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*Things That Make The Girl Smile*

����¯�¿�½������¤ laughing until my sides hurt with my best friends

����¯�¿�½������¤ Sleeping in a tent in the summer time!

����¯�¿�½������¤ Rainy Dayssssss

����¯�¿�½������¤ Warm Blankets

����¯�¿�½������¤ Lounging on the couch and watching baseball

����¯�¿�½������¤ i like to have Lemonade stands. theyre fun

����¯�¿�½������¤ I like to take candle lit bubble baths every now and then

����¯�¿�½������¤ I like to sing in the car as loud as i can - but only when IM driving

����¯�¿�½������¤ ����¯�¿�½������¤ Fire works and hot dogs on the fourth of july!!!!

����¯�¿�½������¤ Decorating Christmas Trees

����¯�¿�½������¤ Drinking Egg nog by the fire on X*mas

����¯�¿�½������¤ The glow of christmas paper from the lights

����¯�¿�½������¤ Making Snow Angels

����¯�¿�½������¤ Carving Pumpkins with the Fam. on halloween

����¯�¿�½������¤ Building Sandcastles at the Beach

����¯�¿�½������¤ Tanning

����¯�¿�½������¤ Picnics!
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����¯�¿�½������¤ Rolling down HUUGEEE steep hills

����¯�¿�½������¤ KITTEENNSS and small little puppies

����¯�¿�½������¤ Water Balloon Fights *HELL YES*

����¯�¿�½������¤ Church

����¯�¿�½������¤ Dying Easter Eggs

����¯�¿�½������¤ Prom Dresses

����¯�¿�½������¤ Hot Chocolate and Marshmellows at a football game when its freezing cold

����¯�¿�½������¤ Late Night Phone Calls

����¯�¿�½������¤ Sleep overs!!!!!

����¯�¿�½������¤ the color *PiNk*

����¯�¿�½������¤ Chicken Noodle Soup!

����¯�¿�½������¤ Building Snow Men

����¯�¿�½������¤ Journals

����¯�¿�½������¤ black and white pictures. i love to take them. i have tons.

����¯�¿�½������¤ Music is my boyfriend

����¯�¿�½������¤ I write. i love it. if you dont? too bad.

����¯�¿�½������¤ If you lie? you are done.

����¯�¿�½������¤ i dont like girls. they are annoying.

����¯�¿�½������¤ Tall boys. theyre hawt.



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hey, what do you guys think is a good liquor to drink for new years? I mean i wanna get shit faced but not spend all my money...what u think?


thats easy - buy ice house, its like 11.99 for a 30 case, and do some beer bongs. after like 7 bongs youll be fucked up. illl warn you now., ice house beer is not my beer of choice and its not 11.99 becuase its great tasting, but itll get the job done - or you can get a 10.00 bottle of smirnoff vodka - pretty much any thing will get you drunk if you drink enough of it. so just look for the cheapest thing. i can tell you though - at the party me and my friends are throwing for new years? we're having...


ice house -
bud weiser -
mgd-
Vodka -
Jack Daniels -
we MIGHT have oozo (tastes like black licorish)
and prbly some smirnoff

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okay i'm 14. and i shave my vagina and i have for like a year or so. and like a month or so ago. i thought i had cut it. because it started to sting and itch like i had cut it. and i tried really hard not to scratch it but i couldnt help it. so then my vagina started getting bumps and stuff on it and kinda by the bottom of my butt. and sometime i scratch it and it starts bleeding. and its like in more then one place. and i stopped shaving underneath to try and let it heal but it wont cause it keeps itching. and so i have itchy bumps kinda by my butt and i have a few some sort of cut-ish type things on the vagina lips. and then i have kinda alot of discharge and so it gets all nasty and yea.. and i don't know if this is odd or what. has anyone else had this happen? or KNOW what is going on or what if i should go to the doctor? cause it's been going on for awhile and its REALLY annoying me. what's happened? what should i do?

you may have a yeast infection. you need to go to the doctor to get some medicine for it.

