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I belong to an apartment complex pool,where there are like no kids my age, they are mostly around 9. I'm 13 so there arent many hotties with bodies laying around. But there is this one guy, he looks about a year or two older than me (which is fine cuz i dont usually date guys my age). Its kinda hard to explain a stare i guess lol. But he always looks and me and smiles when i look back at him. I'm kinda of shy and i think he is shy too. There was about a million chances to talk to each other, but no one took them. I'm pretty sure i like him, you know that "he is all i think about and i cant wait to see him"bit.I've been trying to strike up the nerve to talk to him, but i just cant do it. It seems weird going up to a complete stranger and talking to them. What would i say?And..*sigh* i just got back together with my on and off again boyfriend who is crazy for me. I broke his heart twice already, if i do really like this guy too, i dont know if i could stand breaking his heart again. We've been really good friends while we havent been together, i cant stand to loose him.
I need help, guys or girls point of view, do you think he likes me? should i go for it?Im not an amature in the dating department, im more mature all the kids my age, i just need help getting started.
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you say youre not immature in the dating department, but i think you are. im sorry if you dont want to hear this, but the point is for advice so here is mine. you are THIRTEEN. you shouldnt be worried about "hotties with bodies" maybe thats why you havent found any. you say "on and off again" like youre so old and youve been dating this guy for so long. its a 13 year old relationship. and obviously if youre trying to get with a hottie with a body, then you dont like him all that muc, or you would only be thinking about him. also? if you were mature in the dating department, you wouldnt be trying to play two guys, and you wouldnt be desperate, youd go for who ever you liked more. none of us can tell you which one that is.
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lmao i dont give a shit if you think im rude. because im not. i tell it like it is, if you dont like it? then dont ask for advice. im not gona baby you and tell you waht you want to hear, its called advice, not "nod your head and agree"
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Start a conversation with this guy! You may end up not even liking him. But you should become friends with him before you dump your boyfriend and risk hurting him again. Just hang out with the other guy, and if your feelings get too strong, THEN break up with your boyfriend.
When you call the new guy to hang out just because you're bored, or if you find yourself always looking for chances to see him and talk to him, that's when you know that you're starting to get stronger feelings. Good luck choosing!
<b>♥</b> Melissa
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i say you just go up to him and start talking like "hey my name is _____" and then you'll basicly have yourself a conversation with a hot guy! haha. also, if you have aim, this gurl Katie gives great advice! about anything!! i bet she'd do great with this question. her sn is AlwaysGoodAdvice. seeyaaa
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i say go up to this guy asking his name and everything, i mean it cant hurt to try, whats the worts that could happen...and if confronting this guy dosent turn out for the better youll still have your boyfriend your with now...but to me this guy seems interested.
danni <3
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hold your breath and just ask him, how are you doing, whats youe name,or just say hey, try to work a convorsation(:
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my advice to you is to swallow your pride. just go over and say hey i noticed that you were sitting all alone and may be in neeed of company. that SHOULD tell him that you are more mature then a average 13 year old. or if you jsut say hi whats your name if you to scared to say the first thing.
~hope i helped
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All you have to do is find a common interest with this guy. I mean, if he didn't actually like you that way, you would at least gain a bud. You don't have to go steady with everyone you date. You can be with someone for a while just to see what they're like, but that does not mean anything.
As for your boyfriend, he will understand if you just tell him this. Treat him like a friend, and if he leaves and doesn't come back, he's not good enough for you.
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