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ive got this friend..and we're pretty good friends..but she is such a flirt that it gets on my nerves every once in awhile..mainly when shes flirtin with guys i like..she flirted so much with my home-coming date that he changed his mind and they went together..and any guy i like she flirts with them..in 5th period..the guy i like sits 1 seat away frum me..hers is in the middle..she didnt use to sit there tho...she just now decided she wanted to sit back over by us..how can i get used to her flirting or what can i do?!?!
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Tell her that what shes doing is really low. If shes your friend and realizes that you like the guy, she should have the respect not to flirt with them. It might not be your style, but how do you think she'd feel if she got a taste of her own medicine?
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Tell her who you like. I mean maybe she'll back off those guys. Start flirting with the guys she likes. You'll feel better. Make yourself known...
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First of all, dont tell her about who you like anymore cuz trust me this will never get any better if you keep telling her who you like. I have a friend like that too. LOL! she is awsome tho. Just whatever you do if you like being friends with her then dont let a guy get in the middle of yall's friendship...that is the worst thing that you could ever do...but if she tries to ruin yall's friendship over a guy then i dont think that she has matured enough to learn that your supposed to but "bros before Hoes." lol!
good luck
Sammie
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did you ever think taht maybe she doesnt know and that she jsut flirts with everyone? really if they just go for her over some little flirtting then you two werent meant to be in the first place. just wait that right guy will come along
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OMG I have friend just like that (except I don't tell anyone who I like). she will basically flirt with anything that comes her way. Maybe she just doesn't know that she does this or even that it bothers you. Tell her how you feel and don't be shy about. Find a time when you have a while to talk about and just spill. If she gets angry about how you feel than maybe you and her should take a break for a little while. Cool down and than get back to being friends. If that doesn't work than tell her you like someone you don't just to see if she flirts with them and don't tell her who you like and see if she flirts with them. It could be something she can't help or it could be that she feels she is better than you and is trying to compete with. Whatecer it is try talking to her about it before making a decision you'll regret.
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err i hate that so much. my friend does it too. theres a few options:
1) dont tell her who you like. keep it to urself and maybe she wont decide to do that. shes prob just trying to compete and show off which is really stupid.
2) talk to her. tell her how u feel, just say u want to keep her as a freind but sometimes u feel hurt becuz it seems like shes always trying to flirt with the poeple you like. tell her th
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Dont tell her who you like ever. Also, tell her to stop flirting with the guys you like. If I were you I'd be really angry. Maybe you should ditch her...or just tell her that she needs to stop trying to take the guys you like.
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Ask her why she flirted with ur date for the home coming dance?? and find out why she would acually go out with your date!! she doesn't sound like a friend..if she starts to flirt near the guy u like again tell her ur not gonna take her flirting with ur boyfriend or crushes..shes a foe!
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if ur tellin her who u like then dont tell her anymore. if shes ur good friend then find a guy u really really like then dont tell her who it is and if she flirts w/them then tell her 2 back off u like him and hes not her man. hope i helped ya!
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Tell her straight up that your getin mad at her for flirting all the time and if she doesnt stop flirting with the guys you like that you guys arnt gona be such great fgriends no more. If that is how you feel. Hope iv helped dont be afraid to write back, good luck!
Signed
Short N Punky
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some people are natural flirters. they cant help it. so there is really nothing you can do, sry.
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well u wont exactly be able to get used to it, but maybe just dont tell her who u like
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Tell her to stop and find her own people to flirt with. tahts all you can do, and if she doesnt stop just ignore her:)
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