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when a guy gets between 2 friends..
Ok there is this really hot guy I like. I have liked him since the moment I saw him, and I told my friend that. She said ok, and she told me she liked this other kid. Well now shes trying to hook up with the guy I like. The guy told the both of us that he was gonna hook up with us tonight. We know that he told the both of us, and she said oh really, im just not going to. Well after that she was all over him. And I talked to him about it and he said he wants to hook up the next time he sees me. I really want to, but i know that hes probably saying the same thing to my friend. I don't know what to do, I've never hooked up with a guy and I just want to make out. I don't want me and my friend to hate eachother though. What do I do?
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So you just want to make out with this guy? You don't really like him? Or do you think if you make out with him you two will be together? Either way, I say you are ruining a friendship. True, you liked him first, but it got a little too sticky and I would just leave it alone. The guy obviously doesn't like you for anything more than a 'make out session' or he wouldn't have been trying to hook up with your friend. Leave him alone. And what is the deal with just wanting to make out with someone? You have to be proud of your body and respect it before any man will!
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hm..first of all if this guy is saying he said he was "hooking up" with both of you tonight or whatever..thats a hint right there not to get involved? And if you and your friend says shes not going to she shouldnt have? what kind of friend is that. I think you should talk to her. I say dont do anything with him..he just wants some? It wouldnt be special to him, so why should it be special to you. But since your question was that you dont want your friend to hate you or you hate her what should you do. I say talk to her..and tell her hes not worth the friendship getting ruined by. Or atleast thats my opinion..i've learned not to let guys ruin mine because most of them just want some. well..hope that helps..i know im kinda bitchy..but that reminds me of a similar situation i was once in..dont let it ruin your friendship.<3
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-samii
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this guy is so not worth fighting over..in fact he sounds like a jerk! hes telling BOTH of you that he wants to hook up? yes of course hes probably telling your friend that he wants to hook up with her also next time..why would you fight over a guy who is just gonna play you? wait for a guy who will be dedicated to you ! tell your friend that hes a jerk and save her from a broken heart too! you should both fforget him!!
your friendship is much more important than this guy..dont just make out with anyone..i know how much you wanna make out..trust me i want to find a great guy and make out also..but wait for a guy who is sweet and wont play you!
this guy isnt for you..he doesnt desserve you!
hope i helped out?
-melissa-
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if you like the guy and so does your friend i think you should talk to you friend first of all cuz she said the she likes the other guy and now she likes the guy ur crushing on if any one should be mad it should be you
an you should talk to the guy ask him who he wants to date you or your friend he cant have both of you well hoped i helpedrara
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