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me and my boyfriend
well lately my friend has totally been flirting with my boyfriend.She knows she does it but she just shrugs it off.I hate it!!like we will be walking in the halls together and she will come right between us and rather close to him i might add.i dont wanna ruin our friendship, but me and this guy really love each other.we've been together through thick and thin.Please help me and i hope this wasn't to long.
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Well if you guys love eachother, then don't worry about it..just tell your friend how you feel.
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Talk to her and tell her that It's bothering you that she is flirting with your boyfriend.
*Marielle*
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I sorry honey but this girl doesn't sound like a friend to me. If she truly cared and respected you like a true friend should, then there is no chance in hell that she would be flirting with your boyfriend.
If you still want to keep her as a friend though, try talking to your boyfriend about it. Make sure he knows that you trust him enough to know that he would never cheat on you, but that what she is doing is just really annoying you. Then ask him to speak to her, without mentioning that it was you that asked him too. That way she'll probably be embarrassed by your boyfriend telling her to back off more than you and she'll think that he was acting on his own, meaning you'll be able to stay friends but successfully get her to stop flirting with your boyfriend.
Good luck
Claire xx
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Since she's unwilling to admit that she's flirting with him, I'm sorry to say, you need to find another friend; she's not respecting your relationship with yur boyfriend.
How about, when you're walking through the halls with your boyfriend, you hold hands so she can't get between you two? Talk to him about it and he might have an idea of what to do.
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If your friend is picking the guy over you, then your friend is a bad friend. And maybe you should stick with your guy and then your friend will see the problem. Good luck!!
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Tell your friend to *back off* and tell her soon. Dont put up with things like that !!!
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Talk to your friend once more and if she doesn't listen, then there's probably not much you can do on that end. If this is the case, then talk to your boyfriend. Ask him to make it clear that he's not interested in your friend and to move away from her everytime she approaches him. He should make it perfectly clear that he's yours, and that he wants to keep it that way.
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She is NOT your friend. True friends would never do that to you.
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talk to your friend about it tel her that you wish that she would stop getting between you guys. if she doesnt want to stop then tell her the friendship just isn't going to work out, you a have decision to with i hope this helped atleast a lil bit.~
kim~ tell me how it works out!
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exactly that tell her
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well i think that u should talk to your friend and if she is really a friend like u think she is then she will listion
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No it wasn't long at all don't worry. I would sit your friend down, alone, and tell her that she needs to stop. She might take this badly but to have less of a chance of her getting mad say something like "(your friends name) it makes me feel ucomfortable when you come between me and (your boy friends name). I just wanted to ask if you can lighten up a bit on the physical (a very important thing to say, phsyical) closness." Make your voice calm and forgiving sounding so that she doesn't go on the defense and start yelling. Let her know your not mad at her (even if you are) that way she wont stop being your friend since you enjoy being friends with her.
-Malicious
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Um... This is the conversation I would have with her, for the solution of "talking it out"
You: Hey ______
Her: Hey ______
You: Fuck off
Her: Excuse me?
You: We all know you have a dick.
then you two would be in a lovely cat fight. I'm kidding. Um... I really think you should just talk it out, not in my fashion, for obvious reasons. Just... talk it out, and ask your boyfriend about it. Ask your consultant, lawyer, doctor, gynocologist... EVERYONE! and see if someone, that's not me, can help you.
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You need to go to this "friend" of yours and say, "hey, you better stop flirting with my guy, or this frienship will have an end fast." You need to threaten her, and have your guy push her away. Yes, it sounds mean, but not as mean as flirting with your friends love interest.
-TheTeenGirl
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Tell her about it nothing is gonna happen until you tell her. If your friendship is that strong talkin to her about it wont break it up
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If you and your bf do really love each other, you should be a little more confident and show your bf a little more faith and trust. She can flirt a little and although it is annoying, it isn't going to do any harm whatsoever unless your bf actually responds.
Talk to the bf about it. He is the one that is in love with you. Who cares what she does as long as he always remains faithful to you.
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Talk to your boyfriend about it.Tell him you would really be happy if the next time he would tell her to stop.Might be better coming from him,since she doesn't listen to you.
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you should tell your friend that you dont like her flirting with youur boyfriend and if she is truely your friend then she will quit, and if she doesnt then she isnt a true friend. And you need to talk to your boyfriend about it too. hope this hlped you!
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I think that you should talk to your boyfriend about this and how you feel. you also need to confront your friend even if it will ruin your friendship and tell her how you feel about her flirting with your boyfriend. if she is really your friend then she should understand and back off. xoxo peachgirly
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Talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you feel about them flirting. You also need to tell your friend. I know that you dont want to ruin your guy's friendship but think about how much you care about this guy. Guys will come and go but friends arent like that so you might wanna think about that to. If she was truely your friend then she would understand how you feel and hopefully she would stop flirting with him. x0
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Talk to your boyfriend about it and tell him that it bugs you! If he really cares about you, then he'll just shrug her off!
♥ Always,
Maria
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