So there's this boy I used to see at school a lot. Now he works at a grocery store in our town. Only he works early in the morning. I've heard a lot of really good things about him lately. Everyone says how amazingly nice he is. And considering nice guys are hard to find, I want to have a fair chance at this guy. But he also has a girlfriend (so I've heard.. from a boy who likes me..)
So I want a chance at him, but I've never spoken to him before, never had a class with him, and I dont have the slightest idea how to approach him and what to say.
Berri answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 12:55 am: Well if the only time you really see him right now is at the grocery store, then I guess the only thing to do is to stop by one day at 6AM for that posterboard for that school project...*wink, wink*, and then when you're ready to pay, get in his check out lane. And then when you get up there to him, be like, "Hey, didn't I use to go to school with you??" "How are you doin' nowadays???" You know. Just make smalltalk. And then if you're feeling up to it, write your number down and give it to him and say, "Well hey, if you ever wanna' hang out, gimme' a call!!!" And then if he calls you up, it means he's probably interested in you. And from there, you can just hang out and be friends for a little bit and get to know him better and find out if he's taken or not, and then maybe things will spark between you two and you'll have your dream boy! I think that's worth getting up early one morning for!!! [ Berri's advice column | Ask Berri A Question ]
xxASKAWAYxx answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 10:32 pm: 1 i dont think that you should go after onther girls guy
but neway if you think hes the only one you need him to kno you . mabey try to get a job there or say do you go to whatever high then slowly bcome his friend. Do whatever he wants in the beginin.
snowkid111 answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 7:39 pm: What you should do is slowly become very good freinds with him. You should walkl up to him and ask him for help ask the grocery store and say " Hey, look firmilier, do you go to ________ high?"
Then ask him for his screen name and slowly become freinds and eventually tell him how you feel. Good luck.
Sincerely,
snowkid111 [ snowkid111's advice column | Ask snowkid111 A Question ]
mn731 answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 4:11 pm: don't go after another guy's girlfriend..i mean imagine if you were his girlfriend and another girl was trying to be with him..just let things go the way they're suppose to go and maybe it will work out for you..sorry if that was bad advice [ mn731's advice column | Ask mn731 A Question ]
perfect_gurl answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 2:38 pm: You're right! Nice guys are hard to find. So when you find one, don't let him go. Heres the thing, if the guy that likes you tells you about the guy you like then theres something wrong. Try this nice guy. Go for the gold! [ perfect_gurl's advice column | Ask perfect_gurl A Question ]
EJ47 answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 2:25 pm: Sooo many times do I see this question in one day. :P Just go up to him and chat over anything, and then just as casually ask him if maybe he'd like to go out with you.... things would probably be easier to say two if you were alone, say, a theatre or something like that. And hey, I'm a nice guy. Was I that hard to find? No. ;P Seriously, all you need to do is ask. You'll either get a yes or a no, but if you don't ask then you'll never know what /could/ have been. ^^ <3 EJ [ EJ47's advice column | Ask EJ47 A Question ]
blondedramaqueen91 answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 2:19 pm: go to the grocery store and buy some cokes or somthing casually ask him about school just small talk and see if you guyz really have anything to talk about. if not just find another one there's plenty of them out there. [ blondedramaqueen91's advice column | Ask blondedramaqueen91 A Question ]
karenR answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 2:05 pm: You have to talk to him if you want to be noticed. Looks like it's time you did some morning grocery shopping. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
ShYbl0nD3 answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 2:04 pm: go to the store in the morning and check out at his counter... start a conversation.
That would be the easyest.
h.i.h.
P.S. well he might say "hows your morning so far, or what ever the people have to say at the store. If not you can be like. "Hey hows work goin' so far?" somthing simple. Maybe flirt alittle.
Buy somthing so its alttle easyer. and when you give him check/money w.e. try and touch his fingers. lol But yes just a simple conversation. even asking a question is kool to. "Whats it like working at the store" or if you wanna come up with your own.
good luck! [ ShYbl0nD3's advice column | Ask ShYbl0nD3 A Question ]
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