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ok well here it does one of my friend complains 24/7. thats all she does is complains. and she cant just be my friend she has to be my Best friend. i cant stand her complaining tho. i mean yea sometimes i complain too but sometimes i just want to say to her "thats life, deal with it" but i dont want her to get mad at me. what should i do? (link)
Just be like "you know there are starving kids in africa who have a bunch of worms in their stomachs and have 2 eat from garbage cans...everytime u think u've got it bad think about them"


I have a new neighbor and shes reall cool, i wanted so things to bring up to talk about wit her? i just dont want any acward silences. Also do you no anything to do when we chill at my house? (link)
hey
If she's going to your school talk to her about your school. give her info. ask her questions nd just talk 2 her. Tell her what kind of guys are at your school and stuff. If she's going to a different school talk to her about what you know about that school. Also, talk to her about people in the neighborhood, and just about anything. It doesnt matter if there are awkward silences now and then. You cant help that. Just try to make her feel comfortable. if u like her clothes, say so. you can talk about clothes. look at clothing magazines your year books nd stuff.


my boy friend has been ubducted by the new game halo 2...he is obsessed! how can i get him back??? (link)
play the game with him...it's hella fun and it's something u guyz can do together


what should i do my friend is mad at me for some reason really upset might lose my best friend :( (link)
ay i Know EXACTLY how you feel
My "friend" is always getting mad at me for one thing or another. As a matter of fact she's mad at me right now. It's so upsetting...and I get really mad. I dont trust her at all now because of the way she gets mad and assumes all of this shit about me. Just try to talk to her. Explain how you feel and try to just talk it out.


ive got this friend..and we're pretty good friends..but she is such a flirt that it gets on my nerves every once in awhile..mainly when shes flirtin with guys i like..she flirted so much with my home-coming date that he changed his mind and they went together..and any guy i like she flirts with them..in 5th period..the guy i like sits 1 seat away frum me..hers is in the middle..she didnt use to sit there tho...she just now decided she wanted to sit back over by us..how can i get used to her flirting or what can i do?!?! (link)
Dont tell her who you like ever. Also, tell her to stop flirting with the guys you like. If I were you I'd be really angry. Maybe you should ditch her...or just tell her that she needs to stop trying to take the guys you like.


Hey.. This is pretty general. What are some basic signs that a guy likes you? (link)
signs:
nice 2 u
flirts
teases u jokingly
stands close to you when you're talking to him
calls you up
listens to what you say and tries to make you feel better
also i read somewhere that if i guy likes you, he'll automatically stand so he's facing your general direction
he compliments you
tries to talk to you
smiles at you
steals glances at you
all of these are signs...


Hey well one of my friends has really bad stretch marks on her legs and she doesnt know how to get themm away or w/e i told her to tell her mom and she said thta she is too embarreseed too..and i am the only one that knows so how can she get rid of them? (link)
Cocoa butter works wonders. Tell her to use it. Vaseline might do the trick too. Cocoa butter evens out the skin tone and makes scars etc. appear less visible


ok there's this boy a whole grade younger than me but i like him. and we talk online and sometimes we get into fights but we always end up forgiving eachother by the end of the night lol. but one time i went up to him in school (he was with his friends) and i asked him a question and he said "hey dork (even though im head cheerleader) do i know you?" i was so hurt that i left and everybody started laughing! then later that night he IMed me and said sorry and i said "2 bad u made me feel like crap so apology not accepted" and i blocked him.. was i right 2 do that? or should i give him one more chance? (link)
hey
I think you were right to do what you did. He shouldn't think that you're going to take that kind of abuse from him and jut forgive him when he says sorry. He shouldn't have done it in the first place. I dont mean be mad for ever. Dont stay mad too long. If you do it will mess everything up. When you're not mad anymore unblock him and be like "im sorry 4 being so mad at you." or something.


k, i'm 5'4", 116 pounds, long brown hair to the bottom of my back, greenish eyes, long legs, and i'm wondering what would be some make up/fashion styles be for me. i have really fair skin if that helps any, i'd just like some tips to look cuter/hotter/whatever

please and thank you (link)
My advice for you...
CLOTHING:
jeans...no highrise... jeans that rest on your hips.
TOPS...try wearing fashionable tops. Off the shoulder long sleeved tops, tank tops that are form fitting. Try to ditch the loose t shirts.
Shoes...dont matter...sneakers or high heels...
FLIRTING
dont throw yourself out there...but tease...
If you like a guy just subtly imply that he's gay. When he denies just be like "Prove that you're not gay..." and he should get it...but dont go too far.
HAIR
Cut your hair. If your hair is too long it's just as bad as it being to short. Get it cut to like above your mid back but not above your shoulders. Somewhere in the middle. ALso, you should get a hair cut that fits your face.


when im w. my boyfriend i am like on top of the world and i luv him alot..but then when i go home at night i have second thoughts and i get really confused on if i really do love him and if we should break up or not...what should i do because i dont wanna break up w. him when im w. him ...but i get so confused when were apart! (link)
Dont think so much
If you feel good being around him then you should stay together. UNLESS he has cheated on you are something like that dont worry. Just enjoy being with him...


Okay well like guy..and he has a girlfriend..but he flirts with me..but when hes with his friends..hell like barely talk to me..or when hes with his girlfriend..he like say hey but then he just ignore me! i mean EVERYONE in my class that knos that i like him..thinks he likes me..but i dont think so..because sometimes he can be mean..but other times he so sweet. i could tell him anything..and i really like him..but i dont think he likes me! do you kno why flirts with me when its just us..and then when hes with his friends hell ignore me?! thanks!

.KMUL. (link)
Hey .KMUL.
There's a guy I know who also has a girlfriend but we flirt constantly (touching and saying) and I know he's always there for me. I love him to death and I would go out with him but that girl is in the way. My solution for you is to just get your flirt on but dont take what he does too seriously, because if you do, you could end up getting hurt. I know exactly how you feel...


i get agrivaTed w/ my friend really easily and i say mean stuff and feel really bad. how do i like get nicer cuz i feel like we dont have a healthy relationship and i just wanna be happy around her cuz shes like my bff and i love her so much i just get agitated (link)
I have the same problem with my friend sometimes. My advice for you is to just try to let things go. Dont take what she does seriously. Laugh it off. Let her know that you dont necessarily mean what you're saying, and try to make sure her feelings aren't hurt. If you REALLY have something to say, try to say it in a constructive way, without attacking her. Like if she's doing something really annoying such as flirting with the guy you like just be like "I like this guy a lot and what you're doing is really hurting me" dont be like "YOU NEED TO STOP FLIRTING WITH THE GUY BECAUSE IT MAKES YOU LOOK LIKE A HO!!!" or anything like that. Just try to avoid conflict...and try not to raise your voice or yell at your friend




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