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help me plzz i cant stop crying. my face just keeps getting worst and worst. PImples are everywhere. i mean it! I try everything. i have very ovily skin. can someone please tell me what i need to do. dont tell me to buy something from clean and clear that shit doenst work. does ayone know any pills that help?? if so tell me what its called. please i cant even go outside
i hid all summer long becuase i feel so ugly!!

okay hun chill out, last year i had the worst acne ever and i was in your shoes. but you have to know that the reason they get worse and worse is because youre crying. my face was clear for like 3 months straight, i got really upset one night and started balling. next morning i woke up - face looked like a pizza. stress makes it worse. so you need to be calm. now im going to tell you something to buy. it works like a CHARM. took my face like four days to clear up after using this, and now i just get small breakouts which arent even considered acne coz theyre so little. and i only get them around my period. anyway.

its called KLEAR ACTION its 20.00 at walgreens, it is basically teh same thing as pro-activ, only its not 80.00 it looks like this...


http://www.thane.com/html/products/be/klearaction/ka-product.html


you can buy thm off line, if you want to - but if you just go to walgreens they have it there, but for some reason tehy dont have it at jewel.
good luck.

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ok I have been doing about 60 situps a day and now my stomiac hurts in the bottom of it. REALLY BAD to. Whats wrong and whats going on. I will rate all 5'd 4 good answers. (Please exuse the misspelled words) Thanks

youre not used to working out... your muscles are sore because theyre being used and you dont use them,. whats happening is that theyre being ripped and rebuilt to be stronger and better, hense the exercise. 100% normal, keep exercising, it will go away.

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Ok, so i went camping with my boyfriend this weekend and we had an amazing time. When we got back, i had made plans with my friends to hang out with them on monday night. Well he got home from a really bad day of work and called me and i only had like 3 minutes to talk to him so i asked him how his day was and shared mine, then i told him i had to go. He acted kind of mad and i was just like whatever, we've hung out every day this summer and all weekend. So i went and hung out with my friends and when i got home he was really mad at me and told me that i blew him off. He said that he really needed me when he got home from work and that i shoudl ahve made time to talk to him because he was having a miserable day. The thing was i didn't realize he needed me so bad. We are all made up now and stuff cause we talked about it and got over it. Am i at fault here?


16/f with 19/m b/f of 9 1/2 months

HOLY SHIT, I THINK I JUST READ A DIARY ENTRY OF MINE. dude to a fucking TEE> 100% this happened to me last year, tha asshole never let me forget that i "let him down" even though it was bullshit. NO youre not at fault you didnt know. and dont you ever let him try to rub it in or tell you that it is. apologize for not being there for him, but dont apologize for going out with your friends, tell him that you didnt know or realize that he needed you so much or you would have stayed.

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A lot of my friends smoke. This means that whenever I hang around with them they are smoking and they often offer me cigarettes. I have always said no because I have my priciples but recently I have been smoking with them. I found that it was quite relaxing and I liked it. I really don't want to do it anymore but I enjoy it and as my friends do it, it's tempting. How do I stop before I get too addicted?

let me tell you, it will be easier to stop i fyou stop right now, tehn when you get addicted in a couple months. stop now and if theyre real friends they wont pressure you.

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My boyfriend and I have been having sex since late June. Last night he asked me if i got it yet ( i got it june 30th, after we first started to) and i said no but im not worried about it im going to wait a few days because my comes so randomly. and it never comes on the same date. he is yelling at me about he knows he asked girls, but i think i know mmy fuckin period and a bunch of girls periods come different times and late. he is really stressing me out, should i go to a clinic to see or buy a test now?

tell him you know your period and he doesnt, so he btetr slow his roll or you guys arent screwing any morre because he makes it too complicated, lol he'll shut up quick. tell him that if your period is more hten a week late, youll buy a test.

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Hey, you know the neospharen (spelling) stuff people use to prevent scars? Well my acne is actually finally clearing up and i have some scaring (i think) on my cheeks, can I use it after i wash my face and put my medicine on, or will it just make it worse?

Thanks will rate high=D

neosporin is to disinfect cuts and help them feel better, its got nothing to do with acne. use ACNE medicine.

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Hello*

Well, here's my question...(this might sound like a dumb,slow,or whatever u wanna call it question.) But how can u figure out if your really in love with a person.(boy,in my case). I have this boyfriend and i think i'm falling in love with him (sorry if this sounds corny).He's so sweet.And i can't stop thinking about him.Please tell me.

