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I'm 15/f, and I've never had a boyfriend, and I've never been kissed either. I wouldn't say I'm ugly. Everyone tells me I'm really pretty. I really want a boyfriend, but I'm kind of shy. How do I get a guy to like me.. and then make him feel comfortable enough to ask me out? Basically, my question is, how do I get a boyfriend??
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To Get a Boyfriend: Just be yourself. It doesn't help if you act like an energetic, outgoing person and end up being shy and soft spoken.
And about the kissing thing...your not the oldest one who has never been kissed, some people wait till marriage to even touch someone else. Just wait...it will come. Besta Luck
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first of all it is not unusual that you are 15 and never been kissed...everyone has there time...and to tell you the truth it isnt anything special...believe me...dont get yourself worked up about it...i had my first kiss when i was in 3rd grade...i was a little rebel and it was the fourth of july and i threw this kid on the ground and kissed him...i was a tomboy so that was how i showed my effection..well theres a little background information for ya...it doesnt sound too romantic huh? ok well i dont know how to explain how to get a boyfriend....well this is what i do...i go through my school pictures and i find a boy i find appealing or one that catches my eye...i get his screen name and then i im him...when you im him you say somethin like "hey your on my buddy list but i dont rele know who u are who is this?" and they will tell you and then you will get into this whole convorsation....it works pretty good...as long as you dont make a fool of urself and stuff you will get to know eachother and he might just end up liking you...
i hope i answered ur questions...
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mucho love
kayla xoxo
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You should talk to a boy you really like and try to let him get to know you. He might like you or might not. Dont get desperate and try to be the kind of girl a guy likes. Theres someone for everyone.
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Don't stand around waiting for him! Boys are just like girls, they also have insecurities, and thye're probably looking at you and thinking, "why, God, WHY won't she be my girlfriend?" You need to make the first move.
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hey calm down hun bout the kissing thing.. i am a sixteen year old female okay.. well ive had boyfriends befor the guy i go with now but he is the first guy i kissed and i was 15 when i first kissed him.. so i think its fine you jus have to do things when your ready.. but im not sure why i never kissed befor that i think its cause i never was in a real relationship and i never seen ex boyfriends enough to get a kiss..and um also jus be yourself basically when your around a guy you like.. talk some you know and you can show your a lil shy.. cause shyness is cute lol.. but anyways also if you do that and the guy likes you to he will be comfortable asking you out cause they will see that your easy to talk to and also worth their time.. hope i helped much luv dez
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ok. my friend jarrett would say im the best person to answer this question, because ive had 16 boyfriends in the last 2 years, but really. if you find someone you like, become friends with him. its deff. not unusual that you've never been kissed at 15. your probably like, the wisest one. why throw away your first kiss? so many people do that because they wanna be the first one kissed. so after you think you've gotten comfortable with him, do stuff with him that'll make him think you like him. it shouldnt be too obvious, but obvious enough.
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go to parties meet heaps of people have a good time be outgoing and let them know what you want be a big flirt
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FLIRT!!! lol
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Have you thought about wearing shorter skirts?
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dont be in such a hurry. u shouldnt go out just to have a boyfriend. save ur first kiss to be special, and your first time. dont worry about other peoples dating history. u have enough self respect to save urself for someone u really like
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Hey,
im in the same situation so what both of us should do is hang around guys more and start being ourselfs and FLIRT! just start talkin and be nice to them i know its hard cuz it kinda is for me! but i know that if i dont do that than i'll never have a bf.
so lets start talkin to guys and being nicer and being ourselfs:) k?
k, keep in touch:)
xoxo amore:)
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hMm... you dont need to know how to get a boy friend.. it should just be coming natural..i mean unless your a loser with like no friends ((no offense))?? I mean do you even talk to guys? cause if you do it shouldnt be like that...maybe you should flirt more or something...but usually it just happens..sorry if that didnt help.
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im in the same situation except im almost 15 lol. Ppl say the same thing about me too. But i'd just try to hang out around guys and i'm sure there's one that likes you. You just gotta find him.
feel free to talk to me on AIM too lol.
simone*
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just hang around the guy and let him know that you're there for him. but start out with a typical subject to talk about like music or movies and then drop hints and flirt. one of my guy friends told me that i'm a huge flirt but it's ok cuz guys like it and it makes them feel good about themselves. but be yourself!!!
Love Always,
Maria
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ok. the most basic thing is to be yourself. another thing yur gonna have to do is talk to more guys. talk to guys you know or like or could potientally like. the number one thing u gotta do is get out there and try. if you dont, you neva gonna get a bf. i hope i helped
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