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My friend ((We'll call her M)) is a total sl**. She knows it and is proud of it. She stabs people in the back and screws you over. She turns on you and talks crap on you behind your back. My 2 best friends and i ditched her because we knew she wasn't a good friend to have. Now she is friends with lots of girls... at least she thinks she is. They all hate her, but they won't tell her! I wouldn't mind becoming friends with her again, but how can i learn to trust her and believe what she tells me if she did all this stuff to me the first time around?
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You said it your self. She stabs she screws she talks. You don't need someone like that.
You've just said your self what she does and basiclly said how much of a bad person she is. Seriously, why would you want to make friends with her again?
I wouldn't do it, if she's still acting like she was before then you can't trust her.
Think about it, why do the girls she's with now hate her if she's such a good friend?
You don't need her.
♥Em
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i am havin the same problems with my exbest friend...my advice is to stay away from her...yea i no it sounds too harsh but unless u want to be hurt as bad as me then i suggest to stay away...if she does it once she'll probably do it again...not to be mean but if u stay friends with her make sure that she is telling you the absolute truth and ask around if shes been talking behind your back cause some people are just mean like tht ....i hope all goes well for you!
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There isnt reall a way you can trust her because shes changed that much that you dont no what to tell her or what to believe, So i think that you should just give it time if your not comfortable being around her because of what she has become.
In time you will start to believe her but if what she has done is to much then i dont think you will ever be able to trust her.
luv roxie
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When a person is that way, it is a little hard to behave in a good way. You always want to tell them what's wrong with them and yell and scream at them, but you can't. You have to ask yourself if you really want to be friends with her. If she is doing things you don't like, then why be caught up in that mess?If you hang with people like that, then people will think you are that way too. So I would leave her alone. If she wants to be friends with you, she'll come around.
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Why on earth would you want a friend like that. Im sure you can get better friends than that i think you shouldnt be friends with her. but this is just what i think you control what you do.
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you cant.
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I would give it a little time. She if she changes. If she does, she'll probably realize what a loss it was to lose you as a friend, and will go back to you. If you don't want to do that, I would get to know her better. If you truly think she changed, and has become trustworthy, then you could try telling her something. Maybe you could tell her something little, that you don't care if everyone knows, and if she blabs you know she hasn't changed. I wouldn't trust her right away, I would do it little by little, only if you feel she has changed. "It takes years to gain trust, but seconds to throw it away..."
Hope I helped!
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A person like her won't change right away. It'll take some big loss of hers for her to change. She needs something be taken away from her or something like that to make her realize that her attitude needs to be changed before she loses anything else. I would leave things the way they are. When she realizes she misses you and promises to be there for you, I would try to trust her little by little. Good luck!
♥ Always,
Maria
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She will never be trustworthy.
Be friends with her at your own risk.
I'd leave things as they are.
If you hang out with her people will assume you are just like her even if you aren't.
If you can live with all that then be friends with her.I really think i'd stay away.
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I hate girls like that. I only had one friend for five years, and that little skank (pardon my harshness) did the exact same thing. Guys began to be more important to her, and she told all of them that I taught her how to masterbate! :O sick huh? well, I was miserable, I had no friends for like 4 mths, and then, on the last day of summer vacation she came to make sure that I was still her friend. It hurt alot, but I told her no. And I went about another month with no friends, because she was saying that I was talking behind everyone's back. Females are backstabbing little witches, sometimes I wonder if I should only have guy friends... Any way, enough about me, I think that you should DEFINATELY not be friends with her, because she'll just use you as her leaning pole time and time again!
Hope that I help out, and if not, you can yell at me.
Luv ya lot's
Chicitatoxalot :)
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