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I'm going out with this guy and we barely ever get to see eachother, We can't do much 'cause we're only 13. Could you give me some advice on how I could see him? Here's some stuff that might be helpfull: I live in a VERY small town.There aren't any movie theaters or anything here.We have a public pool called the (city pool) but he's always busy with Baseball and I was busy with softball but now softball is over for me.and plus he's grounded from the phone right now! So could you Please help me?
~ChRiSsY~ (link)
Go watch his baseball games. Stick it out it gets better. xoxo Shuree


umm i like this dude nd hes not like hott but reli sweet nd every1 hates him but im goin out with him neway....should i stay with him nd be laughed at, or just break up? (link)
Are you hat shallow that you have to ask that question you should be ashamed. xoxoxo Shuree


I am 14 and a female, ok, see I used to be friends with this girl Cydney in 8th grade. In the winter I invited here to a retreat for our youth group trip and she seemed fine about it, then when we get in the car she starts hanging out with this snotty girl lisa who told everybody i like girls which is NOT TRUE. And then we were on the subject about what things we liked to about each other and I asked her what she like about me and she goes well there alot of things i dont like about you. I cant help it if Im shy. My mom was shy when she was my age and still had decent friends. Thats not all we started giving her rides to school and she talks to me around my mom, but she doesnt talk to me at school. I havent done anything to her. She turned gothic too. I dont know what to do. Can any one relate. (link)
Ummmm ditch the bitch. Don't put up with her mouching off of you if she isn't gonna be decent to you. xoxox Shuree


hey i really would like to know where i can buy some sunglasses like.. the nicole ricci type! .. and they're big and the outsides are thick and white and the actual glasses parts arent black but kind of a dark brown! and i dont want them from somewhere really expensive like dior or something haha but around like $40 $50 or even less..i know there's some girls out there that know exactly what im talking about;) please help! i'll rate everyone that answers with a reasonable answer with 5's (link)
Got to Zumies or go to industrial the have really cute pairs. xoxo Shuree


heyyy i was just wondering if it's safe to really get an account on ebay and buy purses and what not! i have wanted an account for a long asZ* time and im just not sure what its all about and how it works and everything! please help ill rate very high;) (link)
Ya it's totally safe I have an account and nothing bad ever happen. xoxox Shuree


hey i was just wondering where i can find some really sexy *backgrounds* with stuff such as paradise scenes, abercrombie, hollister co, laguna beach, paris hilton stuff like that! please help (link)
Go to xanga.com then go to layouts the have awesome ayouts. xoxo Shuree


LONG STORY
well i've liked this guy for a very long time and we've gone out and recently hes been flirting with me alot, well today a friend of mine was having a bonfire and me and my friend we'll call her "person x" were the only girls there. Well my ex has been known to flirt so he was casually doing it with both of us. then him and i break off from the rest of pack and we both get the wild idea to go swimming in the river. so we both strip ( not totally )and the whole time im scared hes holding me really close to him and he even carried me back to the house because someone lost my shoes. anyways at the end of the night he takes "person x" away and i already knew what was happeing and you guessed it he asked her out and she said yes after knowing how much i like him. Its not just that but in the morning she'd been telling me about how the love of her life "was being a dick" but she couldnt help but still like him and then when i asked her if she really liked my guy she said yea and i asked her more than the other guy and she said "as of right now yea, cuz hes being an ass". I dont know what to do! she's known for being fickle about the guys she likes. she like a guy alot and then after they go out for a couple weeks decide she really dosent. Also at the party she kept saying how much of a retard my guy was and she always makes fun of him, like what he wears and what music he listens too and they hav almost nothing in commen they're so different. I'm just so lost on what to do! HELP! (link)
She is a guy taker watch your back. Now your gonna have to just be extra flirty and let that guy know your better than her and that you really want to be with him.It might not even be bad to loose the friend. xoxoxo Shuree


This guy, I don't know if he's just messing around with me or if he likes me or not, but everytim I walk by him, he always says the samething, which is the first time we met. He'd even yelled it out across the field if he catches me.

And when he's sitting down he does the samething but after that he'd look at me for long periods of time.

