im 18/f. ok so im a good kid i was raised in a good family and so was my mom's side [i dont associate with my dad's really]. anyway so my mom is completely against tattoos. she says theyre tacky and blah blah blah. she's not crazy about piercings either but i've convinced her in to a few of those. but anyway i think tattoos and super intriguing and unique and i like them as long as they're not trashy looking you know? so i want to get a tattoo in memory of my grandmother on my foot. she died of cancer almost 5 years ago and it had a HUGE impact on me, and i want something to symbolize that. i've brought it up to my mom and she of course HATES the idea and gets kinda ill when i mention it. i planned on getting her a cross and cancer ribbon and drew it out for her to see and asked that if it was to symbolize my grandma and my faith and mean a lot to me why would it be so bad? she responded that if i want to symbolize my faith i can wear a cross necklace or something and that my grandma wouldn't want me to get a tattoo, regardless if it was in memory of her. but it would be special to me and having that tattoo would mean more to me than just wearing a necklace you know? not one ounce of my mom likes the idea. my question is, what would you do in this situation? that's the only tattoo i would get, and it wouldn't affect starting a career or anything cuz it'd be on my foot. i know that legally i can walk right out to a shop and get it, but on the other hand i'd feel kinda bad disrespecting my mom like that because we're really close, but it is something i want. how would you react?
i know what you're going through. I always wanted a tattoo and my dad is 100% against it and until a couple months ago I thought my mom was too. I decided to get one anyway so I have two small ones on my hip that both mean the world to me. I plan on getting another one on my hip and one on my foot. For the one on my foot (which I can't hide) i have decided to wait until I am financially independent. Right now I think that's all you can do. If this tattoo means that much to you keep thinking about it and I'm sure you'll still want it later in life and you can get it then. Until then I'd suggest holding off so that you don't get in trouble with your parents while you still depend on them that way you are not putting anything in jeopardy.
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has anyone used any of the hydroxycut products?
what was your opinion on them?
I have used hydroxycut and i did not like the feeling it gave me. one of the ways it works is to increase your heartbeat and because of that i was achy and got light headed very fast. its not a product i would recommend. Try something more natural like Hoodia
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I have never before used tampons and I want to start trying them but I am like so terrified that I am going to put it the wrong place or it will hurt to bad does anyone have any ideas?
have someone explain it to you or read the info in the box. then practice using ur hand
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Does anyone no how to get eye makeup off, anything but vasiline or is thta the only thing that workds?
if u put some lotion on a cotton ball that should work, works for me every time
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well, in school, it feels like everyone is gettin a boyfriend or a girlfriend. i mean i kno i am gonna find that speical sum1, but i hav neva in my life had a boyfriend, i mean people judge me for what i look like. i mean i know i am not the preetiest girl in school, or the skinnyist girl in school, or the smartest girl in school. but i mean, no one gives me a chance, the look at me be4 they decide to get to kno me. wat should i do. i am 14 and a female
Ok wow well that sounds like me i mean im ur age and everything. I just sit there and make friends with who i can i dont try to go for the most popular(also because i hate those people), and i don't try for the hottest i make friends with a guy and w/e. I am soooo not skinny and am not the prettiest of anyone i no but i am ok with it. I think you should try to make friends with a guy that is nice and just kinda well there i guess but isnt the popular one or the hot just someone who is nice and funny and u can talk to then maybe add in a little flirting or w/e but just let it happen dont force it and dont get urself worked up over it.
~^*^NAOMI^*^~ HOPE I HELPED
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is it safe to have sex with my wife when she is pregnant?
Yes and most doctors say it is acctually very healthy and it is something that you SHOULD do !!!
~^*^NAOMI^*^~
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okay i just need someone to talk to .. just someone .. i just need a person that will cheer me up everyday .. and be there.. i have problems going on .. and i need help with them .. IM me on aim .. at s0 effin radx or xhugs not drugz
well thanksz rachel;
Heyy Babez. I am on whenever I can be and i Love talking to people so if you need someone to talk to just IM me on xXxtiamo18xXx
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i am 14/f and i'm in 8th grade...i have tons of make-up but i can never put it on quite right!! i can do mascara and concelor and i can do the blush and the lips that i can do good...but i have a horrible time doing the eyes...i dont know why but everytime i try to do them i just cant do it right..and it looks really bad! i cannot do eyeliner at all! and the eyeshadow just dosent work for me...does anyone have any tips that might help me be able to put it on alittle better?
