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what should i do ?
well i have a gyno appointment next week and i'm kind of scared because i've never been there before. my mom doesn't know that my boyfriend and I have sex, but she made a comment about going on birth control if i think me and drew are going to have sex. i think i should but yet i dont know what to do because she will automatically know that me and drew have sex or that we are thinking about it. my mom says to tell her if me and drew were ever to do it but im afraid. should i go on the pill ? what do you think ?
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yea its better 2 b safe then sorry
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hmmm.... go on the pill? or get pregnant?
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you and your mom seem to have a real good relationship ,take advantage of it and tell her the truth belive me she will find out anyway.its better coming from you. and Yes you should diffinitly go on the pill and use condoms!
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You should be put on tha pill if you are having sex..If your mom told you to tell her then she must not care that much, like she wont get mad at you or anything if she knos that you n your boyfriend have sex. Just be safe :) Goodluck hun. xOx
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If you're having sex, it's in your best interest to go on the pill. And you mom doesn't have to know. It's between you and your doctor.
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i think u should go on the pill and if she asks u bout it just tell her that u havnt done it yet but incase it comes up ud rather be safe and its like shell get mad at u or n e thing cuz she told u to tell her.Good luck
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Well not to sound like an idiot or anything, but no matter what your parents say about you having sex, chances are you would have done it anyways..I live with my dad, and stepmom..and my dad is very protective of me, Iam now 18 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years, we waited 2 years to have sex with eachother, When I was 15 years old I decided it was the right time to have sex with my boyfriend, I told my dad that I was GOING to have sex with him after I ALREADY did, to see what his reaction would be..He started telling me no I couldn't do it..and I told him excactly what I just said..that him telling me "no" isn't going to stop me..I don't mean so sound like a rebel or anything..but its part of life, so he put me on the DEPO birth control shot..and I was on that for 2 years..I gained ALOT of weight from it, so Iam now on the noradette birth control pill..and it works good..I've lost some weight from it..and it works..although I still use a condom everytime I do have sex..plus the pill...so bascially im using double protection, in which you should too.
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You're in the same situation I was in a few months ago.
If I were you, and you're not comfortable with telling your mom you've BEEN having sex, tell her you're thinking about it, and go on the pill to be safe. That's what I did, because I didn't want to admit to my mother that I'd been lying about not having sex. If you're comfortable telling her you've been, then go for it.
Your mother sounds pretty cool about the whole situation. Know, though, that she probably won't be happy with the fact that you are/going to have sex. No parent would be - however, she does seem to know that teenagers are teenagers and that they'll do what they please, no matter what a parent says. She just wants you to be safe about it. I would, too, quite honestly. She's opened the door for you to talk to her about so much - so many parents don't do that, and their kids are afraid to talk to them. She's a person, too! Chances are, she's gone through similar things, and now she wants to help you deal with the things she went through. Take advantage of that fact. I did, and my relationship with my mom is great.
I would go on the pill, if I were you. Just know that it takes a month to go into full effect.
I hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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Your mom already knows what every parent should - that reality is reality, and no matter what your kids do, they are still your kids. She doesn't support you having sex, but she would rather she be aware so that she can ensure that you are safe, I don't think she will be angry.
It is normal to be afraid to tell her, but she has asked for you to be honest, and try and switch places with her - wouldn't it put your mind at ease to know about your daughters life, then to wonder if she is going to be safe or not? Talk to your mom, go on the pill if the doctor agrees and be safe about it.
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Your mom has opened a door for you. Walk through it. Don't be scared. She wants you to feel comfortable talking to her about these kinds of things, otherwise she wouldn't have come to you about this and suggested that you think about BC. Your mom sounds like a smart lady and a good mother, I'd take advantage of it. Don't be afraid!
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If your mom is telling you these things, then she probably already suspects that you are at least thinking about sex. She will understand if you decide to go on birth control. In fact, she'll probably be happy you chose to protect yourself. If she ends up asking, just be honest.
♥ Lorelei
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