After Spring Break he actually ran up to me just to say the same thing (he usually only says that when I walk by), and his friends would laugh at him and yell out to him that that was 4 months ago. His friend even told me he's single.

What his friends also do is point out my presence when he's not paying attention.

But I asked my friend who sits with him at lunch sometimes and she told me that he liked someone else and he just does that kind of stuff. (link)
Umm he kinda sounds like a player. But you never know he might like you or he might just be messing next time he says something like that just ask him jokingly be like are you serius and then you'll know if he's palying or not. xoxo Shuree


okay, so i'm really confused because there's this guy i really like. but he has a girlfriend. see most people would just be like oh, he's taken whatever, ya know? but the thing is, me and him have been friends for a long, long time so we talk even more than him and his girlfriend talk. so that wouldn't be a problem in most cases but the confusing thing is, he knows that i like him and he says that he likes me back and hes ALWAYS flirting w. me like crazy. so then when i asked him about if he liked me why was he dating this other girl, he said that he liked her too but that when they broke up that "you never know what might happen" so at first i was like okay ill just wait but now they've been goign out for a long time and it doesnt seem as though they are gonna break up anytime soon. but he still continues to flirt and i flirt back but now im beginning to feel like his girlfriend, Kristen knows that somethings going on. should i tell her? and should i continue to wait for him? please help!







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I think you need to tell her and then you need to find a real guy thats not gonna play you like a fool. Girl don't put up with that shit he's a player if he is telling one girl he's likes her then he has got a girlfriend. That's a bunch of bull cause you can tell that's just wrong and why would you want to be with a guy that if you two got together he could do the same thing to you. I hope I helped! Shuree


Hello Advicenators. I've been making an Image Gallery for a long time ago. I first started off with making it myself. Then I went to using Coppermine (http://coppermine.sourceforge.net/), it let's you make your own image gallery with ease. But every free host I had was very unreliable (They all eventually closed down, losing my mysql databases with them..).

So now I'm back to making my own Image Gallery by hand (Well...by mouse I guess). If you want something done, you gotta do it yourself.

QUESTION: I just would like some advice on how to organize it. What do you think is best? Organizing it by date, or by, categories (like family, friends, pets, etc), or by both, or by years, or by size, or something? Please be descriptive. Thanks! (link)
I think you should organize it by catogories then when there orgaanized by catogories then you need to organize them by date. Hope I helped :) Shuree


ok so theres this guy named kevin who i've liked since 2 years ago. We dated for like 6 months and i honestly have to say i loved him. I miss him alot, its so hard to realize were actually over. He says he misses me too, and talks about driving down to see me. but it never happens. My birthday i didnt even have a party because he was suposed to come and take me out. And he didnt even show up. He called the next day and told me he couldnt that he forgot. It was really upseting. He does live like 2 hours away or so, and i know it really shouldnt be worth it, but for you girls who know what love is actually like , its hard to try n "forget about him". I used to have so many problems at home and he was the one i could talk to. At one point he was the only person i trusted with anything. He knew it all. and now its diffrent, but i havent told him yet how much i still love him and care about him. I just need some help on how to tell him. I wanna do it while i have the chance, so if someone could just give me an idea on how to tell him, if i even should tell him or what they think.

i rate good for good advice.

thanks,
-me. (link)
This is exactly what's happening to me right now so i feel your pain. Really you just need to ask him straight out what's going on between you two. But you defiantly need to ask him, because if you don't then you will be always asking yourself what if? And that's not a good feeling. Goodluck Shuree :)


hey my name is precious,female,13.well i have these two guyfriends.they are so funtwo be around!But i like Both of them more than just a friend.when i'm wit josh we are so goofy i feel like i can float!when it's just me and cory we tease each other like girlfriend/boyfriend.but i told both of them i liked them two diferent years i messed BIG time! i need some advice! (link)
umm there's only one thing to do you have to decide which one you like more and go with it.Good luck Shuree :)


