I am just another teenager going through the sh*t everybody goes through. But let's blame guys! J/K!! Well, sorta! N/e ways! I hope I can help!
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Age: 15
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well i need help really fast! Me and This kid (well call him MaX) well we like each other alot.. but his ex girlffriend still lykes him.. and me and his ex are friends.. no one knows we like each other.. but i am not sure what to do.. stay friends with him.. or go out wit him and possibly loose a friendship ( i think she still likes him 2) ErR.. just helLp really fast (and Him and This girl he went out wit only went out for a weEk)
HELP!
sincerely,
in need of him! (link)
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Ask your friend what you should do. Give it as an example instead of the truth.
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there is a new girl in my class and she is taking over my friends. my friends act like they dont want me around anymore.what should i do? (link)
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You totally need to talk to them. Tell them how you feel and see how they feel. And remember, honesty really is the best.
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Ok..i went sorta on this date last night with this guy i have been chatting on line with. My friend has met him so hes no harm. Well that whole night he would try to talk to me and i just didnt talk much. After the date..i got online and he didnt talk to me at all. My friend called me up a few min later and said i was really boring and didnt show my personality. Do you think this guy should give up? Or do you think he should let me have a second chance? (link)
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I have this theory. And this is it. If a guy makes you unhappy for the first 3 REAL impressions, then give him up. But if he makes an okay impression in that time, then give him another chance. Moods of guys aren't very easy to see. They PMS too. So just stick to my theory and you should be okay. Keep me up-dated. Here's my email: independent_eyes711@yahoo.com
~Maygen~
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hey meygan thanks for answerin my question but i have another one when u said skip lunch and eat a big dinner wat kind of dinner should i eat thanks
nicole (link)
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Nicole,
You're very welcome. Well, it's always good to eat lots of grains. Like your pasta, potatoes, breads and other stuff. So that way you will have your carbs and that way you can work off what you ate with some exercise. Also remember to try and cut down on those sugary drinks. Try juice and water.
~Maygen~
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ok so i find cute guys and all there all nice ya no evry girl wants a nice sweet one but no they act sweet for about 1 day thn want to have sex. im so sick of horny guys just doing this its so annoying. k help (link)
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Guys suck!! I just got dumped because I "wasn't giving enough sexual attention" for him. So you can't really get rid of the guys that are extremely horny. So just stick to your standards and you'll always be happier!
~Maygen~
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Hey im nicole and i have a prob im 15 yrs old and weigh 190 lbs!! dont laugh lplz i need to get down to at least 130 b4 this summer! plz anyone help aim me at luvwithinme or email me at babiegurl2290@yahoo.com (link)
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You know that awful word...exercise!!! And the other thing I can say is to watch what you eat!!! now here's something I do when I need to lose weight, but remember not to take it to far. K? I skip breakfast (or have something small) then skip lunch, but eat a big dinner. But make sure you actually eat good. Because if you don't then you will have serious health problems. So please be careful. Well, that's all I can say. Hope it helps!
Good luck Nicole!!!!!
~Maygen~
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Does anyone think that sex makes a relationship, or that it makes a relationship better? Why or why not? (link)
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No it doesn't.
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plain and simple my girlfriends mom hates me dad likes me please help (link)
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She shouldn't have to like your dad. Just you. Tell her that.
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i have curly shoulder lenghth brown hair and i strighten it everyday .. whats the quieckest way to do so? i rate high (link)
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Doing your hair takes a long time. So there kinda is no way for it to take less time.
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My friend ((We'll call her M)) is a total sl**. She knows it and is proud of it. She stabs people in the back and screws you over. She turns on you and talks crap on you behind your back. My 2 best friends and i ditched her because we knew she wasn't a good friend to have. Now she is friends with lots of girls... at least she thinks she is. They all hate her, but they won't tell her! I wouldn't mind becoming friends with her again, but how can i learn to trust her and believe what she tells me if she did all this stuff to me the first time around? (link)
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When a person is that way, it is a little hard to behave in a good way. You always want to tell them what's wrong with them and yell and scream at them, but you can't. You have to ask yourself if you really want to be friends with her. If she is doing things you don't like, then why be caught up in that mess?If you hang with people like that, then people will think you are that way too. So I would leave her alone. If she wants to be friends with you, she'll come around.
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when i was a little girl my aunt went out with this really tall and ugly guy. he was nice but he liked to play with my private area and he stuck his in side mine a few times. i dont considder it rape or sexual abuse but i dont no what 2 say when people ask me if i am a virgin cuz besides that little thing i havent had any sex. what should i tell people. i dont mind it if people no that i am not a virgin but i really mind it if i have to tell them how i lost mi virginity and when. so am i still considerred a virgin or not and wat should i say wen people ask me that question?
