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Question Posted Thursday March 10 2005, 7:35 pm


ok i started cuttin myself like 3 mouths ago because my friends they have been getting mad at me for nothing and theres the hole family thing. and it seems like everything is falling apart and i dont no what to do... and i cant stop.i dont no how to stop


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mykonstantine101 answered Sunday March 27 2005, 1:44 pm:
Try rubberbands.. snap yourself when you want to cut.. it should help.. well hopefully.. and i just want to tell you cutting doesn't solve anything.. most of the time it makes things worse.. I really hope I helped and if you need anymore help with problems like these.. just ask

Jamie

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perfect_gurl answered Monday March 14 2005, 2:57 pm:
Knock it off!!! This could be like a very bad hobbie. So you need to pick up on another one. Start writing. Or chewing gum. Doing clay models. N/E thing!

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Greenday56889 answered Friday March 11 2005, 9:13 pm:
Ok well cutting isnt easy to stop.. It seems alot of ppl do it for various reasons .. A Theropy to stop is to get a rubber band and to pull it and let go and hit the bottom of your wrist.. BUt i may warn you this may not work for everyone.. I also recomend to talk to a trusted Parent,Adult,Consulier,Teacher.. Someone you know cares about you.. I know that someone must love you..

Hope it all works out

Hope i helped..

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Panda answered Friday March 11 2005, 6:53 pm:
Get some help, it's hard to quit, I know, it's happened to me. Just remember, everytime it seems really dark and hopeless, there is light if you look for it. Also, give yourself other things to do instead of cut, it'll take your mind off it. Running is good. ;) If you need to talk, E-Mail me at GraniteFox@Yahoo.com

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Anubis50 answered Friday March 11 2005, 5:41 pm:
OMG!! I cutted my self too. Pleeezze try to stop. I took a rubber band and put it around my wrist. And when i felt like cutting i would pull the rubber band back and let it go onto the bottem of my wrist. Its sort of a tharopy thing. Just pleez stop cutting your self you cand die. Adnd alot of people do care about you, even if they do get mad!!

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ilovekeith123 answered Friday March 11 2005, 10:54 am:
Dont do that!!! what if one time you go to deep? Is all that worth it? And if your friends know they are doing tis to you. .then they can all go to hell they are not good friends. . .Happy to help :)
*Katt*
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TheTeenGirl answered Friday March 11 2005, 5:42 am:
I suggest the rubber band, but you need to tell someone first, or you will fall back into your old habits. So, you should tell a parent/guardian about it to find out whats up and prevent it from happening again, as you can see, cutting does nothing for you.


-TheTeenGirl

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xOxPlAyGuRlxOx answered Thursday March 10 2005, 11:00 pm:
I know that it isnt easy to stop. Try talking to someone that you REALLY trust about it, and tell them whats going on. It helps me everytime. I dont really know what to tell you to stop cutting yourself because I cant even help myself but, just try talking to someone you trust, and when you go to cut yourself, stop and think..each cut that you make you are hurting each person in your life that loves you. Think about how much it would effect their life if they knew you were cutting or if something bad happened to you. It helps me sometimes. If you ever need to talk just let me know. Goodluck. xOx

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lostgurl616 answered Thursday March 10 2005, 10:45 pm:
i can help IM me my sn's are wewonstate03 and crazyweirdo1324 dont be scared im a grl and i am not nutts or nuttin i am an old cutter i went through it all therapy and everything you can talk to me.

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shake answered Thursday March 10 2005, 10:25 pm:
Well that was a good statement. I see the bloodloss is getting to your head too because you forgot to ask a question idiot. If you want to kill yourself you'd of done it by now. Quit cutting yourself no one cares about you taht much.

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lilrocksta13 answered Thursday March 10 2005, 9:46 pm:
Tell your family or abother trusted adult whats been going on. They will help you any way they can. Believe me.

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here2chat4u answered Thursday March 10 2005, 9:36 pm:
Don't cut, ever. It is a big mistake, I know from personal experience. You can die from that or get a lot of blood lost. I know everything must seem like it is going down like the titantic. I cut myself, I used to. I got help and stopped. It was the best thing I ever did and I'm only a teenager. Talk to your friends and ask if they are mad at you. Just hang-out with them and talk to them as much as possible. Whatver the family thing is... you can figure it out. Just tell your family what's going on at school, or write in a diary about your feelings. Try and not to think negative thoughts, like listen to one of your favorite songs, or do something that is fun for you. Everytime you are going to cut yourself just call one of your bff's and just talk to them about this. Or even talk to your family members. Hope you figure out a way to stop. Tootles!

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Teza answered Thursday March 10 2005, 8:44 pm:
Oh gosh!! It was really hard for me to stop but then I did for about 2 weeks. It was really hard for me but I just tried doing something else. Please try to stop because the only way you cant is if you dont try hard enough. The next tiem you feel like cutting call someone y ou trust and talk to them about it. Im sure they would b able to help you! PLEASE try to stop! Think about all of the people who care about you even if sometimes they get a lil mad at you they still love you. You wouldnt want any of your freinds and family cutting or anything so think of how they would feel if they knew you did it. A lot of people care about you and dont want you to get hurt! I hope I helped!! Im always here if ya need anything else! x0

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