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HELP!!!!
my mom has the perfect boyfriend, i love him to death! for every other day the past month my mom has been going out with friends from like 7 pm to in btween 3 and 4 am ! a few of my friends moms even think she is an irresponsible parent! her bf is even begging to think that. eveybody is worried. she wont listen to me or her bf when we try to help! we all want them to get married, but even her bf sed he hopes she doesnt ruin it in the end! (its a long distance relationship, we live in la, he lives in san fransico)
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Ok, she has the awsomest boyfriend in the world and everyone wants them to get married. But you all don't love it that she keeps going out with some friends and comes back all late in the night?! Ok, naw you all are screwed up! Let her have some fun for crying out loud. She has a child and a boyfriend, not to mention work on top of that! Let your mom go out, have some fun, and party away! I mean come on, once you have a child you will miss all of that! She's not irresponsible, she just wants to have some fun and everything. Simple as that!
The Loner, Loser, Lover...your dark lord and master...Jenny M...enjoy...
[jennymanzanares@hotmail.com]
OK, WHAT YOU TOLD ME! YOU SHOULD'VE ADDED THAT IN THIS FUCKING QUESTION YOU FUCKING RETARD!
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Hmm. Thats a nice story. Tooo bad you're retarded and didnt ask a question.
I had a pretty well thought up and nice answer too.
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I would give her a taste of her own medicine. But let her boyfriend know about your plan before he thinks you're following in her footsteps. I would stay at a friends house or something all night and come home in the early morning and tell her you were just hanging out with some friends at a party or something. I hope this works for you because I friend exactly like this!
♥ Always,
Maria
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Have you talked to your mother about it yet. Even during the teen years where we think we are self efficient, we still need our parents now and then... Our parents can help us through the hard years, and if your mother isn't there to help you, who will be. This is going to sound nosy, but do you know what she is doing. If she were doing something for your better welfare, then I would be pleased, but it sounds to me like she's doing things that she really shouldn't be, and I can relate, my mother does drugs, and she used to keep me in the room with her, so I used to get stoned and stuff. She WAS AN IRRESPONSIBLE mother. Wow, that boyfriend seems like a really good guy. Tell your mother that she needs to treat him with more respect, or this could all end, and I know that none of you want that. right?
Luv ya lots, hope my advice helps
chicitatoxalot :)
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He may be the best guy on the planet but I'm afraid you guy's can't make the decision about who she marries or doesn't.
If she loves him she will if she doesn't she won't. That is up to her.It would be nice if everyone were with those people we think would be good for them! But, thats not how it works in real life.
If you are concerned about the time she is spending with friends, or more importantly the time she is returning, then speak to her about that.Go ahead and tell her you believe it to be iresponsible and all that, but you have no say so on who she marries. Sorry about that.
In answer to your feedback: I did read the ? and nowhere does it say they are engaged. Nor do you refer to him as her fiance? Doesn't matter though.people break engagements all the time.It is still her decision who she marries.
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