nO oNe kNows d ReaL gIrL in Me... nO one can UndeRstanD me dAt weL.. NO oNe KOws waT i reaLly FeEl and ThInk.. nO onE caN preDicT me.. But it doEsn"t mean dAt I LiVe in a daRk WoRld.. my life is brIghtEr dan d SuN.. ITs moRe cOlorful dan A CanDyLand..
I cAn bE d MoSt haPpY peRsOn in dIs wOrlD aNd wiTh OnE bLink i can Be The most loneLy perSon uLl eVeR sEe...
BuT nO i"m Not d ReBel kind of gAl.. nevEr once in My lIfe dat I ThOuGht oF coMiting SuIcide.. mY liFe's Too PreCious to be WaSTe JuST bEcaUse of d WoRsE cRaps of Lyf..
i can RiDe watEvEr TrIp u Have In mY mind.. weDer iTs d gOoDy2 sTuf.. oR d EvIl Ones.. But kEeP in My Mind.. I'Ll onLy rIDe wIth U If My ConsCience wIl rIdE with me and GuIlt wil Be LefT behind...
iCan Be D AnGel dAt cAme iNto Ur Lyf aNd maDe evRyThing ryT.. BuT i can alSo be d EvIL Kid hu CaN maKe U R LyF mIseRaBle.. aNd dis tYm My coNscIence myt EVen be My FReNd Hu wIl hElp me Plan...
im A gIrl thAt trEasUres My LoVe OnEs So Much.. eSpeCialy my TRUE frEnds.. FrEndS Hu CaN KeEp UP wIth me and Hu wILl nEvR LeaVe mE aLone iN d Dark.. FrEnds hU wiLl Olways bE aT mY bAck ReADy to cAtch Me eVerYTYm I FaL.. LUcKY me.. I Ha VE diS kInd OF FRenDs.. fReNds HuLl OlWayS b true..
IM a GaL HUs aFraid To HuRt a PeRson.. AfRaid to cAusE HaTreD to oDers.. BUT im jUsT a HuMan.. AnD ONcE U hURt Me and anyoNe tHat i LOvE.. I'Ll NeVEr ThiNk tWiCe To HuRt U...
Im NoT uR tYpical gal..
im Not D OrdInarY Kind..
YeS I aM EXtRaOrdInary..
BUT iM Not PErFEct..
E-mail: romaema@yahoo.com
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krizz_teenah
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Okay me and my boyfriend have sex but the thing is we have never used a condom and I'm not on birth control. I talked to him about it before and we agreed to start using them. But that never happened...I really wish we would but I dont want to say something about it again.....what should i do? (link)
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tell hm that you two should use contraceptive unless the both of you are ready to have kids...
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i have a boyfriend and i luv him so much and i never want 2 let him go but i dont think he knos how much i do luv him..how could i tell him?
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dont tell it.. show it...
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ok...there's this guy that i might hook up with but i'm still not sure that i will but he was asking me if we hooked up if i would ever have sex with him and i said i didnt know...i dont know what to do because i dont think im ready for sex yet and honestly im scared...i want to tell him that im not ready but i dont know how he will react.. (link)
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just tell him how you feel and that you're not ready yet.. if he'll get mad at you and if he'll force you.. dump him.. cause if he really love yo he should be willing to wait for the right time... hope i helped...
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I have these friends of mine. They were my best friends. Even though we go to different schools, I still spend lots of time with them. I really loved them, no matter what happened between us. Some people said that I was so stupid that I trusted them so bad that I have never thought bad things about them.
Few days ago, one of my friends came to me and told me that all of my friends were talking bad things about me. I did not trust him, of course, cause I believed that my friends would not do such a thing to me.
Then, when I checked my e-mail, I found a message for me. It was all bad things about me. It was from my friends. I was so shock that I spend my time crying with my boyfriend. My boyfriend, which was my closest best friend too, told me that even though my friends hated me, he would stay with me. But actually, his words did not calm me down. I still worried about my friends. I did not hate them, and I would never do, but I could not forget what they said about me. Now, I'm avoided and hated by my friends. And they avoid my boyfriend in their school too!! I really don't know what to do... Please help me!!!
-brokenheart girl- (link)
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move on... they are not worth your tears.. no traitors are worth your tears.. make new friends.. show them that you dont need them... show them that you cant be put down by them.. prove it to them that you are strong.. and show them that they are not the only friends you have.. hope i helped..