ok so for your eyeshadow either go with a color that your wearing or the color that best compliments your eye color, for example i have brown eyes and the best color for brown is green, or nude with a touch of shimmer. for eyeliner, put ur finger on where your "bags" would be and pull down. That spot where your two eyelids meet is where your supposed to put the eyeliner, and always make sure you have a good pencile. what i like to do as soon as i get a new pencil is to get a lighter and melt/burn the tip, then sharpen it again and it is good to go. if you take a bit of foundation or concealer and put a dab on the spot on the side of your nose thats kinda dark and kinda looks like part of you eyelid i find that it brightens the area up and you look more awake ~^*^hope i helped^*^~
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hey ok so heres the thing, i need some advice on my 'situation' my ex and exex fight a lot and my ex and me broke cause of it. wat can i do?
well if u really i want to know i'd say keep them away from each other. if u cant do that then i suggest that you explain to them that it is causing a problem for you and hopefully they will stop.
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I recently sent a few friends the link to this site. Since then I haven't heard from any of them and wondered what I had done to upset them. I can see they are on IM but they never answer. I go to a chatplace we all use and no ones talking. I came here to ask advice and now I find they have all joined and are busily handing out advice like it's on buy one get one free.
I have once again tried to talk to them to ask what's going on but I am still not getting any replies.
I am very concerned they have become addicted to being Agony Aunts/Uncles, and do worry that this may lead to them neglecting not only their friends but also their work and families.
I will feel really guilty if any of them end up getting fired from work for slacking off and then lose their house beacuse they can't make the repayments because they may then end up getting divorced and they won't be able to make the maintenance payments either and will probably end up living in a cardboardbox on the streets.
Am I a bad person for sending them the link in the first place? And how can I help them break this addiction before it goes too far?
You are absolutly not a bad person, this is a great site! I think that maybe to talk to them on their column by giving t6hem a question. Wait till they answer and then either tell them who you are or just keep talking. Either way you are talking to your friends and this "adiction" will stop in time. It's just something new that they have discovered, like getting a new video game, you don't want to stop until you win! Don't worry so much! Hope I helped. Plz rate me
~*~^Naomi^~*~
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omg ok i turned 15 in june & i've never "french kissed" any1..like wut tha hell..all my friends have and iduno..i've had so many boyfriends & almost all of them have wanted to make-out with me, but that's when i usually dump them and go hide b/c im soooo nervous...like i want to sooo badly but i'm scared..i don't know what to do, and i don't want to look dump b/c i'm a bad kisser or w/e..iduno..i'm seein this guy now..who i absolutely adore & i don't want to ruin it b/c i'm scared of my first kiss..i love him so much and he's 2 years older than me so i know he'll want to kiss..help..='(...i know after i get the first one over with i'll be fine..i'm just usually hesitant when it comes to doing things i'm unsure about..sorry its so long..i'm just upset & scared & confused..and i hope ya'll can be understanding and help me out..thanx
if you have gotten kissed just not french kissed odnt worry about. If you like this guy then just go for it, don't be scared and just try to have a good time!
~*~Naomi~*~
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I need help getting my toe touch. I just can't get it high enough. I stretch everyday and still not progress. People tell me to "roll my hips" but I dont know what they mean. Help!
Ok so when you are just sitting down watching tv or doing hw, w/e, just sit in stradle position a little bit farther every day so your legs get used to it. That way when you jump your legs will just do it. Also, when your do a toe touch keep your back straight and use your stomach mussles to pull your legs up. What i mean is don't lean foward trying to reach for your toes b/c your body will get used it and your toe touch will get worse. And i no this is a bad idea but, when your sitting in class or at the dinner table try and sit upright like with good posture so that when you jump your back will be straight. I'm doing cheerleading now so i no wat u're going through. And also (i no its a lot) make sure u REALLY stretch your crotch mussles before youo start jumping. Hope I helped, plz rate me.
~*~Naomi~*~
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Okay, I'll put it to you this way: I'm OBSESSED with mashed potatoes. I make them all the time when I come home from school. I normally eat them plain or with corn. I need to mix it up a bit. Does anyone have any thing I could put in them to make them good? Anything will be good for me. I eat anything pretty much, especially mashed potatoes. Heh. Anyway, if anyone has any ideas as to how to spice up my mashed potatoes, that'd be great! Thanks if you can help!
