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Are we friends?
okay there is this girl named Tessie and she is supposedly one of my best friends! well everytime I try to plan something with tessie she always says that she can't do and always seems to have an excuse! what should i do? is she really my friend? she seems to think we are but i don't believe that she is telling me the truth!! i think she is using me What is ur opinion on this??
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sounds like she's using you or messing with you. Just ask her straight up. If she is... beat her up. lol jp. if she isn't but she treats you like that, she might have a real reason/a secret that she can't tell you. so ask her to be honest and tell u what's going on.
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well, see, i've been in the same position as tessie. sometimes you just really can't make time to do things. it's happened to me before, and i always feel really bad about it.
however, not everyone is like me. try talking to her again about it.
best of luck
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Okay I am personally giving you my opinion and I think that she doesnt want to be seen in public with you so she makes everything up and gets herself out of it but then on the other hand she feels like she has to keep being friends with you so if she ever needs anything she can always use you for it. Im sorry thats just the way it sounds to me!!!!!!
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Yeah, I think she might just be using you... or she could just be really busy, but that probably isn't it. Try asking her when she's available to hang out with you, and then ask her to do something with you at whatever time she answers, and if she seems reluctant, then I would say she probably isn't really your friend...
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Let Juliett spread the love (*'../'*). OK there are 2 possibilitys. One she is starting not to like you, y i don't no. You should have a convorsation with her. Another possibiliy is thats something reely is wrong. you reely need to sit down and talk.
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i have gone through that before...you seem close but then anytime you ask her to go somewhere....there is always an excuse...it seems like she likes you but she doesnt want to be seen with you...the best thing that a friend should do is talk...talking is the best way to solve a problem...if she does end up saying that she likes you and all but not that much....i wouldnt bother with her...a friend is not like that..she doesnt desirve a friend like you....i hope i helped!
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I had the same problem. My friend was useing me because he wouldnt listen to me or ne thing and only was my friend during important things. You should really sit down with her and talk to her about treating you better.
Hope i helped!
~Brina~
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well are her excuses legitimate? This happened to me...turns out my so called friend just really did not want to ahng out wiht me. If her excuse are real..it may be that she is really busy.
Talk to her..find out the real deal..if she is lying..find a new friend..see a friend is somone who WANTS to spend timw with you.
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It sounds like tessie is to busy for her "best friend" ask her whenever you c her again, c what she says..ask her something like do u wana cum over and if she had one of her excuses then think of something really BIG..u guys could do...somthing really fun and big...c what she says then.
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