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well i like this kid ryan, but we never really c each other. he lives in Port Byron n i live in mastic. he likes me 2. hes turnin 16 nd im only 13. well he just broke up wit mii cousin nd i don no wat 2 do. he doesnt no that i like him but i don no if i wanna tell him. plus the cousin prob. well i just recently went upstate round were he lives 4 my cousins step sis' 16th bday. he was there nd he grabbed mii cuzins butt nd mii uncle saw him nd gave him a lecture n threaghtened 2 kill him if he did it agian. well l8r that night ryan nd mi cuzin broke up nd mi uncle said wow did i scare him that much? the point is that he wants to go out wit me nd if he duz there wouldb a big effect on the fam cuz of wat mii uncle did. nd that he lives so far away, just went out wit mi cuzin nd hez very popular so how would i no if he was cheating on me? i need help. well i m a female obviously (link)
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well first off-you would never see him. thats a big problem. you have to spend time with your boyfriends and share things together for a relationship to work out. HE broke up with someone in your FAMILY chickadee. my cousin went out with a guy i broke up with because he cheated on me and that got me very upset. he was 16 and im 13. so i can relate. i lost my cousins trust because of it. your cousin probably would be very upset with you for a while. and if he is grabbing butts..he must be kind of a perv and you dont need that at all. especially at only 13 years old. your uncle wouldnt want you going out with him and you need to listen to your family. i would say..dont go out with him. it causes too much with the people you love.
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my friend just broke up with her bf after 3 months and shes been reallly sad.. and i`ve been there for her the whole time listening to her say the same things over and over... but i just listen and tell her how bad i feel for her. but i also like this guy and everyonce in a while i talk about how he doesnt even notice me and it makes me sad. and she started freaking out about how i have nothing to be complaining about and its rele stupid and she gets rele annoyed that i talk about him "all the time". this was the first time i found out it was annoying her, and i dont even talk about him that much.. i was thinking that after listening to her complain so much, maybe i had a little room to talk about me for a second... isnt that unfair that she wont even support my problems??? i`ll rate high! x3 (link)
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It is VERY unfair that she wont support you in your hard times when you are there for her. SHE broke up with HIM so its her loss. Talk to her and tell her that real friends are there for eachother no matter what! Tell her that if she is oh so sad over this guy that she needs to talk to him about it. If he doesnt want to try again..her problem. She needs to stop thinking about herself for a second and listen to you and help you with your life a little bit. Tell her also about when she freaked out..maybe its not important to her but its important to you.
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So i met this guy, and by his looks he is definitely not my type. Infact, i dont go for guys out of my race. (He's still half white though). But he has an amazing personalility, all the qualities of a guy im looking for; he's beyond perfect. I want to ask him out, but the looks are bothering me. I know looks have nothing to do with anything, but even though i like him, i dont think i could do anything physical with him like kissing. Do you think its just because its in my head? And do you think a relationship can last even though you arent sexually attracted to them? Do you think i should just be friends or go for something more? (link)
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If it bothers you that much than dont go out with him. He deserves fair treatment just as much as you do. Relationships can last even though you are attracted to someone. You can be friends with him but maybe you should find someone else so that you can get your mind off of him. He deserves someone that will like him just the way he is. On the outside and on the inside.
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My Boyfriend told me yesterday that if he doesnt have a girlfriend who loves him when he turns 16 he is inlisting into the army and i dont want that to happen. I dont want anything to tear us apart but if he does go i will miss him how do i talk him out of it!
Im 14 and He Is Almost 15! (link)
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Maybe he is telling you that because he wants you to show him that you love him. You are only 14..its not love. But if you care about him that much than do anything you can to show him that. And you can also tell him "If you really care about me than you wont do it and you will realize how much I love you."
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My sister is 18 and has recently been kicked out by my mother due to dumb issues. Now I love them both, but my sister is telling me crap about my parents and my parents are telling me crap about my sister. They basically want me to pick sides. Do I pick my parents that have raised me and that I will be stuck with for at least 4 more years? Or do I pick my sister because shes like my best friend? (link)
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You dont pick sides. Your parents are just mad because they didnt think you sister could ever dow what she did. Even if it is dumb. Your sister loves you very much and you guys will be buds forever. No matter what happens because thats just how sisters are. Dont take sides. Just tell them how you feel about it and if they dont stop yapping about it..walk away and tell them not to bug you again until they have something better to talk about.
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