Question Posted Thursday November 11 2004, 6:12 pm
when im w. my boyfriend i am like on top of the world and i luv him alot..but then when i go home at night i have second thoughts and i get really confused on if i really do love him and if we should break up or not...what should i do because i dont wanna break up w. him when im w. him ...but i get so confused when were apart!
socalblondie0202 answered Friday November 12 2004, 9:42 pm: this happens to me with every guy. its just something you do when you are falling for a guy..
KathlEenaTrOckdOtcOm answered Thursday November 11 2004, 9:49 pm: I have had this problem before... I think you subconciously might be scared to love him because there is a chance of getting hurt... You shouldn't break up with him.... If you really love him and he makes you happy then continue the relationship!! [ KathlEenaTrOckdOtcOm's advice column | Ask KathlEenaTrOckdOtcOm A Question ]
KiLLeROnDaCourT answered Thursday November 11 2004, 7:23 pm: everyone thinks about that kinda stuff. its absolutely normal. if u have any doubts then stay w/him. he mite do something so amazing that will blow u away so that u never leave. hope i helped ya! [ KiLLeROnDaCourT's advice column | Ask KiLLeROnDaCourT A Question ]
justluvly answered Thursday November 11 2004, 7:04 pm: Dont think so much
If you feel good being around him then you should stay together. UNLESS he has cheated on you are something like that dont worry. Just enjoy being with him... [ justluvly's advice column | Ask justluvly A Question ]
toosweet4u172 answered Thursday November 11 2004, 6:22 pm: dont break up with him! if you have such a great time w/ him thats all that matters! you said it yourself, that he makes you feel like youre on top of the world.. and you dont want to leave such a great guy!! your mind is just playing tircks w/ you and if you have such a great time w/ him, dont lose him!! lifes too short to lose such a great guy.
hold on to him!! [ toosweet4u172's advice column | Ask toosweet4u172 A Question ]
PuReLuVeR143 answered Thursday November 11 2004, 6:22 pm: Hey! I no exactly how you feel!!! It's a totally normal thing, and it really means that you are not necessarily "inlove" with him. I wouldn't break up with him if I were you because if you do, Im almost positive that youre going to get really hurt and think that you made the wrong decision about breaking up. I think that you should stay with him, but the get thought of love out of your mind because I truely think that you arent inlove. If you stop thinking about if you 2 are inlove and just go with the flow and think of it as just a casual bf/gf thing, then I think you would feel alot better and less stressed out about it. If you 2 say you love eachother to eachother, then I would stop. If he asks you whats wrong explain it to him. I hope I helped and good luck to you
love kristin [ PuReLuVeR143's advice column | Ask PuReLuVeR143 A Question ]
PerkyPeacock answered Thursday November 11 2004, 6:19 pm: remember all the good times when you're apart. make a list of why you love him. you guys could make lists together, and that way you'd be able to remind yourself later why you love him. or y'all could make copies for each other, and that way you'd know why he adores you too.... [ PerkyPeacock's advice column | Ask PerkyPeacock A Question ]
Baby2Gurlie7 answered Thursday November 11 2004, 6:16 pm: Yeah, I used to get like that too. And I would break up with them, and sometimes feel like I made the wrong decision. I think you should stay with him though, just hang out with him more often or something..<3 [ Baby2Gurlie7's advice column | Ask Baby2Gurlie7 A Question ]
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