I am almost 15 and i have only had one real relashonship with a guy. it lasted about a year.
all of my friend have great boyfiend relashonships. but i don't, the only advice they can give me.(is to be the one to move first.) well i gess im a old fashion girl. i like the guy to ask first.
MELiixMARiiE answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 4:58 pm: It alright that you want the guy to make the first move. That's how I am. That's how ALOT of girls are. I don't know any that have ever made the first move. And about you finding a guy. You will. I mean some girls go without getting a guy until their like, 18. You just meet the guy when you meet him. Sometimes it takes a long time, but when you meet him, it's all worth the wait =] But you might need to listen to the guys advice that they give you.. in a way. Not to make the first move like, ask out, but just talk to. Guys like it whenever a girl is confident and can carry a conversation. So maybe just try talking to some guys and maybe you'll possibly meet your future ..husband or something haha =] I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
p.s. I think that's awseome that even though you've had one real relationship with a guy, that it lasted a year! I mean some girls have like, weekly relationships, and I think it's nice that your commited =] [ MELiixMARiiE's advice column | Ask MELiixMARiiE A Question ]
MonkeyBandFRK answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 4:23 pm: OK sweetie, you are so right to want to let the guy make the first move, I've gone through a lot of relationships where I've made the first move and they've ended in distaster, but this time i let my bf make the first move and we've been toegther for almost 6 months and i love him a lot.
So I hope I helped you.
XOXOXOXOXO
Tiffany [ MonkeyBandFRK's advice column | Ask MonkeyBandFRK A Question ]
AnGeLs_AdVicE_x3 answered Tuesday November 1 2005, 10:27 pm: dont worry about it...just wait untill someone asks you...it doesnt matter what other people think...maybe you can flirt with someone you really like and you think they like you and maybe theyll finally gain enough courage to ask you out i mean thats what i did to get my first boyfriend...Good Luck!!! I hope I helped!! =)
xOx_BRUN3TT3_xOx answered Tuesday November 1 2005, 9:48 am: HEY !!
well if you like someone now ask them out be strong take the chance but if you dont its not the end of the world if you dont have a boyfriend tell your friends that you dont like anione and that you dont jus wana go with anione you no well hope i helped xOx !! [ xOx_BRUN3TT3_xOx's advice column | Ask xOx_BRUN3TT3_xOx A Question ]
PrEtTyKiTtY0428 answered Monday October 31 2005, 10:53 pm: Hello hun,
Just be yourself. I like when a guy asks first also. Don't worry about any great relationships right now. Just have fun! Eventually you'll find someone who will be great for you. Just don't worry about it now. If you're not having any great relationships right now, I'm sure it's not because of you. [ PrEtTyKiTtY0428's advice column | Ask PrEtTyKiTtY0428 A Question ]
AGEHA answered Monday October 31 2005, 9:27 pm: I didn't have a single relationship until I was 18. Hell, I didn't even get a hug until I was 17. I've only been in one relationship, and due to this meticulous selection, it is a very strong and deep relationship. That being said...
You're 14 years old. You don't HAVE to date someone just because your friends are. That's almost as stupid as me saying, "well, if your friends jumped off a cliff, would you do it too?" So I won't say that.
Consider breaking the lame tradition of forcing a man to ask you out. I think if you are careful in who you pick to ask out, you will end up with a wonderful man to date. Or at least, you have a much better chance of doing that then if someone were to ask you out. [ AGEHA's advice column | Ask AGEHA A Question ]
sportychick22 answered Monday October 31 2005, 9:02 pm: I'm kind of an old fashioned girl myself. I know how you feel about not having a boyfriend but all your friends do. It really does suck. But you know what they say, the best comes to those who wait. Just wait until that one guy comes and asks you. That's what I'm doing myself. I hope this helped you a little. Lol, and while your waiting, why not flirt around a little bit? [ sportychick22's advice column | Ask sportychick22 A Question ]
cheddar answered Monday October 31 2005, 5:42 pm: you're still young. trust me, somebody is out there for you. as for the old fashion girl thing, don't ask the guy out, just ask him to hang out. then become friends.. blah blah.. whatever. just make sure he's interested and that he knows you are too. then leave it up to him. [ cheddar's advice column | Ask cheddar A Question ]
Sherry answered Monday October 31 2005, 4:53 pm: Nothing is wrong with having the guy ask you out first, just make sure your giving him the messages that you want to go out with him. You know flirt and all that good stuff. I'm 15 too, I've never had a boyfriend and all i keep thinking to myself is it'll be worth it when your with someone special!! Dont worry, were young and we will have plenty of boyfriends. You cant look for a boyfriend, he'll just come to you somehow. For now have fun and flirt! =) [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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