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What do i do?
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well i've liked this guy for a very long time and we've gone out and recently hes been flirting with me alot, well today a friend of mine was having a bonfire and me and my friend we'll call her "person x" were the only girls there. Well my ex has been known to flirt so he was casually doing it with both of us. then him and i break off from the rest of pack and we both get the wild idea to go swimming in the river. so we both strip ( not totally )and the whole time im scared hes holding me really close to him and he even carried me back to the house because someone lost my shoes. anyways at the end of the night he takes "person x" away and i already knew what was happeing and you guessed it he asked her out and she said yes after knowing how much i like him. Its not just that but in the morning she'd been telling me about how the love of her life "was being a dick" but she couldnt help but still like him and then when i asked her if she really liked my guy she said yea and i asked her more than the other guy and she said "as of right now yea, cuz hes being an ass". I dont know what to do! she's known for being fickle about the guys she likes. she like a guy alot and then after they go out for a couple weeks decide she really dosent. Also at the party she kept saying how much of a retard my guy was and she always makes fun of him, like what he wears and what music he listens too and they hav almost nothing in commen they're so different. I'm just so lost on what to do! HELP!
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Sounds like she just likes taking other peoples guys and then it sounds like after she ruins their relationships she lets them go. Talk to her first and if she doesn't listen takl to him he sounds pretty bad himself he shouldn't have done that he sounds like a jerk. (no offence)
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She is a guy taker watch your back. Now your gonna have to just be extra flirty and let that guy know your better than her and that you really want to be with him.It might not even be bad to loose the friend. xoxoxo Shuree
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Hunny lose the friend. Shes a guy taker and honestly she just seems to ALWAYS have to have a boyfriend. She switches from guy to guy as soon as one likes her. Thats horrible. With the guy, you could tell him what she was saying, and tell him how you feel, but dont sound like your hurt about it, make him feel like its his loss. That was SOO messed up of him, but i would say he liked you both and he probably couldnt decide so he spent time with you alone, and then he went and decided to ask your friend out. Its messed up but im pretty sure thats what his intentions were. Sorry to hear that. But good luck and i hope things work out for the best. <3
p.s. if he stays with her, then make him want you. it helps you get over him. lol.
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gurlie don't worry.your friend just wants some attention.hey i had a friend like that don't worry about the bitch excuse my french. but don't worry boys are sometimes,friends always.
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Tell your friend that you have had a crush on the guy she is going out with for a long time.. as if she didnt already know! Explain to her that you dont appriciate her making fun of the guy you are going out with! You arent doing it to her, and its bad enough she is going out with the guy you had a crush on. Ask her if she could do less bragging, and tell her that she shouldnt go out with guys if she is just trying to get back at another one. Dont ruin your friendship over these boys though.. Boys are whatever! Friends are forever!
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well hun. it seems like "person x" likes alot of attention from the guys. she likes to flirt. about your guy, she probably liked him before but didn't wanna seem like a bitchy friend so she made fun of him so you won't get an idea like she liked him. but she's probably just going after him so she could have a "backup" when her guy acts like an ass.
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i think your friend - or - person x, likes the title of having a boyfriend more then the actual boyfriend. now as for the guy? i think he likes both of you, but for some reason he just thinks that hed get along better having the other person being his GIRLFRIEND rather then a friend to flirt with. id say give it time, when they break up go for it. play your cards right and then youll get him. someone told me that they think you can get anyone you want, you just have to play it right. which is pretty much true. good luck, also - you said the girl was fickle, but if the guy is fickle too,then you may just be better off hookng up and not getting to emotionally attached to him
hope i helped a little.
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