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ok so im still young and im allowed to start wearing makeup.. i wanna know know tips that will help me look pretty and not slutty and is good for a 13 year old.. i have pretty pale skin but not that pale. i have blue eyes and light brown hair. thx i really need some help cause i have no idea how to wera makeup.. omg please dont ask me to ask my mom lol

you should wear a thin layer of eyeliner on your inner eyelid.
ask your mom or someone to do it.
that would make your eyes stand out more and match with your hair.
and some sort of lipgloss.
simple and nice.

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ok does this sound cute to everyone? for christmas sunday just for church im wearing this black blouse with a red skirt it goes sort of to my ankles. (its one of those ruffly ones) it has silver horizontal lines of silver sequins throughout it. then im wearing black heels. does that sound cute? also how should i wear my hair with this? wavy down or straight down? or up? thank you ill rate high.

it sounds really cute.
wear your hair wavy down with maybe a silver clip in it to match the skirt and some sort of silver necklace.

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How do I put a music Playlist on xanga?

Ummm..... theres a code for it... go to www.createblog.com and go to xanga scripts then find it ..if not just IM me on aim and ill do it for you, or give you the code. kk, hope i helped


_Kadi_

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What do i do when me & my bff have a crush on the same guy?

Fight!!! lmfao no j/k. see which guy likes you.if he likes any one of you at all. if he doesnt then just crush on him together k?


_Kadi_

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Hi, i have a friend who has bad b/o. I'm not that kind of person who can say "Would u mind putting on some deoderent?" I could never do that to a friend. I was wondering if anyone could tell me how to tell her without hurting her feelings. Please my b-day party is coming up and shes coming, i dont want to afend my other friends. Please, I really need some help.

oo i hav a good idea. At the party like make up party favors. but for hers, put some body spray in it. and she'll be like OOOOO! and spray it on her.. or when she's not looking spray sum perfume on her..LOL yeah if that doesn't work, talk to her mom about it or somethin.. k? hope i helped..


_Kadi_

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Eep! i got asked out bye this kid, and i kinda like him but i dont know, i just cant see myself kissing him or anything, and i like this one guy, and weve "made out" a couple of times but all a sudden we just stopped well call him MJ, so i dont know if i should say yes or no :[ and if i said yes, if i would hurt MJ :(

It's not up to my to decide. Just find out whats goin on with "mj" and then if somethin is, do somethin about it with him. and if he isn't sure, go with that kid...ill call him richard. say yes to richard and if things dont work out with him then other things will happen. trust me, just do what you feel is right.

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hey um got a big prob... i think i am in love with my best friend, and im a girl and so is she. i have a boyfriend, and im 14 and i dont think im gay but i have this really big crush on her, i have dreams of her when i sleep and my palms get sweaty when im around her and i stutter i mean, i am totally crushin he rman any advice???

maybe you're not gay. maybe you're just really a good friend with her and you feel like you love her in a sisterly way. I mean, maybe you want to impress her and that's why you're like all OMG IM NERVOUS WHAT SHOULD I DO? just look at her as a friend LOL! or um..if you are gay its not a problem...lol just try to remember your boyfriend and why you love him. So, just try to make the best of things!


_kadi_

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hey uhh we have these monologue things we have to do in my drama class and the one i chose i am really good at and i love it nad everyone says i am a good actor but uhh i am scared to perfrom in front of my drama class cuz there are guys in it that r real jerks and i want to perform really well but i don't think i can cuz i don't want to be made fun of what should i do

alone in the world
p.s. I uhh kinda cut myself and if they make fun of me again i am gonna do it again and my friend gaev me this website so i wouldn't have to talk to an adult and like pleeze help me i am always depressed becasue i am always picked on i don't want to take pills or tkae counseling i can't stand talkin to adults. That was a long p.s. but yea

Hey, don't be nervous! you know your really good and everyone will see that! When you're confident everyone thinks you are good. Also, try practicing in front of a smaller group of friends, and just imagine them in front of the stage. I cut myself too sometimes..and yeah ...people pick on me too but i try to laugh it off and things. Try not cutting youself..i know its hard not to. Try to focus on the positive things. If you need and help or anything you can talk to me, just message me on my aim and i can help you and make you feel better:D hope i helped,, wow tough questions..lol!

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hey gurl its jade HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!! i have a question..... wat was for homework girl???

HAHA! lmfaooo i dun think we had any... LOL!!!! but yeah if we did id be like o shit i forgot my books..

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my friend has a boyfriend and they have been going out for like 10 or 11 months and last night she cheated on him for her friend..she likes her friend a lot and he was just kissing her to well..kiss her, he doesnt like her. her boyfriend happens to be my friend too and he loves her and everything..what should she do..i think she might have told him by now..

I think if she didn't tell him, i think she shuld keep it a secret and go on riki lake, on one of those , MY WOMAN IS CHEATIN ON ME specials..lmao. Well Anyway, she should tell him it was an honest mistake and that she was caught up in the moment. She wasn't thinking and was very guliable. she should make up some story about her family and her bein sad or something lmfao. Well yeah, hope i helped..

