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Are there guys, around the age of 15 or 16, who just want a relationship of holding hands, kissing and making out (but not sex) anymore? I don't think I even know any guys who want relationships like that. Do I just know the wrong guys or is the majority wanting more?
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Most guys around our age are all about screwing girls because they think that if they do, that they are so cool and such. Most of them don't really care to have that kind of relationship that you described, but there are some guys out there with a sensitive, less horny side to them. We usually think that we are always choosing the wrong guys, but really, its not us, its them. Don't worry, with time, you will find the right guy. Hope I helped you.
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Ok..soo i met this guy at a baseball game and he got my number from one of my guys friends. So he called me that night..and now we talk on the phone every night. And i mean we're starting to like eachother but the problem is..he lives like an hr n 30 min away. We really want to hang out..cuz we've only met once. But the problem is..it wont be awhile till come up there again..like the end of the summer. WHat should i do? (link)
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I think that you should continue to talk to him on the phone. I would suggest a long distance relationship, but it may not work out, but if you have enough trust in him to know that he won't cheat on you or anything then I say go for it. Hope I helped you.
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I (13) share a master bedroom with my sister(17). I want to decorate the room. It's diffcult for us to agree on ant thing since we're so diffrent. How should I decorate if she can't agree on any thing? (link)
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I think that you should decorate your side of the room however you want to. She shouldn't have any say in it because that room is half yours too and you should be able to express your individuality in the room. Hope I helped you.
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im 13/f and im gonna be going into 8th grade.
with not ever having a boyfriend, no first kiss no nothing!
and it sucks.
my love life better get better before i get to highschool
any ways i could maybe get a boyfriend or have boys get to like me more?!
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Hun, you are just 13 years old. You are still growing up. You have plenty of time for that kind of stuff when you are a couple years older. Some of your friends may have boyfriends and you're probably feeling like a third wheel, but rushing to grow up and having a boyfriend isn't that great. I think you should wait until you actually get to high school. You never know, things might happen during now until then. Just don't sweat it. I hope I helped you.
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To graduate high school I had to take a theater class but I wasn't really into that stuff so instead of doing my assignments, my teacher let me do other things for grades (stay after and clean the stage, stuff like that). Whenever I'd do that, we would be together. We talked all the time and started to get really close. We ended up making out once but we didn't let it get in farther. We got together a few times outside of school for coffee and such but nothing more because we knew we couldn't
Well, now that I've graduated, he not my teacher, and I don't even go to that school anymore. So do you think it'd be okay to try to pursue a relationship with him? I'm 18 and he's 24 by the way.
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I think it would be okay if you did. You are 18 and out of that school so it wouldn't be illegal and he can't get in trouble since he's like 24 and not your teacher anymore. Did you just recently graduate? Because if you did I would recommend you wait for a little bit until you decide to pursue a relationship with him. I hope I helped you.
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okay if i eat breakfast, little lunch and dinner, would that help me lose wieght and also exercise like walking? (link)
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It should. Eat healthy and keep on exercising. You will reach your goal in no time. Good luck and I hope I helped you.
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ok well i got fingered for the first time and last untill im like a little older. and yeah that sounds gross but i mean i didnt think it was anything bad. but i havent been feeling well since then. it happen just yesterday but also yesterday i went to this party and ate SOO much food lol so maybe thats why im sick? and i had crampz yesterday before it happen and then after that they really didnt come and now i think they are comming back but i cant really tell..i just know my stomache is blehh lol please and thank you sooo much!
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You might be feeling a little weird because you got fingered. I'm not sure how to explain it, but its like you kind of feel bad about getting fingered? Make sense? I don't think being fingered is the actual reason why you feel "bleh". It must have been all that food you ate. Lol, eating so much at a time can make you feel like that. Well I hope you feel better soon and I hope I helped you.
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I'm 13 years old and I'm about 5'4. I once heard that if you're 5 feet tall, your supossed to weigh 100 pounds, and for every inch after that, it's another 5 pounds. Well, that would mean that I'm suposed to weigh about 120 pounds, but i only weigh 95. Does this mean I'm 25 pounds UNDERweight? It seems that if I gained 25 pounds, I'd be looking near obese. I don't feel or look underweight. Am I? (link)
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I think that you're weight is normal for you. Not only is it based on your height but also your age. You are only basing it on your height. Honestly, I wouldn't stress about it. It's not like you have an eating disorder or anything. Just keep eating right. Hope I helped you.
