about. i need help b4 tomorrow. Its the last day of school b4 Thanksgiving vacation and i have to check it tomorrow. So if you can plz help me and give me some topics to talk about...
Another thing.. his birthdays comming up and i dont know what to get him...

Say it aint so.... (link)
CD! get him a good CD. find out what kind of music he likes when you're talking to him and then buy/mix a CD


how do u know if u have athsma. i think i do b/c i play sports & when we do conditioning after like 3 sprints i like cant breath i think its b/c my parents smoke alot & i have to be around it :-( can sum1 tell me how u know if u have it (link)
the only way you can tell for sure is to go to the doctor


ok here it is:
i was at starbuck ordering a vanila creaam. The person asked me what my name is (they always do that and they out ur name on the cup). well when it came out the girl (who looked about 18 shes HOT!!!) she thought i was about her age and im only 15! she gave me her # under the cup...
the screwed up thing is it is all wet and its messed up. and each time i go up 2 starbucks 2 get her # shes not there. Should i jus give up w/ her (link)
Go back at the exact same time and day that you went earlier b/c she probably only works that shift.


Well!My name is Sami and I am in a big old miss hap right now with a lot of things in my life.
I have not takled to my ex bf in over a month ya kno but yesterday I was online and he IMed me. He said some really mean comments to me. Like he kept on calling me a slut and stuff like that. I am not a slut either.I asked him what I did to him and he didnt say anything for a lil while. On halloween I went to six flags with my ex bf adam bc I thought that I still had feelings for him, all that we did was kiss. We didnt really even make out, just lil pecks here and there. My old friend nichole is telling dominic stuff that isnt true. Shes telling him that I did more with adam, when I didnt. So after I asked dominic what I did to him he was like, you went and saw adam on halloween.I told him that we didnt do more then kiss, but he was like," thats not what i heard". He has never even met my friend nichole, they have only talked on the phone. they dont really even kno eachother, and he is gonna believe her over me. Well I found out when I saw adam that I DIDNT have ANY feelings for him anymore. Atfer he and I kissed I went in the bathroom and cried bc I made the mistake of kissing him. It just hurts to much that dominic doesnt believe me bc last year when we dated we were in a mis hap just like this, where he didnt believe me, he believed everyone else. But in the end he figured out that I was not lying to him and that I WAS TELLING HIM THE TRUTH. Dominic has a gf and I can honestly say that I am happy for him. Its good to kno that he is happy. He thinks that I am all sad and miserable when I am not. Yeah I miss him and stuff but I am slowing moving on. Okay another thing is last weekend I went and saw my best friends: phoebe, dylan and tara. We all were at taras house watching a movie ok. Dylan and I are really good friends. Hes my bestest friend in the entire world. When we were watching the movie he and I were cuddling and kissiing. And yesterday online I put stuff to dylan like...Dylan-your my best friend in the entire world. I love you to death.LoL!We had fun last weekend didnt we? Your a good kisser, I hope I get to kiss you again." I am not the type of gurl that is going to kiss any guy. I have to like a guy to kiss him.I really like dylan more then a friend. I can say that I am falling in love with him. Maybe I already am. Dylans just difffernt then other guys. He excepts me for who I am. He has never hurt me in any way at all since Ive known him. Yeah dominic to me is the perfect guy but he has changed so much since we have broken up. I still really dont kno what was so bad that I did to him. I stoped talking to to dominic last night at 9 pm and I signed ofline and called Dylan right away. I cried like the whole time on the phone. I know that dominic is mad, its how he gets about situations like this. Yeah his feelings for me are fading but he still cares. It hurts more that he doesnt believe me about he adam thing, then him calling me a slut. How can he believe my old best friend nichole over a gurl (me)who is was in love with and knows inside and out. He doesnt kno nichole at all? I am at school right now and all I have been doing for the past 4 hrs is crying. Should I be crying over this or just let it pass bc I know that he is just mad and doesnt mean it. Its like Im single anyways. I have a right to kiss a guy if I like them ya know. Well please help me I am so confused. (link)
yeah you're right that was mean, my bad. just go with your first instinct and i know that doesn't help but i kind of got lost in the story.


