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me and my boyfrend have been going out for 2 months and anytime we kiss i feel an urge to jump ontop of him is that normal

of courseee.

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Ok there is this really hot guy I like. I have liked him since the moment I saw him, and I told my friend that. She said ok, and she told me she liked this other kid. Well now shes trying to hook up with the guy I like. The guy told the both of us that he was gonna hook up with us tonight. We know that he told the both of us, and she said oh really, im just not going to. Well after that she was all over him. And I talked to him about it and he said he wants to hook up the next time he sees me. I really want to, but i know that hes probably saying the same thing to my friend. I don't know what to do, I've never hooked up with a guy and I just want to make out. I don't want me and my friend to hate eachother though. What do I do?

hm..first of all if this guy is saying he said he was "hooking up" with both of you tonight or whatever..thats a hint right there not to get involved? And if you and your friend says shes not going to she shouldnt have? what kind of friend is that. I think you should talk to her. I say dont do anything with him..he just wants some? It wouldnt be special to him, so why should it be special to you. But since your question was that you dont want your friend to hate you or you hate her what should you do. I say talk to her..and tell her hes not worth the friendship getting ruined by. Or atleast thats my opinion..i've learned not to let guys ruin mine because most of them just want some. well..hope that helps..i know im kinda bitchy..but that reminds me of a similar situation i was once in..dont let it ruin your friendship.

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okay i know this has been one of the questions on here but i was wondering what kind of hair gel do you girls use to scrunch your hair up to make it look curly/wavy cuz i have tried alot of stuff and my hair doesn't stay like it for awhile or it dries up a lil bit..i hate high

k what i do is i dont use gel that often..i mean you can but i find it really messy..and when i do i use this stuff called texture it comes in like a pump bottle..but also for some other ways to help out. You put the gel on while its damp then put you hair upside down and srunch ur hair while you dry it. then when your done scrunching for a while. get some strong holding hair spray and pray it on the roots of your hair in flat places..then if its not srumnched enough you can like curl some of the straight peices..hah thats it.

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how do u just make a guy go crazy.. and make him fall for you. i know to be yourself.. but what are little extra things that he will just love? any girls who know how to make their boyfriends go crazy?.. or guy.. what turns you on?

hahah

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I'm 15/f, and I've never had a boyfriend, and I've never been kissed either. I wouldn't say I'm ugly. Everyone tells me I'm really pretty. I really want a boyfriend, but I'm kind of shy. How do I get a guy to like me.. and then make him feel comfortable enough to ask me out? Basically, my question is, how do I get a boyfriend??

hMm... you dont need to know how to get a boy friend.. it should just be coming natural..i mean unless your a loser with like no friends ((no offense))?? I mean do you even talk to guys? cause if you do it shouldnt be like that...maybe you should flirt more or something...but usually it just happens..sorry if that didnt help.

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i have one friend that seems to be mad at me and my other friend and we have asked her if she is mad at us and she says no. My friend and i dont know what to do. We really want to be friends with her but i just dont know what to do

more information..

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heyyyy sammi!!! umm..well ok..i have this friend and we used to be best friends last year..like we were the absolute best friends....we could like finish eachothers sentences and stuff like that and we always hung out together...but this year its like.....wow i hate u.....u know what i mean? like she doesnt come over and i dont go over there...and she talks behind my back and i talk behind her back...but like she pretends to be my friend...so i guess i pretend to be her friend also....i dunno what to do....ive brought it up already and she said..."dont worry about anything i will always be your friend..." but i talked to this girl and she says that she talks crap about me behind my back..so i dont really know what to do....please help me!!!!!!!!!

I went through the same freakin thing and i know exactly what you mean. Since you talk behind her back,and she does the same.... why are you still pretending to be her friend... friends dont talk about eachother likethat. So i say ... just keep her as a frriend not a real good friend... cause you never know when you might need her again you know (not to use her, but to be her friend again). Stuff like that changes ALL the time, you get your old friends back and then get new friends. Thats what happens in these years.. soo i say either leave it like it is and get tired of her or just stop pretending. i would just stop pretending its not worth wasting time talking about her.

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i think ur really hott.
seriously.

thanks..

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i get horrible back pains, and all i can do is crack it, but sometimes it gets so stiff that it wont crack, any advice on how to crack it?

sit on a branch in a tree and fall 50 ft. and land on your pointer finger!

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Sami your one of the bestest friends i have ever had! I love you so much. Your funny,sweet,and So Pretty, dont ever change~!!
-Bff

thanks.. best friend?!

