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Parents Disapprove
My parents disapprove of a lot of my friends. One of them.. ok.. shes a slut.. and they know that.. and they think im gunna be like her (i sorta am.. but not NEARLY as bad.. shes been with like 15 guys.. me only 2) and another friend has been pregnant before (shes 16) and another friend Steals and gets high alot... (they only know about the stealing)
My parents dont know i've had sex.. and they dont know i've been high (AND THEY AINT GUNNA!)
Since I hang out with these people (nicest people i know).. they dont trust me to even be around them at skool.. how can i get my parents to trust me more? I havent done anything to lose their trust (that they know of)
Theyso wont let me stay the night with anyone.. even the people they trust.. how can i change this
DONT TELL ME QUIT DOIN THE STUFF I DO!! I DONT DO IT NOW! AND DONT TELL ME THAT THEY DO HAVE A REASON NOT TO TRUST ME CUZ I ALREADY KNOW THAT.. BUT THEY DONT KNOW MY LIFE.. SO THEY ACTUALLY DONT..
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if i were u id try sittin ur parents down n talkin 2 them bcuz maybe if u told them ur not like ur friends ur not gonna get pregnant or get high or steal or any of that stuff n that they rlly dont have a reason not 2 trust u and untill the day they do they shood learn 2 trust u n trust that they brought u up rite-good luck
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Okay- well lets pretend that you are your parents... now can you blame them for not trusting you. your pretty lucky you havent gotten caught for any of this shit already, but you will probably get into trouble some day. the only thing that you can do is learn to deal with it, and you can keep your grades up, spend some time at your house with them (yeah i know that sucks) but like just get into a sport or just anything to keep your parents trust and let them think that you are not a trouble maker
*hOpE ThIs HeLpS*
~ami~
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no not going to tell you to stop..although trust me..you will get in trouble one day..and then wished you have done differetnly.
it is your life you have to make your mistakes on your own..but..you are on a long hard path...
See..in life..the company you kep is what brands you. So if you hang out wiht sluts and criminals..everyone will think you are one too.
if your friends have stopped thier bad behavior then they deserve a second chance..but do not ever expect your parents to like them
see they have lived your life...and believe me..they DO not want you to get hurt..like they have.
Be the best person you can..no drugs or sleeping around..and your parents will trust you..do what you are doing..and they will not.
you have to EARN trust...
But again..it is your life...do wiht it what you want.the only person who is going to get hurt...is you.
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Parents are always not going to trust their kids because of the simple fact that they "may" have made the same mistakes as you are now, even tho they dont know some of the things that you do. Its they're ,honest to god, nature. Keep hanging out with the people that you hand out with. Try to meet new people ,you know the kind that are much appreciative by your parents, and if they're different then the friends that you have now then try to hang with them the same amount of time that you do with your other friends.
good luck
~sammie~
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uhh.. you got it... i guess deal with it.. not every parent actually trusts their child
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Wow hun* i liked flipped out when i read that because i have the ssaaamme exact problem! my friend who i just started hanging out with is 13 and has had sex and all that stuff. now my mom is all like start hanging out with your old friends and i dont want her coming over anymore blah blah. well how im dealing with it is ignoring it lol. if my friend calls and askes me to come over im just going to say hey im going to * name * ! i mean she ( my mom ) will like be like what are yall going to be doing? is her mom going to be with yall? blah blah! it gets ignoring so i let it slide or go off on her lol. im not going to tell you to stop, because i cant stop being like my friend either. * best wishes! good luck! *
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quit doing the stuff you do, and they do have a reason not to trust you.
thx, itz wat i tried to doo!
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Hun, you can never have parents trust you or your friends... it's their nature! You can start hanging out like people who have like staight A's and stuff and invite them over for dinner or something and then your parents may trust you and when you go out withn you other friends, you can pretend your with the "safe ones." I hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
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