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What to do!!
This is so corny but i need help! I'm at a camp for my sport and there is this guy and all the girls think he is hot, and he is!! But he's so shy and doesn't talk a lot. But he talked to me during a drill and kept giving me advice (he's really really good) and then saying "that's really good" even when it wasn't and walking back from a drill we talked. he's a year younger than me. but we actually had a conversation and i havent seen him talk that much cept during the game to get passes and such. i'm not sure how to get is AIM s/n, phone # is a bit to foward for me... all the other girls are so much prettier how can i make him see me more?? how can i talk to him more without looking pathetic n how can i ask him for his s/n?! (hurry camp ends friday!!) thanks!!
signed-corny
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just act cool.. simply say something like..
"hey.. camp is about to end.. i'm gonne miss everything that happened.. isn't it cool that we met.. hehehe.. it's been fun meeting new friends like you.. i'm gonna miss you all.. maybe we can still communicate with each other.. how about ur s/n.."
something like dat.. or even less cheesy.. just act simple.. and as if there are no other intentions except to just to keep in touch with him.. hope i helped..
extraordinary girl..
but not perfect..
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he obviously sees something mor in you then in every other girl, otherwise he wouldnt be talking to you, hed be talking to them. before the camp is over, tell him that myabe sometime you guys could hang out and he could help you more with your sports. or tell him you have an awesome article about the sport you play that you want to send him, ask for his s/n / email so you can send him it.
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as him one day when hes alone if he can help you with some drill...then play a little one on one...guys like it when your good at sports and dont be afraid to play dirty...after that sit down and be like id like it if we'd keep in touch...or just be like can i have your sn so we can talk...he wont mind...and dont be afraid to make the first move!!!!! guys dig that too!!!
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personallity stands out soo much more than looks.
who wants a pretty girl if she stuck up n shallow. right ? if you come off fun and nice he will WANT to be around you. If you want to talk to him just wait till you see him and be like hey! whats up. try to find something to compliment him on like his game or soemthing. everything should just take off from there.
If you want his sn or number. wait till like the end or the last time you know youll see him and be like aww camp is like soo close to being over...do u like have aim or something?
IF HES SHY DONT BE!! sometime you have to just make the first move so things can get started.
so to stand out..let your personallity shinee. and have self confindence..look in the mirror and say. MY NAME IS [name here] AND IM PRETTY SMART NICE AND IM GOING TO CATCH THAT BOYS EYE CAUSE MIKELA [[maa-kayy-laa]] SAID SOO!
good luck gorgeouse!~
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well just keep doing what your doing! if you already got to talk to him and hes given you advice, keep asking for it! tell him thats hes good at giving advice and then ask if you could have his phone #, sn, or whatever so that if you ever need more advice, you can ask him for it. good luck!
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just ask him! it's not a big deal. just after a conversation be like "oh yeah. do you have a screen name?" make sure you have a way to write it down. he won't think anything weird of it. also, asking for a phone number is kinda forward, but if you two have cell phones and he has his out just ask if you can see it for a minute and add yourself to his phonebook. then say something like "now i'm in your phonebook!" when you give it back to him. don't worry about getting his after you have his screen name cause you can always ask for it on there or he just might add his number to yours. sorry that was a little off-topic cause all you wanted to know was the sn thing, but i thought that could also come in handy. haha. just relax and don't worry.
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Try just asking. DUH. most guys dont care about giving there sn out to people they have met. :0 ;) :) .......have fun at your "sport" camp
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Dear corny,
what you need to do is show him that your confident and try to drop hints about likin him cause you aint got enough time to play hard to get.. dont worry bout them other chicks... see it as jus you and him... next time you're talkin to him you can jus casually ask him for his s/n... im sure he wnt have a prob.. if he duz thats stupid.. but if he aint gotta s/n then jus go ahead and ask 4 the #... have confidence!! GoOd LuCk!!
*~advicebabe~*
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Mabe you should wait till you've spent a little more time with him, you know, get him to be more comfortable with you. Then, either Thursday or Friday, tell him you think hes really kool and that you want to keep in touch. Ask him for his s/n or e-mail address and I think he'll give it to you!
Hope i did some good,
Jessy
P.S. Dont think that all the other girls are better looking, it seems to me like he already chose to become your friend! So dont be so hard on yourself and lighten up a bit. When your feeling better, chances are he'll notice that. Good Luck!
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I don't think you have to worry about the other girls. If he was talking to you, that probably means he likes you (if only as a friend, but hopefully more). Just walk over to him the next time you see him and start talking to him. Before you're done tell him that he seems really cool and you'd like to keep in touch when camp is over. Ask him right then for his AIM sn.
Hope it goes well! Have fun at camp!
~Bee~
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just ask him!!! be yourself dont worry about impressing him if he is the right guy then he will see the real person inside you!!!
***hope i helped***
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Just say you want to talk more, or keep in touch after camp, and ask for the best way to contact him. Get his sn and email, and if you're comfortable with the phone, ask for that too. Good luck!
<b>♥</b> Melissa
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