Kadi-

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dude this grl has a prob w/ me HELP it's not like idk how to deal w/ them it's just that this grl happens to be me friend from 4th-6th grade n i nvr had the nerve to stand up to her she always would put me down so this year i finally could stand up 2 her what should i do! i would also like to say that this grl has also spred rumors bout my new friend so now pplz h8 her should i suck it up or do sumtin

You should stand up to her and get an attitude with her. Don't listen to your school counselors and shit like they say, "talk it out". That crap don't work. Stand up to her, but make sure ur not alone cuz sum thing culd happen lmao. And im not giving the best advice here..but maybe u shuld spread rumors bout her? but maybe not, cuz she'll be like *gasp* ..so yeah thats my advice :)

_Kadi_

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Dr. Kadi! help, my mother told me i was crazy. .the doctor has asked me to take childrens tylonal two times a day to help me be a better person. .we don't need that! my mom said we needed to stop talking to ourselves. .but you see really where talking to eachother

LOL!!!!! omg i know i know you. lmfao well um i think yer mom is crazy :( sorry to say LOL.


_Kadi_ *gangster walk*

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Hey, I have a gf, and she says she loves me, and we have been going out for about a week. The only times she says "I love you" is on the computer. I even say it when we are in person and she doesn't say it back... she has told me her feelings and she says she really loves me, and she is like crazy about me, but my question is: How come she won't say it back?

Well dude, give it time. You've only been going out with her for a week. Lay low a bit. Stop saying it all the time. Wait bout a month, and then say it. Mayybe she will say it back then.


_Kadi_

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ok i put this up before but i just wanna know something eles ok well like i probably have add and i didnt tell my mom about it and im talking to a school counsler but i dont know if i should tell my mom should i?


help please

thnx

DUDE. ADD isnt a serious or bad thing to tell your mom. It's not like you stole something. Tell your mom!! And then you'll get medicine for it. It's not a big deal to tell her. And when you have medicine it will all be better! I know lots of people who have AD. My brother for one. It's nothing weird or anything. Just tell her.


_Kadi_

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The other day i had a fight with my friend because i invited a person that she didn't like to my b-day party and when i called her back she hung up on me 2 times!! wat should i do when it comes to thelast minute on wether or not i should invite her to my b-day party or put someone in her place
-Morganna-

Chill out. Invite them, if they say no then they're not worth your time. And if they say no, fine someone better to go to your b-day party. Don't dwell on past people.


_Kadi_

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my plant, gromie, just winked at me. it kidna scares me. i am really upset with his behaviors! what should i say to my naughty naughty venus fly trap? should i tell him to be a good boy, or just ignore the cute little guy?

Pssh, obviously hes in love with you! Give him a chance and feed him some chocolate covered strawberries ;-) lmfao. And afterwards, go check yourself into the mental hospital. Hav fun..Ha..



_Kadi_

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I'm in 8th grade. This is my last year at m school, and I have become like really close with these two girls. Like and we are going to differnt highschools, but they are the only people that I can actually tell them stuff. I'm like really scared because i need one of them to talk to at school..to help me with my problems and stuff! how am i going to survive with out them?! i am totally scared! mauhh

kmul

You can keep touch with other ways! There is always e-mail, and you can see them on weekends and stuff. Don't loose hope if its just for school. You'll find some more close friends in high school im sure! Don't be scared, new friends are just as good as old ones. If worse comes to worse, you could just choice into one of their high schools. But, Everything will work out fine. Trust me, I had the same problem when i moved :( Good luck!

_Kadi_

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How come when u have a fight the other person is always right and they aer never wrong!! and if the person tells you never to talk to him again should do that?

Okay, well it's not that they're always right, it's just their opinion. It could be right if you think it is, but sometimes it never is. Let the person cool of a bit before talking to them again. Talking to someone right after a fight and tryin to make up is _NEVER_ good. So, just let the person cool off a bit and then try to talk to them. I hope it works.

_Kadi_

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=[ im going out with my friends brother, well were not realy going out but we go on dates and o.o kiss and stuff. its odd i know. and then my other friend[who is friends with my friends brother] is going out with my friend.[of whom has the brother]. yes, comfusing but bare with me here. umm well yea we still hang out but he stopped calling me and IMing me alot.he still says he loves me tho.andd all a sudden he wants to hang out with this girk "kirstin" o_O and he went to the movies with her when he COULD have gone with me. =-O. who knows what could have gone on! well yes, to the point, i love him more then he loves me.. i think. well yes?

Well, I think that he still loves you, but sad to say, it sounds like hes losing interest :( make an attemp to call him more and IM him more. Keep him occupied. Im sorry that he's hanging out with that "kirstin" girl, but it sounds like you're stuck in the middle of a situation that you dont even want to be in. Well, just try to talk to him more, and I'm sure that he'll find what he is missing. Hope i helped! :) Best of luck.

_Kadi_

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Which freezes faster, cold water or hot water? somepeople say deff. things. ive tryed to experiment but i dont see which does. HOT OR COLD??

Hot water does. because hot things freeze faster. Think, when you're hot, and you go into an air conditioned building, you get cold fast, right? And when you're cold, and you go into a colder place, you don't feel the impact instantly. Well, i did an experiment on it but yea LOL




_Kadi_

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