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Okay, this is what I think. And I hope this helps. You are still a virgin. I believe that everyone is still a virgin if they couldn't help the situation. So when people ask, tell them you are a virgin, cause technically, you are.
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So i met this guy, and by his looks he is definitely not my type. Infact, i dont go for guys out of my race. (He's still half white though). But he has an amazing personalility, all the qualities of a guy im looking for; he's beyond perfect. I want to ask him out, but the looks are bothering me. I know looks have nothing to do with anything, but even though i like him, i dont think i could do anything physical with him like kissing. Do you think its just because its in my head? And do you think a relationship can last even though you arent sexually attracted to them? Do you think i should just be friends or go for something more? (link)
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Looks are something that's on the outside. If you really enjoy this guy, then you won't care what's on the outside. I know it still can bother you, but remember what's important. You like this guy a lot. And relationships can last without n/e thing sexually going on. I have a relationship like that right now! And the more you are with this wonderful guy, the more you will get used to the looks. You won't be bothered by them n/e more. So try him out.
Hope I helped!
~M
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So there's this boy I used to see at school a lot. Now he works at a grocery store in our town. Only he works early in the morning. I've heard a lot of really good things about him lately. Everyone says how amazingly nice he is. And considering nice guys are hard to find, I want to have a fair chance at this guy. But he also has a girlfriend (so I've heard.. from a boy who likes me..)
So I want a chance at him, but I've never spoken to him before, never had a class with him, and I dont have the slightest idea how to approach him and what to say.
Any help is greatly appreciated. (link)
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You're right! Nice guys are hard to find. So when you find one, don't let him go. Heres the thing, if the guy that likes you tells you about the guy you like then theres something wrong. Try this nice guy. Go for the gold!
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well lately my friend has totally been flirting with my boyfriend.She knows she does it but she just shrugs it off.I hate it!!like we will be walking in the halls together and she will come right between us and rather close to him i might add.i dont wanna ruin our friendship, but me and this guy really love each other.we've been together through thick and thin.Please help me and i hope this wasn't to long. (link)
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If your friend is picking the guy over you, then your friend is a bad friend. And maybe you should stick with your guy and then your friend will see the problem. Good luck!!
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ok i started cuttin myself like 3 mouths ago because my friends they have been getting mad at me for nothing and theres the hole family thing. and it seems like everything is falling apart and i dont no what to do... and i cant stop.i dont no how to stop (link)
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Knock it off!!! This could be like a very bad hobbie. So you need to pick up on another one. Start writing. Or chewing gum. Doing clay models. N/E thing!
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Ok!
My friend always texts me on my phone! And we were on the phone w/ a boy the other nite! So yesterday i got this text from my friend saying that the boy we were talking to ( that i like ) said i was annoying! i was like no! She then texts me saying i was jk! I was like ooooo! SHe does it a lot and it is really annoying is it normal 4 me to be mad at her! cause she does it at least twice a day!
Taller (link)
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Tell her. And if she thinks you are joking, walk away and make sure she knows your feelings. Show her who is the good friend. Maybe she'll have a wake-up call.
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Hi,
I like this guy that one of my friends are going out with and she really likes him. I don't know what to do .should I be selfless and let her be happy or should I put my self first and take a chance on braking them up and losing a friend? (link)
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NEVER PICK A GUY OVER YOUR FRIEND!!!! I know this for a fact! You can like the guy but you have to remember if you go out with this guy, who is going to be there when the guy turns around and hurts you. If you look at it that way, stick with your friend. Guys are gay anyways.
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This is for all you lovely ladies out there.
- What types of things do you like to hear.
Example. "You're beautiful"
What other things do you like being told.
Thanks!
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"You're beautiful the way you are."
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what is a bikini wax. and im a girl. am i supposed to shave the hair off.. down there?
please hellp! (link)
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Yes and no. Most girls think that they HAVE to shave down there. Truth is, you DON'T have to. It's your choice. But a bikini wax is one of the most painful things. So think twice about that kind of stuff.
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hi! im 13/f and im not loveing life to much.my mom is always yelling at me for nothing and slapping me alot and just hates me. then theres the thing that everytime i start to care for someone the dump me... and after the convince me that they like me or im pretty or something.. i really hate this. i got plenty more going on but yeah i dont need to dump all my shit on yall. but someone please tell me how to cope w/ this... ive been handleing this in a bad way for a little while now.. and i want to stop it..
thanks alot to anyone who helps me! (link)
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Okay. Sounds like you need a break from life. But I doubt you will be able to get it. So heres what you could do to relieve some stress. Write some peotry. I know to some it sounds gay, but when you write things down, you get a different perspective of it. Try it and see what it does for you.
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