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Question Posted Friday September 9 2005, 3:09 pm

How do you tell a guy you like him, if your not sure if he likes you back?

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MonkeyBandFRK answered Saturday September 10 2005, 12:12 pm:
Ok you just need to come right out and say it, or maybe have a friend tell him. That's how I told my now current bf that I liked him, and we've been together for almost 4 months.
Hope I helped!
XOXO

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sexygemma answered Friday September 9 2005, 9:23 pm:
well ask him what he really feel about you and then if he feel the same you tell him how u really feel dont hold back just tell him

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mooch789 answered Friday September 9 2005, 6:44 pm:
Just tell him and if he doesn't feel the same way, just suggest that the two of you become friends. Hope I helped!

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thinkpink03 answered Friday September 9 2005, 3:59 pm:
If you are afraid that he might turn you down, try to find out from his friends or maybe yours if he likes you. Dont make it so obvious just ask a couple people and see what you get. but other than that you just have to take a chance. you never know whats gonna happen until you find out ask him so it might take a lot of guts but give it your best. and remember if he happens to say no dont stress it. its his loss.

&hearts// hope i helped & good luck

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dhrutts answered Friday September 9 2005, 3:45 pm:
Hi there,

It's not clear if you know much about this guy or if you simply like the look of him. Because of this, it's hard to anticipate his reaction without having some idea of the kind of person he is.

You've put yourself in a difficult position, because in order to have a chance at getting together with him you'll obviously have to let him know who you are otherwise he'll feel like he's dating a phantom. At the same time, your fear of rejection is totally understandable, especially if you have to see him regularly.

It looks like you have two options. Firstly, you can take the plunge and introduce yourself as the woman who wrote the letter and ask him if he's had any thoughts about it. This does mean risking being turned down but at least then you'll know where you stand. If he's already taken or just isn't interested, at least you will have tried and maybe you could develop a friendship or just go back to being two people who live in the same street.

Or, if you've not yet heard anything from him, let it go and just try to put it behind you. This will probably be hard to do if you see him often and still fancy him, but it's your only alternative if you don't want to risk letting him know who you are. Try not to get too wound up over this, although it's a crisis right now, one way or another it will eventually blow over.

Goodluck

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Mercy_x_Me answered Friday September 9 2005, 3:24 pm:
Tell him you have feelings for him in person if your alone, or on the phone. It's really not a big deal, and people do it all the time. There's no way to know for sure if you like him, but if he feels the same way he'll probably tell you.

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