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I'm really close to my cousin who is 2 years younger than me (we're both girls). But its the fact that we've been around eachother our whole lives that makes us close. If it wasn't for being related, I would never hang out with her. All her life, she's been a follower and there is absolutley nothing thats unique about her. AT ALL and I'm tired of it. When the whole "skater" thing was in...she pretended to be a skater. Now that the "punk" thing has been in for awhile shes followed that. I know, I know..."some people like it, so let them be". But she's always posting things like "peace" "drop food not bombs" blah blah blah because her older brother does it (he's a punk, but he's been a punk for awhile and he's truly into it). So she's going around posting all this crap, and she has NO CLUE whos running for president. She has NO IDEA on politics whatso ever and here she is posting all this crap. Another thing is her vegetarianism. She became a vegetarian because her brother and all of their punk friends were vegetarians. I asked her why she became one, and she would not answer me because she had nothing to back it up with. Its cool that she doesn't eat meat--I don't either (I don't eat it because of health/personal reasons whereas her brother does it for the animals) and I have no problem sharing that with people. But her on the other hand... yea. And she's embarassing to go places with because of the way she dresses. Her pants are super tight and she'll sew the bottoms for them to look like that and she's not exactly skinny or someone who would look good in those pants. The other day, her pants ripped in the butt area and she was embarrassed. Then she shouldn't wear such tight pants. She can afford regular pair! Thats what she buys at the stores. Its not the fact that shes "punk"...its the fact that its all a stupid little show. And she's such a drama queen too. I'm so sick of her. She hardly takes a shower and she thinks she's the best at everything, I'm not even kidding. She thinks she sings really, really good and everytime I sing in the car really low to a song on the radio, she'll hear me and start trying to sing over my voice (I'm not even singing loud in the first place, so I don't know how she can hear me). Her voice is TERRIBLE. Even my other family members talk about it behind her back. To sum it up...my cousin is so unoriginal its disgusting. I know the world is full of people copying other people, but some things you only see once or twice. But everything on her is like every sellout thing imagined. And she's so self-absorbed. I'm sick and tired of it. But because we're cousins I can't just tell her all of this. How can I tell her in a more polite way to stop living off of what other people do or say and start becoming your own person? (link)
u wrote a little to much..but if u love your cousin then tell her to get a hobbie..or a favorite music group..tell her she is starting to annoying cuz she acts like someone shes not..she may understand..



I'm currently friends with a 24 year old (man)that smells very bad.I'm not sure how to tell him that he stinks. Him and his mother both smell actually but he is unbearable. He is kinda of an outcast in our town because everyone has smelt him at one time or another which he does not have many friends. He is a really good guy but he constantly smells of cigarette smoke, body Odor, he also is always covered in dog hair. They never open the windows or curtains in the house so it makes the stench just linger. Im also not sure if he washes his clothes or his body on a regular basis. He is very tempermental and i think he will get mad and take it the worng way when i let him know he smells. So my question is how do I tell him he smells without hurting him to bad.

fed up friend (link)
i know you dont want to hurt this persons feelings but if you tell him he may have an easier life..like he may get more friends..but if thats too hard for you tell him you got this knew colon and all the girls love it..and then he may want to wear it.

whatever you do dont avoid him..if your his only friend.


I have very curly hair. Not like super tight curls but its verry curly, puffy, and frizzy. What can I do to help keep the frizz down? (link)
i dunt have fuzzy hair but its not exactly that staright..and i get a shower blow dry it and they straighten my hair. Also i have a friend with major curly hair...she has the same problem..but she sum how gets it straigh. so try out a straightener..or get it straightend at the hair salon..



My younger sister is 18 next week so its quite a big deal (as we're english!) but i have no idea what to get her. As anyone got any ideas at all? im really stuck! I rate high guys! (link)
You should just ask her what she wants for her birthday..and if u want it to be a suprise take her shoppinq for fun and see what she likes..or give her money or gift a certificate.



Why do guys get angry when you have only been dating two months and they tell you they love, but if you don't feel comfortable saying it back they all the sudden don't love you? Especially the only reason you don't want to say it is because that is when people start getting hurt! (link)
u dont have to say u love them if u dunt want to.


So there's this boy I used to see at school a lot. Now he works at a grocery store in our town. Only he works early in the morning. I've heard a lot of really good things about him lately. Everyone says how amazingly nice he is. And considering nice guys are hard to find, I want to have a fair chance at this guy. But he also has a girlfriend (so I've heard.. from a boy who likes me..)

So I want a chance at him, but I've never spoken to him before, never had a class with him, and I dont have the slightest idea how to approach him and what to say.