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Okay, just to start things off, in the youth group I am in, there is absolutely NO DATING allowed. [and don't worry, it makes sense]
Well, i was talking on AIM last night to one of really good friends and his cousin in a chat room. They invited me to a Flyleaf concert at the end of the month, just out of the blue. I don't know, it just would kind of seem awkward...But I reallllllly wanna go because they are both my friends and such. I think that some of the girls in our youth group might be jealous [they are good looking].
and, I think my mom will be a little freaked out if I said, "Hey, can I go with two 16-17 year old guys to a flyleaf concert?"
My mom doesn't know either of them, but she knows that I can trust them and all.
I don't know what to do at all. Help?
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Is it possible that you could bring a female friend with you to the concert? Because if you can you could ask your mom about the concert and maybe she'll feel more comfortable about you being there with her. Or you could leave out the fact that you're also going to be there with two older boys, but I wouldn't recommend that because I don't usually lie and I wouldn't want you to do that either. I hope I helped you. I also hope you are able to go to the concert too.
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He said, "I like you a lot, more than any other girl I've ever liked. I would never cheat on you. I hate people who cheat, they deserve to be punched in the face" so I thought, I don't think he'd ever cheat, even though it's pretty obvious he still has something for his ex. I trusted him, which is hard for me to do, I have trust issues.
So we were hanging out one night, things were at its best, and then my bf invited me to his friends camp, because it was rumored that there was going to be a party there. I said I would, but then the morning of I called & told him I wasn't going to go. The reason I didn't want to go was because he told me there was going to be a bunch of girls there from another local school, and most likely his ex. From what I've heard about her, she seemed like a phsyco. I never met her, but it seemed like I knew a lot about her because my bf would talk about her more than he should've. So I thought I wouldn't go because it'd be akward -- me, my bf, his ex... because it was obvious they were both still in love with each [they even lost their virginity to each other back in Feb] and because I'd be a tag along because I didn't know most of the people going and he did. So I trusted him that he wouldn't do anything with his ex, and if he did, then it just wasn't meant to be. Turns out she was the only girl who went, but a dozen other guys went.
Then ever since he came back from one day + night from his friends camp, he was different. Stopped calling me back, made plans to hang out with me, but then never followed through. He'd go to the movies with his firiends from the school that she goes to, but he never said she went but I'm almost positive she did ... I have reasons. He was really distant and I thought, get ready he's going to break up with you. I finally talked to him about it because it was really upsetting me and he's like, "If I didn't like you I wouldn't be dating you. It wouldn't be fair to either of us. I've just been busy with sports and my friends were getting mad because they haven't seen me all summer." His friends have seen him during the summer, but whatev, didn't argue with him, just was said it was alright.
The next night, the truth came out when he called me. He didn't tell me until over a week later. He said, "I have something to tell you, and it's not good. But I like you a lot, so you deserve to know. When I went to his camp, my ex gf started hitting on me and at first I was just ignoring her and then I started to go along with it and then we started kissing and we made out, but it was nothing serious, but I like you a lot so you deserved to know..." I was like, ".......Well, thanks for telling me. Like a week later." He said, "I just didn't know how to tell you. I'm sorry. The next time you see me, if you ever want to see me again, you can kick me in the nuts." Then I said I had to go. I got online and this is how the convo went:
him: "Hey..."
me: "what"
him: "im sorry"
me: "no you're not!"
him: "yes i am"
And that was it. Haven't talked since. It's been 2 days. None of us said we were done with, over, whatever, but is it assumed? He took out the date that we started dating in his aim profile, but his myspace still says in a relationship & I'm still on the numero uno spot and he still has "[my name] = amazing" on it. I'd really like to talk to him/bitch at him, because I never did and I'm still upset and angry. So now what? Is he just not going to talk to me again? It's not like he's waiting for me to cool down a bit or something, because I didn't really show any expression of being angry or upset. I got off the phone with him before I could. I don't really think he cares, because he is one of those guys who can't stick to one girl for a long time. His longest relationship was 4 months and that was with his ex, the girl he cheated on me with, and maybe they are back together. it seems like they were back together before me and him broke up... but I don't even know if we did break up. Maybe it's just assumed. I don't know.
