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This Boy...
ok there's this boy a whole grade younger than me but i like him. and we talk online and sometimes we get into fights but we always end up forgiving eachother by the end of the night lol. but one time i went up to him in school (he was with his friends) and i asked him a question and he said "hey dork (even though im head cheerleader) do i know you?" i was so hurt that i left and everybody started laughing! then later that night he IMed me and said sorry and i said "2 bad u made me feel like crap so apology not accepted" and i blocked him.. was i right 2 do that? or should i give him one more chance?
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Haven't you ever made fun of your friends as a joke? My friends and I call eachother losers, geeks, whatever! But we're always just joking. This boy was just playing around with you. The trick to never being embarassed is to laugh at yourself like you don't care what the other person says! So unblock him and start talking to him because he's obviously a dear friend to you, and next time he says something like that, just call him a loserface and get on with it :) (and btw even though you're head cheerleader doesn't mean you can't be a dork once in a while, trust me, everyone is)
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I think you were right to do what you did. He shouldn't think that you're going to take that kind of abuse from him and jut forgive him when he says sorry. He shouldn't have done it in the first place. I dont mean be mad for ever. Dont stay mad too long. If you do it will mess everything up. When you're not mad anymore unblock him and be like "im sorry 4 being so mad at you." or something.
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give him another chance you'll never know if you don't.
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Let Juliett spread the love (*'../'*). This boy is stupid! where does this dork get off telling the head cheerleader she is a dork! You could be with any one. If you reely i meen reely like him then talk to him and tell him 1 more chance. its not like he farted and embarasses u this is big
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well i think thats mean what he said and you should give him one more chance only if he says he sorry in front of his friends and just remember that how guys are there jerks in frount of there friend but nice when know ones around
Xxjanedoe90xX
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TOTALLY RIGHT! if someone does that to you there not even worth talking to.
~Brina~
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no he made u feel lyk crap u stand tall and dont even think about takin shit from some1 lyk him if hes really ur m8 he wouldnt ov sed that 2 me he sound lyk the dork not u. u could get ur own bak by doing the same thing bt make sure ures is 10x better. good luck m8 !!!!
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ok he dissed the head cheerleader..no offense..but what is he stupid...i am thinking he was just trying to be cool in front of his friends..whom I am guessing are NOT popular..so he disses you..woah..look..at him.
BUT..any friend who is a REAl friend..boy or girl..DOES not do that.
he is really immature..is this what you really want? If so..lay donw the rules..he either accepts you publically or bye bye.
me..head cheerleader is on TOP of the chain..i so would set my sights higher.
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no you were totally right! you go girl! i used to have the same problem. this guy i liked would always tell me all this stuff online about how much he liked me and crap but then when we hung out or saw each other he didnt do crap, just ignore me. but its good that you did that, because if you allowed him to be an ass then he would keep being a dick. thats lame of him appologizing like 5 hours later (or whatever..) tell him off and then you'll find out whats up with him. if you need more help drop one in my inbox babe! good luck * xo - angie *
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Well...this kid is a total immature idiot. He shouldn't have made you feel like shit in the first place and he should do more than IM you and say sorry over the damn internet!! Who the hell does that?! But don't even give him the time of day. He's an asshole..and some day he'll realize it. Just don't even pay attention to that loser and move on.
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Well, the fact that the guy is a little younger than you doesn't really matter exept for when it comes to maturity issues. He probably onlyt acted that way because he was in front of his guy friends and wanted to seem "cool". When in fact, he came off as a dorkface to you! haha. Boys will be boys. You'll have to learn that! What he said was rude and you should have every right to feel angry and upset. I think that if this has been a few days since the incidence you can unblock him and CIVILY and MATURALY (set an example for him) tell him that you didn't appreciate his comment and that you don't want him to say disrespectful things like that no matyter who he is around. Then slowly get back into the swing of this and begin to reform this relationship. If he's changed, go for it..if not..forget about him! :)
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