Ok I know this soundds pretty weird but in camp this was the only way I used to eat them. Ok so get italian salad dressing and put some potatoes on your fork and then dip it into the mashed potatoes. I know it sounds weird but it's sooooo good. Or you can ketchup, or balsamic salad dressing, or (and this is only if you have it) my mom makes great sweat and sour meatballs, take the extra sauce from that and pour it over your potatoes IT'S SOOOO GOOD!!!!!! Hope I gave you some good ideas! Rate my plz, thanx.
~*~Naomi~*~
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Me and my girl freind have been going out for a while now i love her to death but i dont know what i should get her for christmas what would be somthing good?
I think that if you have been going out for a while and you have taken her to some places and you have things ffrom thoses places that you should get a nice box and put everything in the box and then take her to a nice dinner, give her the box and you can remember all the great times you've had together. Hope I helped ~*~Naomi~*~
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my friend and i want to be singers and we have written 1 song and we always try to write another song but we just can't....anyone have any good ideas or a good song we could sing that is original??...thnx i rate
If one of ou is good at writing poetry or can find a poem that you both like just put a beat to it and vuala! you've got yoursefl a song. Hope I helped. ~*~Naomi~*~
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13/f
Does anyone know any really good books about stuff like romance, death,depression, all that fun stuff. i have already read the lovely bones and it is my absolute FAVORITE book. nothing to happy...but does anyone know a really good book that has the same kind of mood as the lovely bones.
Oh yeah...and P.S. there is this one book my friend was telling me about where this woman loses all her money and sells her daughter to this prostitute house. its called like "reading me love" but i could never find it...i dont even know if thats the title!! Thanks.
Yea I read a lot and here are some good ones. 1) Doing it 2) Running from the past (i think thats wat its called) and 3) A child called it
~*~Naomi~*~
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Only answer this if you play an insturment please. I play the violin and after school I always have alot of homework and I can never get practicing in and I'm afraid the teacher thinks horribly of me, but I try on weekends to get some practicing done! Does anyone know a good technique to use so I CAN get some practicing done?
Ok so heres what you do. Start your homework when you get home. Then when you get bored of doing homework, practice. You will just keep switching on and off that you'll get your practicing done and your homework done!
~*~Naomi~*~
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I know this is probably the wrong forum, but hey i'll ask my question anyway.
Like millions of other people, i suffer from severe depression. I've tried Zoloft which had a NASTY effect and do not wish to try it again.
Can anyone recommend a good anti-depressant, one that will actually work without the side effects?
I know most of you will reply by saying that i should visit a Doctor. But hey, i don't trust them because they don't know what they're talking about anyway.
Maybe you should talk to a therapist. Depending on where you live i can recomend a few (I've been to different ones). IM me on LiLnSbAbY123, or leave a question on my column.
~*~Naomi~*~
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i am the girl that said she was anarexic for six months and was 5'8 and 13 years old... i now weigh 120 pounds cuz i checked into a hospital and they made me gain ALOT of weight... is 120 to fat for a 5'8 13 yr old? my doctor said that that is how much im suppost to weigh since im so tall... but is that still to much?
Absolutaly not! 120 is the weight you are supposed to be when you are 5'3 so really you are under weight. I'm the same height as you and 14 years old. i weigh 182 so I'm definatlly over weight. Don't worry so much and dont loose anymore weight you are still under weight so you still get wat you want without the consequenses!
~*~Naomi~*~
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Hi you guys... i don't really know where to start. i'm head over heels for one of my best friends (my best guy friend). and i don't know what to do. sometimes, when we're talking and it's late at night, i come so close to telling him, just because i'd like to know if i have a chance. but then part of me is afraid. he has a girlfriend at the moment, and i don't want to ruin anything between them. i found out a few days ago that he used to think we had the potential to be soulmates, that's definitely how i feel. and have felt. i just don't know if he still feels like that and i'm really afraid to ask. so, all wise advice givers, what do i do?
OMG! that is exactaly how i feel i feel about my best friends jason! escept i told him last year. He always used to ask me who i liked and that time i told him that i wanted something that i couldn't have and he started guessing then i told him it was him. He said ok and we talked about but nothing happened between us. We still talk about it sometimes but now i don't really think anything is going to happen because of how close we are. He hasn't had a girlfriend for about a year but i had a boyfriend this summer at camp and he was the first person outside of camp that i called to tell. He seemed a little weird about it even when i got home and we had broken up so i thought there might have been a chance but there wasn't. My advice to you is to tell him one night while your talking to him. Just get it out in the open and see how he feels about it. If you are as close as you say than he shouldn't have a problem with it. Hope I helped (with like my life story lol).
~*~Naomi~*~
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