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my mother
hey im 14/f my mom thinks that i have been having sex latley because i have alot of guy friends. I told her that im not but she doesn't beleive me. It gets kinda annoying i say i have a stomach ache and shes like u could be pregnant. Im like no i couldn't. But how do i get her 2 trust me around guys? And how can i convince her the im not having sex? I was guna go and get a test at the doctors. but she always says we dont have time. or w/e my moms 30. Please help me... i rate high 4 good answers!
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Wow your mom seems to not be very trusting if she is just going to automatically assume that. It seems like parents are trying to draw clearer lines between friendship between the opposite sexes.
However though, take this into mind...Your mom is 30, that means when she had you, she was 16. Think about it for a second, she may just trying to be a bit protective because she is just afraid that you may follow in her footsteps and make the mistakes she mad when she was your age.
However with this she may be taking it a tad too far. She shouldn't really have a problem with you having alot of guy friends because as you said, they're just friends and shouldn't assume just because you have lots of guy friends your having sex with them.
Talk to her and let her know your not having sex with your guy friends because as you said, you aren't. Keep drilling it in her head that your not, give her reasons to trust you and exploit every opportunity to show to her your trustworthy.
Hope this helps and she lightens up a bit with the trust!
-Ryan
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I had the same problem last year. A lot of my friends are guys. Yuo just need to act normally around and not be so flirty when it comes to them. If you are even flirty. Also it helps to hang out with some girls a bit more often too. Hope I helped.
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What you need to do is buy one of those pregnancy tests at a drug store. They shouldn't be hard to find. Then you need to test yourself in front of her so that she can see that you are doing everything right. I'm sorry, but I'm not sure if there is anything else you can do. Except not hanging out with all your guy friends as much.
Hope I helped <33
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