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hey im the girl who wrote ... "ok well sami ... uhh i like this guy at the moment .. me and him went out for like a week ... actually 6 days like 3 weeks ago and i still liek him ... he used to be like my life ... but now he has moved on ... and i have a new boyfriend ... but i cant see myself with any one but my ex .... my new boyfriend is very shy and doesnt like holding hands or anything my ex did with me so it feels kind of odd ... and like it seems like my ex hates me now ... or doesnt even care that im a live ... but i really liked him then and i still do now ... what should i do ? ... should i tell him my feelings? ... or should i keep it in and be tormented for ever?" ha well thank u for the advice ... it actually helped ... a lot ... like now (in the halls) he was askin me to hug him and stuff ... haha well im not sure if he likes me or just thinks im pretty or w.e but its a start ... im kinda starting to act like he acted to me ... like if hes not really there .. hehe ya well it seems to have helped also ... cuz now he wants to talk to me ...so thnx for helpin ...


lol Im really glad that helped! Thats awesome.. So ask me anymore questions you have!

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ok well sami ... uhh i like this guy at the moment .. me and him went out for like a week ... actually 6 days like 3 weeks ago and i still liek him ... he used to be like my life ... but now he has moved on ... and i have a new boyfriend ... but i cant see myself with any one but my ex .... my new boyfriend is very shy and doesnt like holding hands or anything my ex did with me so it feels kind of odd ... and like it seems like my ex hates me now ... or doesnt even care that im a live ... but i really liked him then and i still do now ... what should i do ? ... should i tell him my feelings? ... or should i keep it in and be tormented for ever?

If i were you, i would defidently tell him my feelings. but not just.. "hey i still like you" maybe like first start talking to him more you know? And then let him know. Even though you think he has moved on, you never really know if a guys has. I wouldnt think that way yet until you start maybe talking with him more and telling him how you feel. If you figure out he has, which might be possible, you can move on too. If a person dosnt like you back and you like them a lot, they arnt worth "tormenting" yourself. When you move on and and not really care about what he thinks (even though you might like him a litle bit) you are going to look confident and guys like that. You never know... he might beg to have you back! Tell me how it goes

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Hi you guys... i don't really know where to start. i'm head over heels for one of my best friends (my best guy friend). and i don't know what to do. sometimes, when we're talking and it's late at night, i come so close to telling him, just because i'd like to know if i have a chance. but then part of me is afraid. he has a girlfriend at the moment, and i don't want to ruin anything between them. i found out a few days ago that he used to think we had the potential to be soulmates, that's definitely how i feel. and have felt. i just don't know if he still feels like that and i'm really afraid to ask. so, all wise advice givers, what do i do?

I think you should tell him. B/c what is the worst that could happen, other then getting the truth out of him. Which is what you want... right?? Might wanna think about that one before you do it. I still think you should though, or you will never get the truth out. Maybe he still feels the same way? Go for it!

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there is this girl and she is really annoying and mean but she wont leave me alone but yea i dont like her...i know it sounds rude but i have told her that before but she still wont leave me alone and she like talks about me and all this crap and i just cant stand her fake crap anymore...how should i get her to leave me alone?

hmm.. Well I dont really know what you mean cause you didnt give an example. But I think you should ignore her. If you dont pay attention to her, shes going to get bored of beaing mean and annoying you. you know? I mean its kinda dumb to be the annoying rude one. It will come back on her sometime. I can probably give you some other stuff to do about it if you write again and give me an example. Hope it helped!

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I have a livestrong bracelet...one of the yellow ones, but i was wondering if any of you knew where to find the pink and/or blue ones?

Target!

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I cut myself. I've been cutting for about half a year. I've never had a problem hiding it or anything. Just recently I've been trying to stop. I know its bad. My problem is that I have P.E. starting 2nd semester (in January) and I don't know how to hide the scars (I'm going to have it 2nd period if it helps). My parents don't know, and I don't want them to know either. We have to wear uniforms so I don't know how I'm gonna pull this off. Also, bracelets and jewelry aren't allowed. Any ideas? Thank you.

Confess to someone.. you probably need to talk about it, so its not something your trying to hide from everyone. Parents are going to find out, you might as well be the one to tell them, but wait until they ask. Thats always a safe idea. There is nothing to do to cover the scars, if someone even has the nerve to ask (if they are that bad (the scars)) just tell them its not there bussiness bc its not.. Hope it kinda helps

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My parents disapprove of a lot of my friends. One of them.. ok.. shes a slut.. and they know that.. and they think im gunna be like her (i sorta am.. but not NEARLY as bad.. shes been with like 15 guys.. me only 2) and another friend has been pregnant before (shes 16) and another friend Steals and gets high alot... (they only know about the stealing)
My parents dont know i've had sex.. and they dont know i've been high (AND THEY AINT GUNNA!)
Since I hang out with these people (nicest people i know).. they dont trust me to even be around them at skool.. how can i get my parents to trust me more? I havent done anything to lose their trust (that they know of)
Theyso wont let me stay the night with anyone.. even the people they trust.. how can i change this

DONT TELL ME QUIT DOIN THE STUFF I DO!! I DONT DO IT NOW! AND DONT TELL ME THAT THEY DO HAVE A REASON NOT TO TRUST ME CUZ I ALREADY KNOW THAT.. BUT THEY DONT KNOW MY LIFE.. SO THEY ACTUALLY DONT..

uhh.. you got it... i guess deal with it.. not every parent actually trusts their child

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