++extraordinary, but not perfect++
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Hello. I don't really know how this works, but I am taking a crack at it. Lately, I have been reading many sites that teenage girls like me have been making about anorexia. Most often then not they are praising it, but I have found few who tell me to look away. I am about to be 15 years old in a month. Soon, I am going back to school. I weigh 204lbs. Everyone tells me I don't look overweight, but its not just the way I look. I feel heavy. I feel sick and digusted, but I when I read these websites I get inspired to lose weight. Though, never to such an extreme as to starving myself. Are there any diets or tips out there that can help me? I'm feeling really inadequate. (link)
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well.. avoid having in-between-meals.. for short snack and when eating meals make sure you are full so your dont have to eat snacks lessen the in-take of carbohydrates and sweets... if not you can have snacks but lessen the food you are taking per eating session.. of course you have to burn some fats.. which means you have to do some exercise.. if not you can just dance around for about 30 mins.. that way youll have fun while losing weight.. or you can simply do anything where in you burn fats.. hope i helped..
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14/f Ok i have really liked his one guy for about 3 years and we have dated a couple times but we never really lasted. But i just currently broke up with my ex boyfriend. But i was talking 2 them both last nite on the computer and i still have feelings for them both. My ex boyfriend he dumped me because there was just 2 much going on in his life like his ex gf was up and he didn't know what would happen. But now that shes leaving sunday. He wants 2 go back out w/ me. I dont wanna get played like that but i also have feelings for him. And my "dating guy" hes cute and all but i think all hes interested in is getting laid. He says he loves me but... im really confused please help! i rate high for good answers (link)
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dont get back with your ex boyfriend for the fact that why cant he have you and just dump his ex... if he do really love you he could have stood up for you and your relationship.. if you think your dating-guy's only interested in is getting laid.. and you dont believe that he truly love you.. dump him.. im not like being so "KJ" or kill joy i just dont want you to get hurt by guys who dont love you... but you can give these guys chances to prove to you if they really love you.. and if one of them had proved it to you and you love that guy.. then why not.. love means taking a risk... hope i helped..
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my boyfriend of 7 months got drunk the other night and planned on hiding it from me. i found out from someone else who was there. my boyfriend always promised & swore that he would never drink and how stupid he was. he ended up getting drunk with his friend and when i found out, i gave my boyfriend soooo many chances to confess and tell me the truth and he didnt. later he finally admitted it and i was so outraged that i broke up with him and told him i never want to see him again, and i hung up. he hasnt tried to call me or fix things up. my friends called him and said he was crying and too afraid to talk to me. i dont want to call him first...but should i forgive him? he broke my trust. (link)
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give him a chance... yes he broke your trust and he got drunk... but he's not perfect to always keep the promise he made.. everyone commit mistakes.. and maybe he was too afraid to make you get mad at him that he didnt tell you... forgive him.. give him another chance to prove it to you that you can trust him.. the relationship you had will be such a waste if it will end up just like this... keep in mind that your boyfriend is only a human being and he do commit mistakes... hope i helped...
++extraordinary, but not perfect++
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all of my friends are some of the nicest people in the world...but my dad just doesn't seem to like any of them. he always calls them brats or says that i can't hang out with them. they've all met him, and i keep telling him how great they are...but he just doesn't listen. how do i get him to see how amazing ALL my friends are? (link)
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let your friends show it to him.. i mean he should see it with his own eyes.. if you and your friends are still going to school you can prove it to your dad that they are good if they have a good role in your school or if they have high grades.. if not.. lessen the partying out.. dads dont like that.. you could hang out in your house that way your dad will trust your friends..
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ok what do i do.... i dont like my current friends but i want to hang out with these to other girl emma n iris i mean i did hang out with them and we were like best friends and i said lets never fight and lets be best friends forever that didnt work ,,, they are the "popular girls in school" and i want to be friends with them cause i had SO much fun with them and we could like do anything and talk about anything unlike these friends i have now they FREAK OUT if someone is kissing on t.v. emma n iris always hang out with boys and thats something i want is some more guy friends too and if they saw like that someone kissing they would kiss which is so cute lol! so help meeeeeee please i might rate i dunno only if i get good answeres (link)
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its okay to hang out with them.. i mean i know that your friends will understand how you feel.. but dont reject your other friends.. still keep in touch with them.. they still love you as a friend.. and they still care for you... try to manage your time.. in that way you can hang out with each group of friends.. hope i helped..
extraordinary girl..
but not perfect...