Brenda***

you dont want to sleep becuase reality is better then a dream, your heart feels heavy, it literally feels like its breaking, even though its not - its just so full of love, you have to stop kissing because youre smiling, you smile ALL the time. when you see him or touch him you get the "*sighhhh*" feeling, you dont mind working your ass off to earn money so you can buy him things or take him places. you dont care about anything int he world, being in his arms is enough, you get chills down your spine when you think about him, every where you go, everything you say, every song you hear, SOME HOW reminds you of him. you cnat picutre your life at this moment with out him. and ontop of all that? you just feel it.

can you tell ive been in love? lol

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ok so i have a boyfriend that i've been with for about 6 months now. im 16, my boyfriend is turning 19 in september And about four months into the relationship, i got raped by his older brother and now his family is blaming me and telling ppl it wasnt raped so now im questioning myself if it was rape or not. and then the cops got involved because my boyfriend called the cops since i told him what happened when i slept over. so when the cops were investigating, they found out that me and my boyfriend have been having sex as well. so now me & andrew arent even allowed to see each other legally and im just wondering if i should stay with him after all this happening, we want to have kids in the future and he even asked me to marry him...is this a good idea?

hunnie im sorry aobut you being raped. if you two love eachother, then fight through this. but only if you think it will last. if you think its going to end after highschool, and you dont think its a hgeu thing, then dont burden your self with it. but like i said, if you guys love eachother and want to be together and you KNOW that you will be? it wll be so worth it in the end once this is over. good luck.

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This is so corny but i need help! I'm at a camp for my sport and there is this guy and all the girls think he is hot, and he is!! But he's so shy and doesn't talk a lot. But he talked to me during a drill and kept giving me advice (he's really really good) and then saying "that's really good" even when it wasn't and walking back from a drill we talked. he's a year younger than me. but we actually had a conversation and i havent seen him talk that much cept during the game to get passes and such. i'm not sure how to get is AIM s/n, phone # is a bit to foward for me... all the other girls are so much prettier how can i make him see me more?? how can i talk to him more without looking pathetic n how can i ask him for his s/n?! (hurry camp ends friday!!) thanks!!
signed-corny

he obviously sees something mor in you then in every other girl, otherwise he wouldnt be talking to you, hed be talking to them. before the camp is over, tell him that myabe sometime you guys could hang out and he could help you more with your sports. or tell him you have an awesome article about the sport you play that you want to send him, ask for his s/n / email so you can send him it.

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okay i have a two-part question here, lol

1) wat a good hair straightener? as exact as you can get, please

2)how much does proactiv cost and how can i even get the stuff?

thanks so much :D

hair straightner - i use conair, its black and has a built in comb. 10.00 at walgreens.

proactive is hella expensive like 80.00. so fuck that. go to walgreens and by something called " Klear Action" SAME Exact thing as proactiv, just a generic name, 20.00, works in like three days. i had the worst acne and NOTHING helped. used that? gone in less then a week.

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All of a sudden this morning, my nokia 3205 cellphone screen went BLUE (eventually went black) and I can't see ANYTHING. I can still make and recieve calls, but the menu and display are gone. How can I fix this.

the ink probably exploded, you probalby stepped on it, or put something heavy on it, or dropped it. this happened to my friends phone. you have to get a new one. hopefully you have a warntee.

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I met this guy on the internet and he's coming to pick me up in an hour or so. EVerything seems all right and my intuition tells me its a go but everyone always says to be careful so I thought I'd ask. Don't be too hasty to answer cuz I'm really for going.

psh. no offense dumbass. hopefully youre alive to see this. you dont have the guy come to your house, and how long have you been talking to him? what the hell do you know about him? are you half retarded? i dont give a shit if you give me a 1, smoeone has to slap some sense into you. dont do that, youre gona get raped and killed like that. dont you watch the news or read magazines? tey dont make that shit up for their health.