OK so there is this guy I really like and I told him that I had some feelings for him well a few nights after that he starts to flirt with me and stuff and saying he wouldn't mind if I held his hand or kissed him than the next day I get an email saying "I have you blocked, sorry, I don't really want to talk or meet with
you.. it will jsut cause too many problems for me, it's not you. I
just don't go with al the stress, find someone else to love, I am not
the one for you.. sorry about all this, but this is how I want it.
Maybe in a while we can be just friends.. we shall see." and i emaild him back saying that its ok and i dont mind but when i check to see who all deleted me off msn messenger he was one of them on the list. and i really do like him i just dont know what to do I mean i dont even care if he likes me or not just being friends is enough for me. How do I get him to re add me and talk to me again like we used to?????? (link)
Well don't give up pursue him. It sounds like something is bothering him. Try to talk to him about it all and if he has blocked you make a new screen name. Tell him you wan to know what you did.And that he can not treat you like a toy and be friends with you and drop you when ever he pleases. Good luck :) Shuree


okay, well i have a black dad and a white mom.. well i dont have white hair and i dont have black hair either.. but its frizzy. it looks REALLY pretty when its straightened, but when you dont put special stuff on it, it looks bad.. anyway, is there any special straightening stuff that you guys know of to put on my hair? (link)
Well frizzies and pamadae plus some hairspray would work. Right along with a heavy duty straightner.


My friend keeps flirting with my boyfriend and that's why he keeps dumping me. She's in Special Education. She's not really a friend but I associate her because she's in my group of friends. (link)
ummm tell her to back her off. Then go dump him because he's leaving you because a mentally retarded girl likes him looks like he really doesn't care that much about you.


i have a best friend that keeps liking the same guy i do!!! and then when i go out with that guy and i really really like he she takes him from me!!! i was going out with this guy for almost 3 monthes going on 4 and she said to him that she thinks its a great idea for them to go out and instead of me and him going out soo he thought about it and he said oh what the hell and did!!! soo they only went out behind my bak for 3 weeks at least or i hope thats as long as they went out!! well my parents and her parents are like best friends and she always has to come over and i dont want her to at all!!! but there is nothing i can do i told my parents and their like well just put up with her just tonight over and over again!!! ok then she lies to much and gets me in trouble!!! then she thinks she is sooo much better than me in vball and she didnt even make it last year!!! so im just soo god damn tired of her!!! she will never leave me alone i tell her i hate her but she starts buying me things to suck up to me for what ever she has done!! which makes me even more angry!!! waht am i suppose to do?! i mean i have tryed everything but its not working!!! (link)
your gay you say she's your best friend but it seens like you hate her confront her then fight her then tell her back the fuck of when she on the floor begging her for you to stop beating her ass.


How do you remove a question after you awnser it...or am i stuck with it????? (link)
delet it


Me and boyfriend have been going out for 5 months and 17 days. I guarantee im in love with him and hes the ONE. Im only 13 (goin on 14) but i honestly love him. The only problem is... my parents. They think im too young to be in love and everybody else says that too! Its sooo annoying and just wish they knew how me AND my boyfriend felt about each other. Thanks bunches... (link)
So what exactly is your question? shuree


my hair is naturally black and i died it lightish brown and a couple of days ago i washed my hair but some color came out and my hair is darker .. on the box it said permanentt why is this happening? (link)
You could of been using a cheap dye but plus you're never suppossed to wash your hair after dying it until the third day unless you wnat the color to fade. Shuree



This is a question about doing the laundry. I am not a real laundry-doer so i need some tips and help. HOW do i do the laundry. Heres what i know so far: seperate them into dark, lights, and white (the ones that i bleach). How much soap do I add?? Do i put the clothes in after all the water is filled up, and then put the soap in? Should i pour the soap in along with the running water thats going into the washer so it gets all bubbly? So, clothes, water, soap? Clothes, soap, water? The only dispenser i have on my washer is for the softener (which we dont use) and for the bleach (i use this one alot with the whites.) Someone tell me how to do the laundry please?! Thanks a bunch! (link)
Ok first seperate them as you say you know how to do thenput all the clothes in while the water is filling up then whenever your done outting all the clothes in put 1 cup of soap in any where you please on the clothes it really doesn't matter then shut the washer and wait for the clothes to be done. Good luck :) Shuree




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