Any help is greatly appreciated. (link)
Just go up to him!!!!!!!!!! =)


this isn't really a question.. but HIIIIIIIII.. its cris.. cc is over.. and we r bored.. what should we do.. i need ur help with some ideas.. thanx hun!

xO* CRiiSTA & CC (link)
omg i though sumone was acually askinq me something..i never use this so no one ever askes me a question..=(!! ok well u guys can..go play soccer! k..luv you!


heyy jess it's beckii, i'm sick so i can't go to school today, so im bored ,just wanted to say hi (link)
hey beckii i was sick to! lol....so was greg..haha where all sick


omg 7 dollars an hour jess that is 2 much money.....i babysit 3 kids(1 is a year old, 1 is 4, and 1 is 7) is she should get 7 i should get 10.......and u cant get breast cancer braceletts at a cancer center u get them at www.pinkmerchandise.com..... (link)
um yah u can


I've been friends with this one girl for about two years. But sometimes she seems too bossy and too serious. I ask her to hang out sometimes but she usually cant. does she really wanna be my friend?

Please help...

I'm a female (link)
well this girls mom might not let her go out all the time..but if like she always has other plans..like to hang with another friend then i would feel the same way..i would just ask this gurl if shes your friend straight up..and if she says yes then ask her why you both never hang out.!. it will for sure figure out why she never wants to hang out with you.


I'm in 8th grade. This is my last year at m school, and I have become like really close with these two girls. Like and we are going to differnt highschools, but they are the only people that I can actually tell them stuff. I'm like really scared because i need one of them to talk to at school..to help me with my problems and stuff! how am i going to survive with out them?! i am totally scared! mauhh

kmul (link)
its real simple join a lot of sports and clubs... you will meet a lot of people doing that! believe me i did..ull make a lot of new friends and if ur that scared then just go to the school one of ur friends is going to.


What are somethings you can add to coffee to make it taste better. I hate coffee with nothing in it, and I need ideas on what to add.

**I Rate High** (link)
hey i love coffee..
and i hate the taste of it plan to..i add a lot of sugar and half nd half! stir good..


Hello ... where can I get the breast cancer bracelet from? Thanks (link)
i got my breast cancerbracelet at my lunch table but u can probably get them at cancer centers!


ok i have a guy friend that i like a little and he likes me but i dont wanna go out him at all b/c he'd be a horrible bf..wat should i do?!!? (link)
Maybe you have to try going out with him...maybe hes a good boyfriend...did u go out with him before and he was a bad bf? or is he just annoying and you kno hed be a bad bf?? well if u never went out with him i think u should give him a chance.
hope this helped out..


For a school dance I'm the music person...one problem I dont know what to play. Its a highschool dance for like the winter and stuff and one of the songs they asked me to get goes like "and in the end its right I hope you had the time of your life." but I dont know who sings it...ahhh what do i do...please help!

*no style* (link)
i pretty sure its green day!!! i hope this help you!!!


ive got this friend..and we're pretty good friends..but she is such a flirt that it gets on my nerves every once in awhile..mainly when shes flirtin with guys i like..she flirted so much with my home-coming date that he changed his mind and they went together..and any guy i like she flirts with them..in 5th period..the guy i like sits 1 seat away frum me..hers is in the middle..she didnt use to sit there tho...she just now decided she wanted to sit back over by us..how can i get used to her flirting or what can i do?!?! (link)
Ask her why she flirted with ur date for the home coming dance?? and find out why she would acually go out with your date!! she doesn't sound like a friend..if she starts to flirt near the guy u like again tell her ur not gonna take her flirting with ur boyfriend or crushes..shes a foe!


okay there is this girl named Tessie and she is supposedly one of my best friends! well everytime I try to plan something with tessie she always says that she can't do and always seems to have an excuse! what should i do? is she really my friend? she seems to think we are but i don't believe that she is telling me the truth!! i think she is using me What is ur opinion on this?? (link)
It sounds like tessie is to busy for her "best friend" ask her whenever you c her again, c what she says..ask her something like do u wana cum over and if she had one of her excuses then think of something really BIG..u guys could do...somthing really fun and big...c what she says then.


Theres this kid and hes sooo annoying, he picks on me all the time. I tell him to stop but he doesn't. What should I do to get him to stop picking on me??? (link)
Tell this kid whos picking on you to lay off or your gonna do soemthing bad to him..but if u dunt wana be mean like that then you could tell on him,but if u dunt wana tell then pick on him back he'll get annoyed by it and probably go pick on someone else..if he doesn't stop tell me why..and ill help u from there..;)


heyy its britt
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hey britt..thanx for this idea its so much fun..!
;)


This guy kissed me on the cheek and on the hand. and is always snuggling up to me and stuff. But he's a year younger. Do u think he likes me or what? (link)
unless this guy is always joking around then it sounds like he has a crush on you..but if hes not that cute or u dunt like his personality then u can tell him to stop..unless you like it ;)
hope my advice helps you out! xO




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