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What should i get my boyfriend for our 6 month anniversary & for his birthday? (different months)

hes turning 19 in september...our 6 month is in august 21st

i rate 5's no doubt about it

how about you give him six individual gifts, one standing for a different reason of why you love him (if you guys say i love you, if you dont then when you like him) or maybe, you can make him a scrap book with notes, pictures, movie stubs, and anything else that reminds you two of eachother.

for his birthday? something that he watns,
cologne, a cd, a shirt, a sweatshirt,

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I belong to an apartment complex pool,where there are like no kids my age, they are mostly around 9. I'm 13 so there arent many hotties with bodies laying around. But there is this one guy, he looks about a year or two older than me (which is fine cuz i dont usually date guys my age). Its kinda hard to explain a stare i guess lol. But he always looks and me and smiles when i look back at him. I'm kinda of shy and i think he is shy too. There was about a million chances to talk to each other, but no one took them. I'm pretty sure i like him, you know that "he is all i think about and i cant wait to see him"bit.I've been trying to strike up the nerve to talk to him, but i just cant do it. It seems weird going up to a complete stranger and talking to them. What would i say?And..*sigh* i just got back together with my on and off again boyfriend who is crazy for me. I broke his heart twice already, if i do really like this guy too, i dont know if i could stand breaking his heart again. We've been really good friends while we havent been together, i cant stand to loose him.
I need help, guys or girls point of view, do you think he likes me? should i go for it?Im not an amature in the dating department, im more mature all the kids my age, i just need help getting started.

Thanks, i rate 5's.

you say youre not immature in the dating department, but i think you are. im sorry if you dont want to hear this, but the point is for advice so here is mine. you are THIRTEEN. you shouldnt be worried about "hotties with bodies" maybe thats why you havent found any. you say "on and off again" like youre so old and youve been dating this guy for so long. its a 13 year old relationship. and obviously if youre trying to get with a hottie with a body, then you dont like him all that muc, or you would only be thinking about him. also? if you were mature in the dating department, you wouldnt be trying to play two guys, and you wouldnt be desperate, youd go for who ever you liked more. none of us can tell you which one that is.


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lmao i dont give a shit if you think im rude. because im not. i tell it like it is, if you dont like it? then dont ask for advice. im not gona baby you and tell you waht you want to hear, its called advice, not "nod your head and agree"

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listin, i need to make as much money as fast as i can plz help, im 13 so i cant work at a reastrunt or anything plz help!!!!!!!!! need money quick!!! i rate high!!!!!!!!!!

babysitt, do chores, walk dogs, wash cars, ask your mom, sell something on ebay, sell used cd's to a cd store that buys them. save your lunch money.

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ok my boyfriend who lives in the same town as me went to florida for a month and i really miss him. the day before he left, he slept over and my house and we had so much fun and i didnt want him to go. but i really miss him. i cant call him because of long distance. what should i do? help.. i'll rate 5's for sure!!

maybe write him a letter? or - instead of him sending YOU a post card. you send him one. send him a "Wish you were here'' one, and tell him that you miss him. and you really wish he was there. if you dont know teh adress of the hotel, im sure he said soemthing about which one he was staying at, so look it up online, unless hes staying with family, then maybe ask to call him for a minute just to grab teh adress. i know its probably hard. good luck.

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well signingfish.com is up for sale... which sucks BALLS!! does anyone know i site kind of like it that i can just listen to music and its fast and easy?

www.launch.com

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ok.......... i finger myself all the time.. and i h8 it.... it like bcame a habit.. i dun no ho to stop... also.. i really like this guy.. alot.. ut i dun no if he likes me... well anywayz...im 13.. is this normal to be fingerin??? also... alot of times.. i pik myself down there and discharge comes out but so much that like its just alot... and i feel it coming out.. is that normal?? sorry im asking such strange questions.....also.. im just starting to get boobs... they look pointy wen i wear tite clothes.. and those are all th clothes i have.. i h8 it.. how can i deal with it.. and if i don't wear tite clothes i look fat and pointy.. help..

rIssA

okay - first of all - 13 is puberty. every girl goes through it. get a bra - that way you wont see through the shirt, youre not fat, youre growing - give it time and you will be grown into your self and look fine. work out and be active if you dont like your weight. also - the discharge is normal, wear panty liners, be ready for your period, and you cant really help the fingering part - if yo hated it you wouldnt be doing it, just resist the urge to have sex, because that moment should be special.

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