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What should i get my boyfriend for our 6 month anniversary & for his birthday? (different months)
hes turning 19 in september...our 6 month is in august 21st
i rate 5's no doubt about it (link)
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in your 6th monsary you can give him a bracelet with your names.. or a necklace that has a picture of the 2 of you.. or even a keychain.. or anything that connects the two of you.. (mecklace and bracelets for guys..)
for his birthday.. you can give him gifts based on his interest..
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my mom is always saying im ugly. last sunday for church, i let my hair dry into natural curl/waves and she said it was ugly and i should brush it (badddd idea) and wear some makeup because my face looked "bad". i didnt wear earrings & she always says i look bad when i dont wear them. when i do wear makeup for other occasions she says i look like a prostitute. i dont know what to do anymore! i cant always be best dressed and miss cheerful like she was when she was my age. shes always telling me how thin she was and how everyone liked her figure just to rub it in my face that i have no womanly shape. my dad says i look ok because he sees what it does to my self esteem. everytime i get the slightest blemish, shes the first to point it out. i hate it! someone please help me! any advice will help! ill rate 5s... (link)
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dont mind what your mother say... i mean you can check out on the things your mother say.. but dont let her comments put you so down.. dress the way you are.. i mean dress the way you like.. but make sure not to break any laws you have in your family.. and dress properly for the occasion.. hope i helped..
extraordinary girl..
but not perfect..
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This is so corny but i need help! I'm at a camp for my sport and there is this guy and all the girls think he is hot, and he is!! But he's so shy and doesn't talk a lot. But he talked to me during a drill and kept giving me advice (he's really really good) and then saying "that's really good" even when it wasn't and walking back from a drill we talked. he's a year younger than me. but we actually had a conversation and i havent seen him talk that much cept during the game to get passes and such. i'm not sure how to get is AIM s/n, phone # is a bit to foward for me... all the other girls are so much prettier how can i make him see me more?? how can i talk to him more without looking pathetic n how can i ask him for his s/n?! (hurry camp ends friday!!) thanks!!
signed-corny (link)
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just act cool.. simply say something like..
"hey.. camp is about to end.. i'm gonne miss everything that happened.. isn't it cool that we met.. hehehe.. it's been fun meeting new friends like you.. i'm gonna miss you all.. maybe we can still communicate with each other.. how about ur s/n.."
something like dat.. or even less cheesy.. just act simple.. and as if there are no other intentions except to just to keep in touch with him.. hope i helped..
extraordinary girl..
but not perfect..
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Ok, my friend is really shy about everything. Like making out, holding hands, etc. Is there any way he can be less shy with girls? Thanks! (link)
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it will be much easier if the girl that your guy frend should be doing those stuf with is close to him.. so he wil be comfortable.. but if not.. maybe it will be better if it starts slowly.. i mean maybe first a little holding of hands, then hugs, then some peck.. in this way he won't be in shock.. hope i helped..
extraordinary girl..
but not perfect...
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I met this guy on the internet and he's coming to pick me up in an hour or so. EVerything seems all right and my intuition tells me its a go but everyone always says to be careful so I thought I'd ask. Don't be too hasty to answer cuz I'm really for going. (link)
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maybe it will be okay if you are meeting him... But kepp prepared if ever he's not anything you expected and may be even worse that what you are thinking.. to make sure everthing will be okay.. tell someon or a close friend of yours where the two of you are going (make sure to ask him before you leave), what time you are mostly likely to go home, any contact # and the real name of the guy.. hope i helped.. Take care..
extraordinary girl..
but not perfrct..
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Sorry its kinda long... My boyfriend and I get along really good but he thinks I have too many guy friends. I am pretty good looking *not to sound big headed, its just what people say* so he thinks that whenever I go spend time with him I will cheat on him. He doesn't trust me at all. Just the other weekend I went to see my guy friend I have known since I was born. He moved when we were 6 so I go visit him all the time. My b/f called me every 30 min. to make sure I wasn't cheating on him. He didn't even want me to wear a bathing suit infront of my frnd. Of course while I was there I didn't cheat on my boyfriend. Is there someway I can make him trust me with my guy friends?
Thanks for the help.
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always assure him that you love him so much and that he will always have you and your love.. show it.. develop the rust between the to of you.. but if he stil doesnt trust you.. break up with him.. how can he say he loves you that he can't even ern to trust you.. and it doesn't mean that he's your boy and your his girl, he can stop you from socializing with others.. your his girl but he doesn't own you gal!! but don't break up with him immediatley give him a chance to learn to trust you...
++ not your ordinary gal ++
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