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Help please
Hi,
I like this guy that one of my friends are going out with and she really likes him. I don't know what to do .should I be selfless and let her be happy or should I put my self first and take a chance on braking them up and losing a friend?
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NEVER PICK A GUY OVER YOUR FRIEND!!!! I know this for a fact! You can like the guy but you have to remember if you go out with this guy, who is going to be there when the guy turns around and hurts you. If you look at it that way, stick with your friend. Guys are gay anyways.
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Think about it this way: which relationship do you think will last longer? Are you willing to break up a friendship for a guy who may not even be into you, and even if he were, probably wouldn't even stick around that long?
Let's say that he does break up with your friend for you. What guarantee do you have that he won't turn around and do the same thing to you? Where will you be then? Without a boyfriend, and branded as a boyfriend thief.
And remember, he may tell you everything you want to hear, but it's just as likely he told your friend the same thing.
You might like this guy a lot, but chances are, if you're going to ask a question like this, you're not that old--which means you have plenty of time to look for someone else. So don't worry about this particular guy and try looking for someone else. It'll be worth it in the long run.
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Ok you like this guy but does he liek you in the same way? how long is he going to be around? There should be no question about this, your friend should come first, you will learn that no guy is worth losing a friend over.
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dont break them up! she is you friend!!! thats total betrayl! your friend would want you to be happy for her. YOU NEVER choose a guy over your friends...its trechery. find a new guy...even if u do break them up, he might not like you anyway...so you would have done it for nothing...and yet ur friend would still be mad at you.
good luck...=D
dont let the LIGHTS FADE OUT
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Dont break them up!!!!! Your friend is happy and she really likes this guy so dont mess anything up. Who knows how long they are going to stay together anyways. You also dont want to risk loosing your friend because there is a lot of other guys out there! x0
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Omg dont do this! They probably wont last long anyways. It depends, If you really like your friend then dont do it. If you have alot of freinds dont do it. And if you want to be known as a nice girl dont do it! My friend had this problem and it turned out ok, but she didnt like the guy anymore and her friend betrayed her so they arent very close anymore. So if you want to turn out like this go ahead!
hoped i helped make your decision
xoxo BLONDE911
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He's taken, he's not available, move on and find another guy. What makes you think that he'd go out with you, if you did try to break them up, since you would be so willing to hurt your friend? Find another guy.
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I think you should let your friend be happy. How long have you even liked this boy and how long have you had a friendship with you friends?
Most crushes dont last TOO long so i think you should wait this out and see what happens.
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i think you should just leave them alone she really like him and he probally really likes you and friends come before boyfriends so if i were you i would try to find another guy you are intrested in thanx
xoX Ally Babe xOx
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