i LOVE this song, but i don't know what the name or who sings it is named, the part i know goes...

springstien, madonna, way before ervana, there wasa you two and blondie, music still on MTV, her two kids in highschool, they tell her that she's uncool, cause she's still preocupied, in 19, 19, 1985

i rate (link)
Bowling for Soup - 1985 i love it too


My friend Lisa shes soo annoying, shes my best friend and i love her. But she's a blonde and she abuses that fact.. she imed me today and this is wut happened::

her: whats the number to a hospital
me: why
her: you call 1-800-911 right
me: no
her: i need the number to 911

she pretends to be a dumbass and shes not dumb at all. i can't even have a conversation with her without her asking me what a word means, and she only says it to make herself look blonde, and she sounds so retarded it pisses me off. how can i get her to stop? (link)
slip her sleeping pills and then shave her head while she's asleep


well i have a gyno appointment next week and i'm kind of scared because i've never been there before. my mom doesn't know that my boyfriend and I have sex, but she made a comment about going on birth control if i think me and drew are going to have sex. i think i should but yet i dont know what to do because she will automatically know that me and drew have sex or that we are thinking about it. my mom says to tell her if me and drew were ever to do it but im afraid. should i go on the pill ? what do you think ? (link)
hmmm.... go on the pill? or get pregnant?


I pull out pieces of my hair when i get stressed out angry or bored...i dont know why i do this i guess because i need some way to show my feelings...and i couldn't ever cut myself... i dont know what to do or why i do this... can someone help me!? (link)
Wear a rubberband on your wrist and snap it


i'm in middle school and we have the popular cheerleaders. Everyone tells me how thin and beautiful i am. And the popular girls aren't that pretty, but all the boys love them. I'm not a cheerleader but i think i'm just as good as those girls. why don't the boys notice me? (link)
It's because you're not a ho


has anyone here become pregnant at a young age? please tell me ur story, im 15 and 3 weeks pregnant, n i dont know if i should get an abortion. what did ur parents say and do? (link)
Don't let people tell you you're "fucked up" or whatever because you want to have an abortion. Those kinds of people don't think about the lives of people after their born. You never see an SUV with a pro-life bumper-sticker driving through the ghetto. Trust me. You have to think about the future - not only yourself, but the child's. It's best to do it ASAP though and make your decision quickly.


hey well start it off im 13-m. ok well about how hard would it be to find a girl that is like only interested in sex after marriage for dating material? because seems like everywhere i look on here, theirs a pregnant girl or one worried about it. i'm just talking about like later in my life, in my twenties right out of college. just to be prepared. also, i was reading a book, and a guy asked the girl if she was a virgin, and she said that she wasnt even embarrased. so are you like supposed to be embarrassed if your a virgin?


(deeply confused in matters i shouldn't have my paws in) (link)
i'm a virgin! some people think it's like not cool or whatever and they joke about it but i just say better a virgin than a ho


my friend name is Brittany she has a b.o. problem and ervery1 hates it. i dont kno wat to say ta her wit out hurtn' her feelns' but can somebody pleaze help me out thanks.

i rate very high.

signed confused friend. (link)
I had a problem EXACTLY like this on my softball team. I felt really bad for this girl because everytime she would get on the bus for us to go to games everyone would look at each other and stuff. I just told her privately and nicely and she took it really well and tah-dah the problem was solved.


ok so lately all ive felt like doing is crying whenever someone says something to me i wanna cry even if its nice and im always yelling at my mom n my sister just so they leave me alone and i get annoyed by the easiest things.and my sister is MR(mentally retarded) n she gets on my nerves sooo bad cuz she doesnt know when to shutup! i hate being mean to her! n like yesterday we were out and these 3 guys were making fun of her and i just went off on them i dunno what happened it just came outta the middle of nowhere. i get pissed off so easily..but i never used to be like that.ive been sleeping alot n being really tired.Whats wrong wit me? i rate high! thanx! (link)
That's true - you could be pmsing or something. Even when I'm not a lot of times I have days where I just am not in the mood to be around people and I'm very easily irritated, especially with people I'm around all the time (a.k.a. family).




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