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my friend just broke up with her bf after 3 months and shes been reallly sad.. and i`ve been there for her the whole time listening to her say the same things over and over... but i just listen and tell her how bad i feel for her. but i also like this guy and everyonce in a while i talk about how he doesnt even notice me and it makes me sad. and she started freaking out about how i have nothing to be complaining about and its rele stupid and she gets rele annoyed that i talk about him "all the time". this was the first time i found out it was annoying her, and i dont even talk about him that much.. i was thinking that after listening to her complain so much, maybe i had a little room to talk about me for a second... isnt that unfair that she wont even support my problems??? i`ll rate high! x3 (link)
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Hun, she's really upset over breaking up with her boyfriend, so she's probably distracted by her own problem that she feels somewhat wronged when you talk about a problem you have. She may feel that breaking up is worse than your problem with a guy. Or, she could be jealous that you have someone you care about, and she doesn't anymore. Who knows! Going through a breakup is a tough time, so just try to bear it, (Unless she does something truly awful) and hope that she'll go back to normal soon.
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My Boyfriend told me yesterday that if he doesnt have a girlfriend who loves him when he turns 16 he is inlisting into the army and i dont want that to happen. I dont want anything to tear us apart but if he does go i will miss him how do i talk him out of it!
Im 14 and He Is Almost 15! (link)
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Well, there probably isn't that much you can do to change his mind, except to be there for him and make sure he knows that you care. If he is only 15, you still have a year to make sure he knows how much you'd miss him!
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when i was a little girl my aunt went out with this really tall and ugly guy. he was nice but he liked to play with my private area and he stuck his in side mine a few times. i dont considder it rape or sexual abuse but i dont no what 2 say when people ask me if i am a virgin cuz besides that little thing i havent had any sex. what should i tell people. i dont mind it if people no that i am not a virgin but i really mind it if i have to tell them how i lost mi virginity and when. so am i still considerred a virgin or not and wat should i say wen people ask me that question?
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Hun, no matter what you think, that was NOT a nice man! He was a paedophile, and he abused you. I know you say you don't consider it rape or sexual abuse, but anyone else would.
However, concerning your problem, you never have to tell people anything you don't want to. That is a very private subject, and will remain private if you don't want to talk about it. You were abused, therefore in my mind you remain a virgin.
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So i met this guy, and by his looks he is definitely not my type. Infact, i dont go for guys out of my race. (He's still half white though). But he has an amazing personalility, all the qualities of a guy im looking for; he's beyond perfect. I want to ask him out, but the looks are bothering me. I know looks have nothing to do with anything, but even though i like him, i dont think i could do anything physical with him like kissing. Do you think its just because its in my head? And do you think a relationship can last even though you arent sexually attracted to them? Do you think i should just be friends or go for something more? (link)
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I think you should remain friends with him awhile longer. Maybe the longer you're friends, the more you will grow to like him, and the problems you have with his race will fade away. Let it be known that a romantic relationship will NOT work if you aren't physically attracted to the person. Also, the more you get to know him, you may find he is not as perfect as you really think. Good luck!
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