The morning after he confessed, I was talking to a friend of ours. This friend is closer to my boyfriend than me, but we talked about it, this is what he said:
Me: So did you & everyone else who went to (friends name)s camp 2 weekends ago know what happened with (bf's name) and (his ex's name)? And I'm just the last to know?
Him: Who told you, and what'd they say?
Me: He did. He said they made out, but it was nothing serious & he was "sorry" and "likes me a lot"
Him: oh well i dont really know what happend cause no one really paid attention. idk thats a tough spot because i mean he obviously cares if he decided to tell you cause he could have kept it a secret but i realize that probuly still dosent make it feel any better cause one of my old g/f's made out with another guy and when i found out i was pretty mad and upset.
Me: Well if he cared he wouldn't have done it.
Him: yea i mean im not saying its right cause its not at all cause i was hurt when it happend to me so i know but me and him have had some serious talks before and he always told me how he likes serious relationships so i dont think he did it because he still likes her.
Me: i really do think he still likes her a lot, like it's really obvious but i knew that from the start i was too retarded to say anything
Him: you wernt retarded, it was wishful thinking, which happens to everyone. idk to tell you the truth and you cant tell him i told you this or ill sound mean for saying it but i cant see him with one girl. it seems like the girl that he is hanging out with at the time is his girl then it changes with the next girl he hangs out with, so i dont think its as much as he likes her just she was there and the time.
So what do I do? Obviously dump him if we're not broken up. But if he really liked me like he said he did, he'd try to fix things, right? But he's not really trying, more like acting like we never happened.. He's not doing anything to make up for it. He's not talking to me. Does it seem like he didn't really care for me? You can't fool around with another girl and say you like me! It's too contradicting! (link)
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Boy that was long. Lol.
Honestly hun, I don't think he is worth your time. I agree with you that if he really liked you he would try to fix things, but he didn't. Also the fact that he made out with his ex clearly shows that he still had a little bit of feelings for her. I kind of understand how you're feeling about him fooling around with another girl, yet he tells you he likes you. When that happened to me I realized that he wasn't worth my time and that there's another guy out there that's better for me than him. All you need is time to forget about him. You don't deserve this pain. You deserve someone better than that. I hope I helped you.
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I might be pregnant, Il find out in a couple of weeks if i miss my period or not but im so stressed out about that fact that i might be pregnant this could cause my period to be late. If i am pregnant, what do i do? I cant keep it but i wouldnt know what to do if i was to have an abortion? I cant tell my family. I feel so alone, i always cry. Please can you give me some advice. (link)
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There are other things you could do besides abortion. I don't think you should get rid of a life that you might have created. You might end up regretting ever choosing to do so. I think that if you are pregnant and unable to keep the baby, put it up for adoption. That way you wouldn't feel guilty for abortion later on in life and you would give that child a chance to live life. Also, if you do put it up for adoption, there is this thing where you are able to keep in touch with your child so he/she would know who you are instead of wondering about you and why you did what you did. You would be there to tell all. I hope I helped you.
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Some people say that money isn't everything. But is this really true? If a person makes minimum wage and can barely afford food, can that person still be happy? (link)
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Yes. If that person has someone that loves him/her then he/she would be happy. Everyone needs love in their life to be happy and you can't buy love.
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I think that I might have gotten Chlamydia because I basically have all the signs but I'm so scared to go to the doctor because I will have to tell my parents and not only will i be embarrassed I'll get in trouble..i have no idea what to do please help (link)
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Around where I live there are these clinics that teenagers can go to get tested for free for that kind of stuff. They keep it confidential so no one, even your parents, would know except for you and your doctor. I don't know if there are clinics like that where you are, but you should check around. If not then I guess you'll have to tell your parents. If you think that you have and std, you really need to go to a doctor before it gets worse. I think getting in trouble would be better than living with AIDs for the rest of your life.
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lately ive been so self concious about my nose.i think its really big and is the only thing that stands out on my face. everytime i talk to someone i think they are staring at my nose. im not gonna go and get plastic surgery or anything but is there anyway to boost my self confidence?! im 15/f and not to sound like conceited or anything but alot of people say im so gorgeous and i just dont see it! ive never had a boyfriend and i WAS crushin on this really cute kid but now he has a really really pretty girlfriend. im jealous. for some reason im jealous of so many girls! i know people have said just say your beautiful or name off your good traits but thats not gonna help ME and i know it. ahh any other suggestions? thanks. (link)
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Everyone feels self conscious about themselves sometimes. You just can't let it get to your head. Instead of finding faults about yourself, think about the things that people see in you that they think you are gorgeous.
