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ARMY ??
My Boyfriend told me yesterday that if he doesnt have a girlfriend who loves him when he turns 16 he is inlisting into the army and i dont want that to happen. I dont want anything to tear us apart but if he does go i will miss him how do i talk him out of it!
Im 14 and He Is Almost 15!
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if he goes he a bad bf if your so inlove with him he should see it sit down and talk to him about it find out what e wants but good luck hit me back pyce
slacker
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well ask him if thats something he really wants to do and if you love him tell him and let him know how you feel if its something he wants to pursue as a career support him and there maybe a future for the both of you there (you dont have to be in the army also just support him and things should play out right)
HOPE I HELPED!!!
Kelsey
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Wait he is your boyfriend and he sayd to you that if he doesnt have a girlfriend that loves him hes gonna join the army?! ok well if thats the case thats crazy. Hes your boyfriend and you love him so why would he even say that. He has a girlfriend that loves him and thats you. Tell him that you really love and care for him and you would be torn apart if he left.
~kayla
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You don't. If someone has the desire to join the army they will,In love or not.
If he goes and you are still together you will write and call whenever possible.Yes, you sure will miss him!
If you talk him out of doing something he really wants to do he may later blame you because he missed out on doing it.So you need to support him if he decides to go.
He's a long way from 16 yet so let him talk. A lot can change in a couple of years.I think you have to be 18 anyway.
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I'd be kinda insulted. He might be saying that so you do stuff to make him "stay" yanoo. Just wait it out, he might just be saying it. ♥
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i dont think you can sign up for the amry until you are out of school which would be 18 i might not be right, but anywho he will probally be a player and have a girlfriend by then. Maybe he just wants attention from you thats why he is saying that
<3 lisa
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Tell him that you have strong feelings for him and that you may love him but the fact is that you need to spend more time together until you and he is ready to become a proper relationship where he can say he loves you and you can say it back! Tell him that if he goes into the army you will miss him and that you wanted to carry on ur relationship so that it gets stronger and you would be able to say i love you it might be a hint that hes ready to say it to you but he wants you to say it first.
luv roxie
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my boyfriend, matter in fact last week, just signed up to be in the marines, for 4 years. yeah, i'm 15 and hes 18. we've been together for over a year, and i knew before we even started going out he wanted to sign up for the marines, but i never really thought anything of it, but yeah he did. its not going to tear us apart, atleast that we know of, were still going to write to eachother i'm still going to be at his house when hes gone. i still have 2 years left in highschool and then 2 years out of that until he comes back. i'm going to miss him alot but imagine if you were older, if you had kids and your the other person running the house, with no help. your better off now, but i'm sure things won't get to the point you would have to break up. and plus you have to be 18 to sign up to enroll in anything with the government unless your parents sign for you. hes still got 3 years, have fun with what you have now. xox Renee
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convince him bii giving him every reason u can 2 talk him outta leaving
or u never no if over the course of a year he may 4get
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he has a girlfriend though. which is you. does he not think you love him? you should talk to him about it if you havent already cause it sounds like he doesnt think you care for him or that maybe he isnt thinking of you long term.
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wow i thynk he just said that so he can get the things that come with being in love
plus i dont thynk you can inlist until your 18
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Tell him how you truly feel about him, that will definitely talk him out of it! I hope I helped!
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Well if you really love him then tell him then he wont leave but if you do and u tell you have to act serious cause for one it is not anything to joke about and for two it will make him feel stupid and you will just regret it and if you dont love him then just tell him that he will meet the right person someday and if you want to stay with him the just you dont want to make the wrong decision so it will happen in time
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Maybe he is telling you that because he wants you to show him that you love him. You are only 14..its not love. But if you care about him that much than do anything you can to show him that. And you can also tell him "If you really care about me than you wont do it and you will realize how much I love you."
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Well, there probably isn't that much you can do to change his mind, except to be there for him and make sure he knows that you care. If he is only 15, you still have a year to make sure he knows how much you'd miss him! <3
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Ok. He's your boyfriend and he told you that? Ummm... yeah. Dump him. 'If you don;t love me I'm goign to go get shot by a man with issues about Americans in the desert.' Apparently you do love him, he just fails to see that!! If you think he;s just stressing or something, get him to remember that /you/ love him, and that him going to the Army would break your heart, just liek that. Would he really want to do that? Tell him that /you/ are there for him. Maybe there are other reasons he wants to leave?
<3 EJ
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Let him go. Hes dumb. Hes also probably messing around and acting emo so he can get attention.
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aw man. tell him what you just told us. tell him youll miss him, and dont wanna be apart from him from that long. tell him youll be worried, and just want him to be safe. he probably wasnt serious..cause..i dunno i cant explain it, but yeah tell him how you feel.
zack
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