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Hey whats up? My name is Kelsey n I love helping people out so I decided to make one of these. Feel free to ask me ANYTHING, dont be scared..I'll try my best to answer. I've been through a lot so I have a lot of advice on things. xOx



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Hey, I want one of those livestrong braclets except I want one for breast cancer. Where can i get them and how much are they? (link)
I got mine at walmart for 97 cents hahah. xOx


My friend is thinking of committing suicide what should I do? (link)
Talk to your friend. Let them know how much they mean to you, and how many people love them and care about them. Tell them that suicide will not solve anything, it will only make things worse for everyone. If things get really serious tell someone right away. Make sure it doesnt get out of hand. Goodluck hun. xOx


hi.. my girlfriend died a 3 months ago from a car crash. i think about her every minute. she was my absloulte everything. I feel that im still going out with her but i feel a need a girl friend. I need some one to take her place. I need that some one who will give me what im looking for. Please help wat should i do (link)
I'm so sorry to hear about your girlfriend, thats horrible. :( She will always be with you, and I'm sure she wants you to be happy. Just try talking to some girls and try and find someone that your comfortable with and someone you really like and see where it goes from there. You'll always have feelings for your girlfriend and you'll never forget her. Just know that she'd want you to be happy. Goodluck hun, if you ever need to talk let me kno. xOx


what is the best position to sleep in while on your period? thanks
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I dont really think there is a position that is best. Just whatever makes you comfortable. I sleep on my stomach, thats tha best position for me. xOx


I know this is wrong but i got myself into some serious mess.My bestfriend has a bf and they been together for 9 months and the other day me and him saw each other at this one place and we ended up in his car doing things.I feel really bad i don't know if i should tell her or not.I dont want to but i dont want her finding out from anybody else because i love her so much she is like my sister.IM confused plz help!
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If I were you I would tell her. It would be worse if you kept it from her and she found out from someone else. Obviously she doesnt have a very good boyfriend if he would do that to her, but just tell her and try talking to her. Sorry I couldnt really help. Goodluck hun. xOx


OKay...i am 15....I had my first period in Nov of 2004....and i started my period yesterday...this has never happend to me before...but...When i go pee...i bleed too....why is that???? like...i bleed more than i pee...and the blood is all gooey and chunky...i hope non of u think im weird...im just really nervous...because this has never happend to me before..
thanks girls (link)
This is completly normal. xOx


ok look i kno this chick and we've been goin out for about 9 months and she wants to do stuff really bad and dont get me wrong i do too but i am not done with puberity and i am shy about it i dont kno what to do what do i do? what do i say? should i just go for it and see what happens or should i just wait?

P.S. we love each other VERY much!! :) (link)
If you're asking people if you're ready or not then you most likely arent. I'd wait a little bit, especially if youre not done with puberty yet. You may be too young. Goodluck with things hun. xOx



ok i started cuttin myself like 3 mouths ago because my friends they have been getting mad at me for nothing and theres the hole family thing. and it seems like everything is falling apart and i dont no what to do... and i cant stop.i dont no how to stop (link)
I know that it isnt easy to stop. Try talking to someone that you REALLY trust about it, and tell them whats going on. It helps me everytime. I dont really know what to tell you to stop cutting yourself because I cant even help myself but, just try talking to someone you trust, and when you go to cut yourself, stop and think..each cut that you make you are hurting each person in your life that loves you. Think about how much it would effect their life if they knew you were cutting or if something bad happened to you. It helps me sometimes. If you ever need to talk just let me know. Goodluck. xOx


ok my boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 1/2 months and on sunday im going to his house for a couple of hours... ok well we kiss all the time and i want to be able to kiss him in other places. please give me ideas of where guys like to be kissed nothing like head or anything cuz we've both said were not ready for that. thanks bunches (link)
kiss his neck :)


Hey everyone, I was just wondering, I've never really just 'hooked-up' with a guy, meaning the only relationships I've been in, they had something serious part of it. I've never done friends with benefits. I was wondering what are your views on fwb and 'hook-ing/up' like what are the outcomes? benefits? feelings for one another? thanks in advance, i rate well. :--) (link)
Friends with benefits can be fun I guess but, it always turns out that one of the two always gets attached and the other person doesnt feel the same. This has happened to me many times and it really sucks. Just dont get yourself hurt. It hurts..xOx


