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Guys at age 15
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Are there guys, around the age of 15 or 16, who just want a relationship of holding hands, kissing and making out (but not sex) anymore? I don't think I even know any guys who want relationships like that. Do I just know the wrong guys or is the majority wanting more?
Thanks! :)
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Most guys around our age are all about screwing girls because they think that if they do, that they are so cool and such. Most of them don't really care to have that kind of relationship that you described, but there are some guys out there with a sensitive, less horny side to them. We usually think that we are always choosing the wrong guys, but really, its not us, its them. Don't worry, with time, you will find the right guy. Hope I helped you.
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yeah...there is guys that are like that! but not many at this age because guys are just maturing and i guess it's just how they are lol. but keep waiting and you will find the right guy!!!
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yea therea are guys like that. but guys are made to be always horny so that they can impregnate women, and keep the species on, meaning that its a natural instince (notice that most males are honry, like male dogs)
but yea there are sensitive gguys
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yes there are guys like that. They are hard to come by. You will probably have to find a "nerd or geek" so to speak. Even so, most of us guys are looking for sex. I know only less than a handful of friends who just want a relationship or that are willing to say that. Go for a nerd or geekier kid.
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i know it seems like there aren't any like that any more, but there are. you just have to wait and find them. I know a few like that but sometimes the girls are the ones that want more than that! so yes, the majority wants more but later you will meet different guys that aren't just about sex so don't give in thinking it's the norm. <3
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there are! it's just that these times are seriously bad. with all the music that is in now, the media is promoting guys to act the way they are. other generations haven't been this bad. you look at like the 90's and things weren't even this bad. i know it sounds weird but the media has a lot to do with it! and the magazines guys read a stuff
but there still are good guys out there!!!! the kind of guys you're describing do exist! there just are tons of them that are stupid and leave us feeling without hope. but there are!
hope i helped
xoxo
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The thing is.. you're young.. but they're young too. Guys mature at least 2 years slower than girls. They're at the the thinking process you were when you were thirteen. They can't get girls off of their mind. They're just going through puberty...
I'm 20 and I'm saying just from experience.. I never met a guy that couldn't get their mind off of sex until I met the boyfriend I have now.
I enjoy being in a right relationship and being out of teenage drama. You..and other boys.. will grow out of it eventually.
The best advice I can give you is to be safe. DO NOT let the words of a boy talk you into doing something you know you shouldn't do.
I'm 20 and still a virgin. I couldn't be any happier about that.
Remember.. Good things come to those that wait
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there are. they're just hard to find. if you look hard enough, you might see one or two. see, i'm a band geek, so i hang out with all the smart boys (they're not nerds, they're just smart) and they're all pretty cool about stuff like that. the majority is probably wanting more, but there are guys that really don't care about that kind of stuff.
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Hey,
i read your problem , and i totally agree about the fact that most of the boys now in that age are all obssessed about sex,smoking and drugs. They just like to hit on girls and date the slutty ones.
One the other hand, there are respectable boys who like respectable girls, but i guess that they are rare these days.lol.
But don't worry, you are not knowing the wrong guys, and its not something that your doing wrong,but if you try and look for other guys, you'll have to find some who don't care about his shit.
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sadly there isnt.they all think they are mature anough to have sex but theyre NOT.they all see their freinds doing it so they copy them.at times freinds pressure themselves into doing it they tell eachother what are you gay your 16 and still a virgin.so.....there isnt
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I suppose there is still guys around that do enjoy that and i agree it is very special jus to sit and holfd youre partener and let their warmth make you feel close.
But i have 2 disagree also and not because ima guy i dont always think of sex but it is also enjoyable with someone you love and apreciate.
I love to hold hands and go long walk and be all vicotrian times romantic but i also enjoy making LOVE to my girlfriend which is what makes it great. This is only an opini9on but i hope i eleviated youre thought a little.
Anthony
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