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14/f Ok i have really liked his one guy for about 3 years and we have dated a couple times but we never really lasted. But i just currently broke up with my ex boyfriend. But i was talking 2 them both last nite on the computer and i still have feelings for them both. My ex boyfriend he dumped me because there was just 2 much going on in his life like his ex gf was up and he didn't know what would happen. But now that shes leaving sunday. He wants 2 go back out w/ me. I dont wanna get played like that but i also have feelings for him. And my "dating guy" hes cute and all but i think all hes interested in is getting laid. He says he loves me but... im really confused please help! i rate high for good answers
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dont get back with your ex boyfriend for the fact that why cant he have you and just dump his ex... if he do really love you he could have stood up for you and your relationship.. if you think your dating-guy's only interested in is getting laid.. and you dont believe that he truly love you.. dump him.. im not like being so "KJ" or kill joy i just dont want you to get hurt by guys who dont love you... but you can give these guys chances to prove to you if they really love you.. and if one of them had proved it to you and you love that guy.. then why not.. love means taking a risk... hope i helped..
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ok..well i kinda just went through a problem like this. except mine was a little different. but anyways. honestly the only thing you can do is listen to your heart i know that sounds kinda cheesey and not like the most brilliant answer ever but it's all you can really do. when you like two people you have to realize the one you like more is the one that you think about more, the one that no matter what they do you could never stop liking them. i realized this and now i'm feeling a lot better. so i hope it works out! let me know how it goes!
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Well okay i dated when i was your age and i have to say none of them meant anything. From my personal exsperience i would also say try to forget your feelings if you know one of the guys just wants in your pants he' NOT worth it, and you should recognize that. the other well he just wants a girlfriend and it also jsut sounds like it whatevers available. Hun i wish i had more to offer but i've been there and it's not fun. I hope you can find a level of understanding there and choose a good answer for yourself.
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I think that you should just try and forget about both guys. I know it won't be easy, but set your sights on a guy that you could see your self with for a while. Hope I helped.
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