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i dont no wat to say
when i was a little girl my aunt went out with this really tall and ugly guy. he was nice but he liked to play with my private area and he stuck his in side mine a few times. i dont considder it rape or sexual abuse but i dont no what 2 say when people ask me if i am a virgin cuz besides that little thing i havent had any sex. what should i tell people. i dont mind it if people no that i am not a virgin but i really mind it if i have to tell them how i lost mi virginity and when. so am i still considerred a virgin or not and wat should i say wen people ask me that question?
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Please tell me tha you've told the authourities about this honey! I've had a similar situation happen to me, and it can be a very dangerous thing. YOu could have STD's and ugh.... I don't know what to say except I'm sorry... It is your own business whether or not your a virgin, if someone asks you that, you need to tell thaem that that's none of their business, and they need to go harass someone else... I'm sorry I'm getting carried away.
Luv me anyway,
Chicitatoxalot :)
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no your not a virgin. and i think you need to tell somebody that the guy your aunt was with raped you. you might think its no big deal but you were a little girl and he was a way older guy. he shouldn't have done anything to you, and you need to tell someone that, tell your parents and your aunt about what happened. xox
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first of all that is rape ...
even though it was a long time ago i think you should still tell someone. .
technically you arent a virgin but when people ask you should just say no so they dont ask you a lot of questions, hope i helped
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You arent a virgin.. whats wrong with you for not tellin on this guy.. much luv dez x0x0
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Wow, whether or not you think it, he raped and sexually abused you. How long ago was this? You might want to tell someone about that. It's not right, at all.
Personally, I would still consider you a virgin. You didn't chose to lose your virginity, someone forced it on you.
Hope I helped!
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OMG...your in a horrible situation here. First of all, that man was not nice at all, he is very bad! You were sexually abused, even if you don't think you were. To answer your question though, you technically are considered a virgin, and when they ask you that question, you don't have to say anything you don't want to because that is a very private subject! I really hope I helped you out here, and if you ever need my advice, you know what to do! :-)
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Hun, no matter what you think, that was NOT a nice man! He was a paedophile, and he abused you. I know you say you don't consider it rape or sexual abuse, but anyone else would.
However, concerning your problem, you never have to tell people anything you don't want to. That is a very private subject, and will remain private if you don't want to talk about it. You were abused, therefore in my mind you remain a virgin. <3
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Okay, this is what I think. And I hope this helps. You are still a virgin. I believe that everyone is still a virgin if they couldn't help the situation. So when people ask, tell them you are a virgin, cause technically, you are.
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You would be considered a virgin if your hymen broke from that guy. So if you remember any bleeding from that, then I wouldn't consider you a virgin. And if your hymen did break from him, then you don't have to tell people. Sex is normally a private thing that you don't have to share with people!
♥ Always,
Maria
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No you aren't a virgin anymore. You don't have to tell people that though. Since you never had sex out of your own will you can tell them that you are a virgin they can't prove anything or you can reply with a simple i rather not talk about my personal life. That way they will think what ever they want.
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I would say that for one thing, thats pedophilia(sp) and also, that you are still a virgin, even if your hymen /has/ been ruptured because of him. Most virgins these days don't even have theirs on their first intercourse. The definition really of a virgin is someone who has never encountered sexual intercourse when they have actually reached the age where sexuality can change/have a real effect on someones life, otherwise known as puberty. :P So when people ask that question, tell them damn straight and proud of it. I have always believed that should (and still is for me) being saved for the marriage bed!
<3 EJ! ^^
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