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Q: what do you think of meeting people off the internet...

im 16 and hes 17 weve talked online and he is totaly cool and sweet. asked me if we could sit and meet in person..

bad or good idea?

HELP ASAP

BAD BAD BAD idea....never meet someone in person that you've met off of the internet...that is so dangerous....you don't know if he's like some 40 year old guy just looking for sex or something like that!
Hope I helped
XOXO

Q: I am almost 15 and i have only had one real relashonship with a guy. it lasted about a year.
all of my friend have great boyfiend relashonships. but i don't, the only advice they can give me.(is to be the one to move first.) well i gess im a old fashion girl. i like the guy to ask first.

OK sweetie, you are so right to want to let the guy make the first move, I've gone through a lot of relationships where I've made the first move and they've ended in distaster, but this time i let my b\f make the first move and we've been toegther for almost 6 months and i love him a lot.
So I hope I helped you.
XOXOXOXOXO
Tiffany

Q: I'm wondering, I'm only 14 at the moment, but girls my age seem to go for the bad guys and the biggest jerks. Why is that? I am a gentleman and I am as nice as can be and they always tell me that but why do they go for the jerks?

Sweetie you really just have to be yourself, you're still young, enjoy it while you can, as you grow up and get into high school the girls will start going after the nice guys and not the bad ones, i know, i was a girl like that just last year and I'm a freshman in high school.

Hope i helped.

XOXO
Tiffany

Q: i have a dance next weekend and i dont know what to wear. the dance is casual. im in middle school. what should i wear?

Try jeans and just a cute shirt t-shirt, it will be cute but comfy.

Q: ok well im not aloud to date n im 13 years old is that like to young to date i mean cmon i am not little ?????

You're not too young, maybe you're just not mature enough to date yet. I know that sounds mean,but sometimes it's true.
xoxo

Q: I know these aren;t the best questions to ask, but im not gunna ask anyone else!! There's a guy and his name is Gil. I always thought he liked me, but was never sure! Here are some signs he shows:

-He laughs at me
-Today he poked me purposely and I said "What?" and he said sorry
-He popped my bra strap once
-He smiles at me

Thats it...Does he like me? It's starting to annoy me!!!

Guys seems to always show their flirtation by picking on us girls. He does like you. Try flirting back. It usually helps. See his reaction.

Q: ok i like this guy and my friend asked him "do you have a gf?" and then his friend kept asking him " do you like her?(me)" but i never caught his answer... then his frined just blurts out will you go out with her?(me)" but once again i never caught the answer... so now i know he knows i like him... what do i do now ?
thanx tiff ! love you !

Well sweetie he knows you like him so really all you can do is wait and see if he likes you back.

Q: How do you tell a guy you like him, if your not sure if he likes you back?

Ok you just need to come right out and say it, or maybe have a friend tell him. That's how I told my now current b\f that I liked him, and we've been together for almost 4 months.
Hope I helped!
XOXO

Q: My best friend in the whole world is moving in about 2 weeks and I'm so upset. I can't get over it, it's unreal for me. I want to spend as much time as I can with him, but that still won't make up for the fact that I'll proabaly never see him again.

What can I do?

My two best friends moved away from me too. It's a horrible experience to live with, but really the only thing you can do is keep in touch via e-mail,AIM,telephoneect. It's the easiest way to stay friends.

Q: My little sister is almost 13 (I'm 16) and is in the 7th grade. She got this boyfriend over the summer, some guy who's in her math class, and she really likes talking about him. I'm starting to worry about her. Is this age-appropriate? I'm homeschool because I'm blind, so I don't know about these things.

Well it's not exactyl inapropriate for her, just watch her and make sure the relationship doesn't got too far. She's only human and dating is human nature. It's all fine.

P.s great typing skills.

Q: Ok so theres this guy that i dated last year and we went throught like so much together. I mean he was my first real relationship, so he ment a lot to me. I mean he still means a lot to me. He and i are friends and everything, but we're not as close as i wish we could be. And I still wonder if he likes me like he did. I think about the fun times that we had together all the time. SO what do you think I should? I mean do you think i should ask him what he thinks about me or should i just leave it??

Signed,
The confused girl

well confused girl, I really think that you should ask him about it. I had the same problem. It's kinda difficult to really say but I'm sure that if you talked to him he'd listen and he'd tell you how he really feels about you.

Hope I helped!

Q: I'm thirteen and I want my navel pierced. My Grandparents [who were really strict with my Mom and her sister], are even okay with it. Both of my parents say that I'm too young. But my Dad doesn't live with me, so my Mom can still say yes. I asked her why she wouldn't let me get it done and she said 1] that she thinks if I got that done I would want my nipples done or something crazy like that. 2] she thinks I would walk around with belly shirts or something. I told her I'm not a whore like that and that I wouldn't do either of those. And my question to you is do you think I'm too young? And what do you think I should do to convince my Mom?

well I don';t think you are too young...one of my best friends got it done when she was 11...just be responsible with it.

Q: Hi everyone,
I'm 15/f and I'm going into 9th grade this year. I was wondering what I should shop for when I go clothes shopping. I'm so used to wearing spaghetti-strapped shirts with jeans since I wore stuff like that over the summer. It's just that spaghetti-strapped shirts aren't allowed to be worn unless a hoodie or zip-up jacket or something is worn over it. I don't wanna have to wear a lot of hoodies this year, because I wore them a lot during 7th and 8th grade. If anyone can, please let me know what stores sell cute long sleeve shirts that would look good with jeans. You can also let me know what stores sell cute short sleeve shirts. I usually shop in the mall like at Deb, Aeropostale, and G&G. I also like to go to Kohl's a lot. I don't want shirts that are going to be really expensive. If you can, please help me out. Does anyone know where they sell some cute purses right now also? I really need a new one! Thank you so much! I really appreciate it. :-)

ok whopever tells you to shop at abercombie and hollister is total bull...go to rave and deb...it's not social suicide...and acbercombie clothes are way too expensive....go normal with a jacket over your tanks and camis and go with some short skirts...that's what I do and it works!

Q: umm where can you buy a ouija board..?!? and how much are they?!

Try a spencers....just make sure you know a lot about them before you buy them, they can be a bit creepy.

www.quizilla.com is a great site with sooo many different genres of quizees.

Q: What is the song called that goes like this...

How the hell'd we wind up like this? Why werent we able, to see the signs that we missed, to try to turn the table?

??? ill rate 5s

That songs called Someday and it's by Nickelback

Q: this morning i woke up by the voices in my head screaming at me-it scared the crap out of me!!!! this is an honest question is somthing wrong with me!?!?!

ok you haven't heard enough voices to really tell if you are actually mentally insane...but if you do hear more go to a doctor to find out.

Q: Does anyone know any cool things i can put in my AIM profile.Thanks(i rate high for good answers)!

well with me I put the quotes of my favorite bands...it's really fun and creative....make sure that with different quotes ytou put them in different colors.

Q: i was looking for My Chemical Romance Lyrics and there was one where it said they sang, All I want For Christmas Is You. I don't know what CD this is on though, does anyone? will rate high for GOOD answers!

ok "All I want for Christmas is you" is not on any of the MCR c.d's....srry.

Q: hi. Ive got a boyfriend and i luv him to bits but should i be worried about the age gap? im 15 and he is 12. Do you think its wrong or what?
help
xxXxxX

Okay you have nothing to worry about....Age is nothing....I have an ex and he was 16 and I was 12. There is nothing wrong with it.

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