Also, its okay to feel jealous of other girls, but just think, there are people out there that are probably jealous of you. I hope I helped you.
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I'm 13/f.My friend is 13/f too.Here's what happened:
I bought some new clothes for school.I showed my friend while she was at my house.She said my clothes were ugly.She then proceeded to go to my closet.Needless to say,she got my into giving her some pants,a nice leather jacket,a hat,and some make-up.I don't know how she does it!She just begs me for it.So,when I ask to borrow her lipgloss,she says no.I give her all this stuff(unwillingly),and she won't even let me borrow her lipgloss.and,she insults me too.She says I have no style.I want to start out fresh next year.So:Should I dump her because of this,or still be her friend? (link)
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Before you decide to dump her or keep letting her do this to you, I think you should try talking to her. Tell her how you feel about everything and that you don't like when she says something of yours is ugly yet she still asks to borrow it. If she understands where you're coming from, then you should keep her as a friend. If she doesn't get what you're saying and keeps doing what she's doing, then feel free to dump her. You don't deserve to have a friend that seems to be using you. Hope I helped you.
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I've known this guy since I was three and we have been dating since I was 15. we are totally in love. but, we havent had sex yet and I'm 21!!! Is there something wrong with me? (link)
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No there isn't anything wrong with you. Some people wait to have sex until after they're married. Just think, when you both decide to do it, your gonna be happy that you've waited cause it'll just be unbelieveable to express your feelings for each other after the long wait. Lol. I hope I helped you.
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Ok their is this guy that goes to my school he is a grade ahead of me but he always sits by me one the bus and he said i was hot and he always flirts w/ me and stuff like that so i totally thought he liked me but when my friend asked him if he liked me he said he didnt wanta go out??? whats going on>?
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Hey I had something like that happen to me once. He just likes to flirt around a lot. I think he does like you but he doesn't like you to the point where he wants to actually go out with you. You know what I mean? Hope I answered your question.
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I have no clue what to get my girlfriend for christmas. I don't want to get her makeup or cosmetics because i know nothing about that stuff, and I don't want to get her clothes because I don't know if she'd like it or what her size is. So with that said, what are some gift ideas that girls like? (link)
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I think you should get her some jewelry. Or maybe a stuffed animal. Those are some things us girls like getting from our bfs. Lol. Hope I helped you. Good luck!
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Im 15 female
A lot of my friends like to drink and smoke pot. I don't like it. I had my fun with that already, I smoked pot when i was in 6th grade and stoped when i saw my brother get locked up for it. Yeah and i had my experience with alcohol i drank and i puked my guts up and now i wont ever drink again. well at least not til im old enough. But anyway my friends are always drink like on the weekends and they always ask me to go but i just go to my boyfriends house and hang out and what not. I always find my self thinking that im better than that and i don't want to ruin my life with that stuff.
Is this normal because i always thought that teenagers will like to drink and get in trouble and just do bad stuff just to make a laugh? Am i abnormal? (link)
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Of course its normal. Most teens don't think drinking is cool. The others that do tend to end up getting into trouble and they're reputation ends up messed up. There are other ways to have fun that doesn't include drinking. You did the right thing to stop doing drugs and try to avoid them. Don't think that it's not normal. Hope I helped you.
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okay well my best friend is turning into a big pain. she always says that she's better than me and makes me feel bad and everything. she drinks a lot and has sex and everything she shouldn't be at 15. she always talks about sex and she says im a stink at parties, but she's never been to a party with me. she thinks that im stuck up because im still a virgin. what should i do? please answer. 5's for those serious people (link)
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Don't let her bring you down like that or let her pressure you into doing things you don't want to. Honestly, it seems like she's throwing her life away. Don't do the same things she does. There's plenty of time for parties and such when your older. 15 is just too young to be doing that kind of stuff. Just because you're a virgin doesn't mean you're stuck up. You just feel it better to wait. And that's good. She doesn't seem to be a good friend to you if she treats you like how you say she does. I hope I helped you.
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