My boyfriend always got love notes from his gfs and we were talking yesterday and he said I was the only girl who never wrote him any love notes so I was wondering what do you write in love notes other then I love you because I tired to write one but I dont think it turned out to be anything like a love note soif you can please help me out thx ill rate if ud like (link)
Just tell him how you feel about him. Spill out all of your feelings, and talk about some of your memories and stuff like that. xOx


At lunch time i sit with all my friends and stuff and later on in lunch some guys come join us well theres this ine guy named Brian and sometimes he'll message my shoulders just outr of the clear blu,and flirts with me and other stuff but shuld i flirt back?? I really like him but he has a GF
I jst need some ideas please ill rate (link)
Well, If he has a girlfriend and he is flirting with you like that then he probably isnt the best guy. Go ahead and flirt back, I would lol but I'm just warning you, dont get to involved because you might get hurt...Sorry I couldnt really help. xOx


whats happenes wen ur hvin a panic attack? (link)
Usually rapid pulse..you get really dizzy n short of breath. Hyperventalating (i dont kno how to spell it lol) n lots of things. I used to get them all tha time, i hated it. I still get them sometimes but not as much. I always cry when it happens haha. Goodluck hun. xOx


sry if its long but i really need help..

Ok..heres my problem..my mom or dad dont trust me..they wont let me go out..they think im always lien where i am when i do go out..they have no trust twords me wut so ever..like yesterday i wnt to chill with my friends and i told my mom i was going to the day b4 that..but then she calles me up and seys u better get home now..im like well ill b home soon..so i came home and she was like ur grounded 4 goin out with out telling me..then i was like yeah well i told u so i wnt in the kitchen and sed that i was hungry my dad came screaming in the kitchen saying that i better eat and he through me on the table and slapped me..then i ran up stairs..i mean wut is rong with my parents..and they always treat me like shit..and my mom always treats my nephew better and when ever he does some thing rong i get blamed..i just dont know what to do ne more..

plz help me..

ps..me and my parents fite all the time.. (link)
They dont trust you because you are a teenager, n they kno what kinda stuff teenagers do. Even if you dont do anything bad, they just dont want you getting into tha wrong things n going down tha wrong road in life. My parents are tha exact same way. They hate me going out cuz they kno i like to have fun anyway that i can n they kno what i do, n what every teenager does. One night when I came home my dad hit me n threw me down n was screaming at me, so i kno what youre going through, its scary...Just try talking to them and telling them what you do, n when you are out call them every once in a while n tell them what you are up to, that way they will begin to trust you. Goodluck hun. If you ever need to talk just leave one in my inbox. xOx


Is it normal 4 a high school junior girl who is 17 years old to go out with a guy who is a freshmen in college and who is about 19or 20 years old? (link)
Yes it is perfectly normal. xOx


i really like this guy, i'll call "dan". he's 15 years old and i'm 17. we both like each other and want to possibly go out, but the age difference is really bothering me. is 2 years apart in high school too much? (link)
Nope, I'm 15 n my boyfriend is 17. Goodluck hun. xOx


well do u guys know that quote..

let the person you love go and if they come back they were meant to be yours??

well i never believed that quote..until i met *ben* in 6th grade but then i told ppl i didnt like him n then durin 7th grade i kinda forgot abut him but then like the quote said in 8th grade *ben* came back..

were we meant to be??

tnxs nd i rate high (link)
Only you guys can answer that. No one can answer it for you. Me n my current boyfriend went out in 7th grade n broke up n didnt speak for 2 years, n now we're back together, we've been together for more then a year n we love each other. So maybe you two were meant to be. Goodluck hun. xOx


other then picturetrail and photobucket what other sites can i put pictures on more then 40 or so...thx (link)
Webshots :) www.webshots.com


im not trying to be gross but these past 3 days i've been getting really bad diarreah after i eat something, but i dunno why cause theres no change in my diet at all, and im not sick! could i just suddenly be lactose intolerant or something? (link)
Give it a few days n if it doesnt get better then tell your parents and go see a doctor. Goodluck hun, hope you feel better. xOx


Theres this guy that I like a lot and I want to go out with him but I dont think he likes me and I have a problem I have a hard time asking a guy out. Please Help Me!!!! (link)
Try talking to him more n getting to kno him better, who knos, maybe he likes you too ;) Just try to drop hints that you like him, n maybe he'll ask you out or something. Goodluck hun! xOx




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