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he likes me nd i like him but...
well i like this kid ryan, but we never really c each other. he lives in Port Byron n i live in mastic. he likes me 2. hes turnin 16 nd im only 13. well he just broke up wit mii cousin nd i don no wat 2 do. he doesnt no that i like him but i don no if i wanna tell him. plus the cousin prob. well i just recently went upstate round were he lives 4 my cousins step sis' 16th bday. he was there nd he grabbed mii cuzins butt nd mii uncle saw him nd gave him a lecture n threaghtened 2 kill him if he did it agian. well l8r that night ryan nd mi cuzin broke up nd mi uncle said wow did i scare him that much? the point is that he wants to go out wit me nd if he duz there wouldb a big effect on the fam cuz of wat mii uncle did. nd that he lives so far away, just went out wit mi cuzin nd hez very popular so how would i no if he was cheating on me? i need help. well i m a female obviously
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I can't see how you can be comfortable being with a guy your cousin has just been with but that's not up to me.
To the point, if you really want to be with him tell him how you feel but being further away from him while in a relationship increases the chances that he's going to cheat. I'm not saying he is a cheater but ya' know?
Just be careful and make sure you're positive about what you're doing before you tell him how you feel.
You could wait a little longer and see if anyone from your own area catches your eye.
Good luck
♥Em
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I'm sorry but.. ♥ would you be comfortable dating him RIGHT after he dated your cousin? If you are, I guess it doesn't matter, but 3 years is a big difference when your 13. I mean it's not like your 19 and hes 22, you're still a child, and he probably has been around.
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I'm sorry but at 13 you aren't going to be able to see this guy enough to waste your time on him.
Do what you want but I think it would be far more trouble than it's worth.
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Well...if I were you, I wouldn't go out with him for the many reasons I'm about to tell you about. First of all, you would never see him and having a boyfriend in the first place means to spend time with one another, not to never see one another. Second, this is family we are talking about here! I know I would rather not go out with him then cause family problems. Like come on now, you have known your family all your life, and you have loved them very much, and you would throw that all away for one guy? Ask yourself that. Third, he is 16 and your 13, he is probably going to cheat on you sorry to tell you, plus he is popular! I hoped I helped you out here to make the right choice!
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well first off-you would never see him. thats a big problem. you have to spend time with your boyfriends and share things together for a relationship to work out. HE broke up with someone in your FAMILY chickadee. my cousin went out with a guy i broke up with because he cheated on me and that got me very upset. he was 16 and im 13. so i can relate. i lost my cousins trust because of it. your cousin probably would be very upset with you for a while. and if he is grabbing butts..he must be kind of a perv and you dont need that at all. especially at only 13 years old. your uncle wouldnt want you going out with him and you need to listen to your family. i would say..dont go out with him. it causes too much with the people you love.
<3-Tiffany
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